Religious people can be annoying

@Aja103654 (5646)
Philippines
January 6, 2012 8:41am CST
Those religious people will probably hate me for this. But I have to be frank, God talks can be annoying. I'm not saying it's a bad thing to talk about God. It's good. But it gets boring when one always talks about the same things. Stating theories and bible contents all the time but barely gives any practical information along with it. People who always talks that they believe this, believe that... but... that's it. I don't like to think that people like talking about God, but rarely talks about applying what is taught to them by the bible or God's teachings. Woah, I can't help thinking this... Just saying. It's kinda odd why I feel like this. It has become a pet peeve. God is great and everything, no argument there. Can you help me understand why I'm feeling like this? Do you people feel the same way I do? Friendly reminders: No flaming. This is a discussion, not a debate to see who is right and who is wrong. Not a place to impose your beliefs on others and telling them what you believe is right and what they believe in is wrong. Everyone is entitled to have their own beliefs and share it, we ought to respect each others beliefs.
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9 responses
• Philippines
6 Jan 12
I agree with you. This kind of topic is not about religion per se but this is for the people who would really say all about God. What I mean is that you'll be pestered when you hear someone "God has another plan for you", "God will bless you more". It's kinda bit a nuisance if they'll always mention the name of God.
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@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
7 Jan 12
LOL, yes! They're like a walking bible or something. I'm sure their religious books have a lot of good things to teach but they should be telling us something more useful. When someone says things from a text in the bible or any religious book they are using, it makes me feel that they don't really understand me but merely trying to be a religious robot who frequently gives you reminders. Just wanted to say that they should add something that is from their own heart and mind, rather than repeating words from a book.
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• United States
6 Jan 12
I don't believe in just one god but i try to be open minded about it. i don't like be preached to. I found that most people can not just talk it's the biggest topic in the world and no one see things the same. it should be respected but it tends not to be. I do feel smiler to how u worded this. I think People should be ok with differences it's what makes the world great. Like some people can cook some can wright. but you can not have one with out the other it takes lots of people to make a community. with that said it also means that we need to respect each other. we need to try to under stand each other to be odd "walk a mile in some Else's shoes"
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@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
7 Jan 12
exactly!!! (o
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@djbtol (5493)
• United States
6 Jan 12
Christians and other religious can be wonderful people and very sincere in their beliefs. Even so, they are still human like everyone else. Here are some reasons why they are sometimes annoying. When a person has a sincere, new-found faith they are often amazed at what they are learning and surprised that they have never heard it before. Like most people, when we have something in our life that is exciting, we want to talk to everyone about it. Some people are in the habit of discussing religious (spiritual) issues. They prefer to do this as opposed to discussing the nitty gritty problems of the real world we live in. Yes, religion can be used as an escape from the unpleasant parts of our day to day lives. Whenever we are doing most of the talking in a conversation, we need to ask ourselves if that is appropriate. Usually, we should be doing more listening than talking. Any person can forget to make this assessment.
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@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
7 Jan 12
thanks, djbtol. Well... now that you mention that, it is normal for someone to talk about his interest, it gets boring in the long run though. It's those religious people that always do the talking and doesn't listen to others that really really annoys me.
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@agent807 (751)
• United States
7 Jan 12
I understand where you are coming from. Sometimes, the conversations do get old. I don't like it when someone wants to quote a bible scripture to me, and I have no idea what they are talking about. It does no good to quote anything verbatim if you not help your listener understand what it means. Now, I don't have a problem with religion, or having religion in your life. That's fine. It doesn't work for me. The problem I have is when people are bent on shoving it down my throat. I don't shove my thoughts or beliefs down your throat. I know a lot of people that do this on a regular basis. I gave it a try, but it is something that I didn't like, mostly because I didn't understand it. It is probably ignorance on my part. To me, it feels like a sign of conformity, and I am not the type of person to conform. I never understood how they let someone or something dictate their life, and everything they do. It almost feels like slavery to me, but if that path has granted you a good life and all good things, then that's fine. I lost quite a few friends because they found out I didn't go to church, therefore something was wrong with me. I tried church, but it wasn't something I felt I could connect with. Also, for personal reasons, I have been barred from five churches in my area. Because of my ignorance in this area, I avoid those kind of topics. If someone speaks about it, I will listen. I try not to respond because I think anything I may say would be offensive, and condescending.
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@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
8 Jan 12
Oh my, that's extreme! Haha, If I lived in your area I would probably be with you, since I don't go to church either. Reason? I'm lazy and I don't to what the priest is saying anyway. I prefer having my own private and silent prayers, because they are sincere and I think this is what God really wanted from people: sincerity. How could they treat you like an outcast? I believe Jesus would have been frowning at those idiots who turned their backs on you. I remember in the bible that Jesus approached the outcasts, the lepers and healed them, treated them like he would treat anybody else. Tsch, they may have gone to church more often than I did but at least I did not forget about that story. Can't blame you, agent. I just hope that you will meet real good people, not hypocrites like those people you have mentioned.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
8 Jan 12
-I meant: I don't listen to what the priest is saying anyway-
@Triple0 (1904)
• Australia
7 Jan 12
I'm Christian too but I don't talk about my beliefs at all. There are people who are little too passionate about their religion to the point they will try to bring it up in almost every conversation. That's why in my country, religion is never involved in any news or in the media. All the talk about God I can get from church already, one whole hour seems a lot to me but also to have people preach to me again! I have a friend who is pretty passionate and it does get pretty annoying sometimes. She tends to judge everyone, from music to what you believe in. She's pentecostal, meaning she sings her beliefs through music. I have my own Christian beliefs too but some of my friends are also Buddhist or atheist so I hardly ever bring up my religion in conversations because there will be disagreements and what's the fun in that? I believe that religion is a personal thing and we shouldn't bring it up too much to other people who are non believers. Some religious people get a little too serious in what other people believe.
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@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
8 Jan 12
Haha, how true! I feel you, triple0! I have a friend like that, too! She's a very good friend but I find it annoying sometimes when she starts becoming too passionate about God. She told me that her prayers were granted most of the time. But that one time when one of her prayer was not granted, she began to have doubts. Hehe, she's kind of God's spoiled brat. You know, people who always try to be good and do good things and when something bad or sad happens to them they began to sort of demand justice. Why is God making them suffer when they deserved something more? -sigh- I call it: pride.
@telmesh (1793)
6 Jan 12
I don't pretend to know what your really trying to say here unless it is that you have had enough of people trying to force their views on you. If that is the case then those people don't realise that if the people they are talking to don't believe as they do no amount of forceful talk will change them. It is said that 2 discussions that should never be had by people of opposing views are religion and politics.http://www.mylot.com/images/emotes/thumbup.gif
• United States
6 Jan 12
That's what they say Telmesh, but to me, what else is there? But I usually respond, rather than initiate the conversation/discussion..
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@telmesh (1793)
6 Jan 12
Don't think I will say any more unless Aja wants to come back and comment.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
7 Jan 12
yep. I think that may be it. I've had enough of people trying to force their views on my. -sigh- Those kind of people usually start fights, i don't like those.
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@veganbliss (3895)
• Adelaide, Australia
7 Jan 12
Yes, that's fair enough to feel that way. Too often we find discussions on theories, beliefs & lots of Bible quotes, but very little practical applications for day to day living. People seem content just to discuss these things without taking them one step further. Often, we also find there are multiple "camps" established in such discussions, like the "I agree" camp, which goes so far as to point out the areas they agree on, but that's where it ends, sadly. Then there's the "I disagree" camp which often has a problem with the whole line of reasoning of the topic opener. They say why they disagree & on which points, but become exhausted with the effort & practical realities do not get discussed either, or it may be too uncomfortable for such things to be raised. There are occaisionally others which have a whole other approach to the topic, which is good if you like a story & it sort of breaks things up a bit & changes (maybe!) our way of looking at the issue. Then there are the jokers who take a more liberal, light-hearted approach to the whole thing, which can be done very well, but sometimes can backfire. Perhaps it's laziness, or lack of creativity in these particular discussions, or maybe people are so busy trying not to offend others that no real progress can be made. So here's your chance.... what sort of discussions exactly would you like to have on here? What sorts of topics within these categories would you like to see? Give us some examples. Show us how you'd like us to respond to some existing discussions so that you'd be interested in participating.
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@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
7 Jan 12
Yes, yes, yes!!! Those people who merely do lip service and hardly ever takes a step further, like really applying their beliefs and putting them to good use for everyone to benefit from it! Lack of creativity and laziness, yes, those are annoying. They become so redundant that what they are saying losses its meaning. Okay. I want a discussion where God's teaching is applied. A person with many experiences where his faith is put to practice! Now that's interesting! Experience after all is the best teacher! Not a book! Theories are only as worthy as how they are used practically in the real world.
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@tiffnkeat (1673)
• Singapore
7 Jan 12
The fundamental question to ask yourself is what is the be-all and end-all for you being on earth. Is this just a stroll to enjoy and disappear into thin air thereafter, or an opportunity to learn about your Maker and see how He would want you to be reconciled to Him and do His will. God talk is boring, but life without God can be dangerous. Don't just God-talk. Talk with God instead. It might be more interesting.
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@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
7 Jan 12
Yes, very boring indeed! It's the God talks from other people that annoy me, not God. We all have our own way expressing our faith in something or someone, that's understandable. some people, like me, pray quietly in a corner with God and we are happy enough doing that. But please... please, those God talkers, they ought to know when to stop!
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• Philippines
10 Jan 12
You know, you have feeling that because Satan can use that weakness, you said you don't want to hear talking about God. I am always sharing the true God to glorify Him and and for the good of people.You have feeling of saying that because satan is always there behind you and speak says do not like those people who talk God.Satan don't want people to listen God but to Satan alone...! Those who are truly saved,believe God always welcome to hear Gods message..
• Philippines
16 Jan 12
The Bible is talking about those who does not believe will face eternal damnation,John3:16,17,18,36.. Some people pretend,knowing God but the heart is wicked evil and calling God but God is not hearing them because they are not true His Child..Matthew 7:21..And you can know the person and if you know about what the Bible says about those anti Christian so called..
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
16 Jan 12
Okay. Though I'm more interested to know your own views on here befrind, not just writings we can find in a book.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
12 Jan 12
Satan, huh? Maybe he is whispering this and that, believe me, I'm trying my best to ignore him LOL. It's not really the God talk, I think that makes me tired, it's the person who is talking about God that I don't like. There are some people who talk about God and manage not to sound annoying. Not like some people who assume things and calls people Satan worshipers or whatsoever just because they don't like listening to some people who talk about God in an annoying way. According to the bible, I might be sent to hell the way I am behaving, but at least I don't pretend like some people who are scared to be in hell and so try to be good while inside they really desire to be evil.