Love Marriage Or Arrange Mariage

India
January 10, 2012 2:50pm CST
What will you do if you are in love and wanted to do love marriage and you parents force to do arrange marriage..... either you will do arrange marriage or love marriage
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14 responses
• United States
10 Jan 12
If I was in love with someone and my parents force me into marriage with some person I don't know, I would tell my parents to shove it and married the person I love. marrying the person you love will bring you happiness. Marrying a person you don't know will not bring you happiness at all. I just think it's wrong for parents to force their children to marry to a person they want instead of what their children are in love with.
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• India
11 Jan 12
seriosly you did'nt tell the parents to shoved...
@dodo19 (47102)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
10 Jan 12
I will always choose love marriage over arranged marriage. I understand that some cultures will still have arranged marriages, which is fine. However, I just prefer love marriages.
@Galena (9110)
11 Jan 12
shouldn't their child being with someone that they love for the rest of their life be most important to the family?
• India
11 Jan 12
yes, i belongs to india and here culture is most important for family.............
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
7 Feb 12
I have often wondered what it would be like to have a marriage arranged for me. I guess it would take a lot of stress out of the whole dating thing. Arranged marriages are not a common practice here in the United States, so I can’t say that I have any real experience with the issue. I have seen it in a couple of movies, but that is about it. I guess an arranged marriage could work in the people involved gave it time, and I am pretty sure they could even grow to love each other over time as well. I would have to give the issue some thought before I would agree to enter into an arranged marriage, but I would actually not be totally opposed to the idea. I would have to be attracted to the woman right away though…
@Olleenz (3398)
• Indonesia
10 Jan 12
I'll choose anything which more profitable to me .... sorry, jokes It my future life, I had my own choice. If my arrange partner is pretty chick and I don't have girlfriend at that time, why not. But if at time I already had girlfriend, I'll gonna stick with her, no matter what
• India
11 Jan 12
yeah thats a spirit man.... i will do the same....
@bb_gabs (205)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
I will still choose the love marriage, even if we all know that our parents only wants the best for us, it is still us, both parties (bride and groom) who will make the relationship work. If you will just marry because your parents want to, then, it will be hard for you. Having a partner that others chose you to live for the rest of your life is very hard, and maybe it will soon end with a divorce. Its just a waste of time, effort and money I think.
• India
11 Jan 12
no,who said arrange marriage will come to divorce.... in arrange marriage there is some problem in starting but as the time passes we create our love.....
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
14 Jul 12
Hi, I would like to do love marriage. I would go against my parents because they should understand my feelings. But luckily my parents are not like this. I am not in love with anyone. But If I am in love I am sure my parents would not force me to do arranged marriage.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
10 Jan 12
only a love marriage, we only have one life so I would only commit that live to someone I loved, it would be awful to live without that wonderful feeling.
@Galena (9110)
11 Jan 12
if anyone tried to FORCE me to marry anyone, I would have nothing more to do with them. that's disgusting behaviour. I can't see any point in marrying someone you don't love. seriously. why? why marry someone you don't love? there is no point. love is such a special thing that you can't just put two people together and hope it happens, and if it doesn't, tough, you're together anyway
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
10 Jan 12
I think that i would rather be in a love marriage than an arranged one. I guess it would be depressing having to marry someone you might not even know and chosen by your parents than being with the person you love and have many interests for the rest of your life.
@boyuancy (1708)
• India
12 Jan 12
I will say no to both the marriages. Ultimately, my parents would give up. There was a similar discussion, you might wanna check out: http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2619579.aspx
• India
10 Jan 12
I'd say love marriage because marrying someone you know for a long time and whom you love is the best thing that can happen in life.
@sumatix (257)
• United Arab Emirates
21 Jan 12
Each and every person has his own priority so this decision completely depends on the person .the best is to have a mix of both. but only some couples are lucky enough to have that most of the times they have to choose out one.
@sumatix (257)
• United Arab Emirates
21 Jan 12
Each and every person has his own priority.
@jeetking (190)
10 Jan 12
According to me love marriage because its better to have known ghost than an unknown devil.