What do you do with a friend who's broken hearted?

@vycess (1588)
Saudi Arabia
January 14, 2012 3:52am CST
My friend who is been searching for years have fallin to someone but now her heart hurts. I'm happy when she is happy because It's what's keeping me to stay positive to for my own hopes. Do you get it? If she will be happy, I'm thinking I can too but now she is broken hearted and want to help.
6 responses
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
hi, i think the best way to help our friend who experiencing broken hearted is companion and of course the comfort that come from us,actually that kind of friends need more to talk so that she/he gradually let him/her out her/his broken hearted feelings.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
22 Feb 12
Just always keep in touch on her no matter what happened. Do not leave her. When you are together just always tell jokes that can make her forget all the sadness that she feel right now.Don't show to her that you also feel sad because of what is happening to her. You can also invite her to go shopping or go in a park so she will find something that can entertain her even in a short period of time.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
18 Jan 12
Some people live their lives through their friends. Or other people they know. When one sees another happy, or get lucky, they can become hopeful that something similar could happen to them. I think you're this kind of person. Now if you can give her some kind words to help heal her heart, then maybe she can live through you. And see how strong you are.
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
14 Jan 12
I am saddened to what happened to your friend. I am sure she is having a hard time to accept the truth. As a friend, please be there for her always. Comfort her and do something which will ease her heartbreak.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
14 Jan 12
So actually you say: my friend needs to be happy so I will feel happy? Which means you are not really the sunshine type and need someone to cheer you up? How about you feeling happy and make your friend feel happy that way? It's not that hard to feel happy at all once you decide to be happy and do everything in your power to make that happen. Personally I would not like to have a friend I always have to cheer up, for whom I always have to be happy because otherwise she is always down. This all sounds like bad energy. I think it's your turn now to make your friend happy and keep her busy so her mind is not always busy with the broken heart.
14 Jan 12
Positive word and encouragement and having a vacation is one best thing to do