Why a mother cries

India
March 10, 2012 6:08am CST
I attended our weekly meeting in the temple near my home. One lady told how her son is behaving after he got married; he along with her daughter in law are torturing her; but she is tolerating all, because she is ‘mother’. Our Guru there said this story. A baby asked her mom, why you cry; the answer was I cry because I am mother. Next she asked her dad, why mom is crying unnecessarily, the answer was, all mothers cry unnecessarily. Confused she asked God, the answer was, and crying is a unique characteristic of all mothers, the cry of mother is very strong, it can lift all loads and burdens on the earth, she is ocean of kindness, and she can tolerate everything. She can tolerate the delivery pain, the pain her kids, hubby, family members give her in any form. She ties all members together with an invisible thread. Her heart is very delicate but at the same time very strong. God reminded her of the story of a mother and her son. The son cut head of her mother, holding it by hand, he was going to throw in a gutter, his leg accidentally fell on a stone; he failed down; he heard a voice;’ son take care, are you hurt’; this came from the cut head he was holding. [b]Guess this applies to most mothers, we cry because we are mother.’ What you say? Please respond, share your valued opinions.[/b] Kalyani God bless you 10/3/2012
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7 responses
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 Mar 12
I tend to think that it is more of a case of I cry because I'm human. I cried with joy on the day that both of my children were born and also on the day that I got married. I cry with sorrow when someone that is close to me leaves this life and I know that I will not see them again for a long time. I cry because the kids and my husband sometimes frustrate me and I also cry because they've been hurt or are ill. All of these reasons for crying is simply because of the fact that I'm human and I really do feel my emotions.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
13 Mar 12
Dear Ma I am happy, here the mother’s cry is considered as the strength of the mother. A mother is a person who sacrifices her whole life for her kids. She is concerned about the children’s welfare all the time. It is really unfortunate when her kids behave to her very badly.
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
11 Mar 12
i guess moms get this crazy expressions all the time. though they are what we call the strong pillar of a home, we know how soft their feelings are for children and everything around them. i just wonder if most moms have taught their children the same so their children could apply the same when they in turn have their own families to take care of. ann
• India
13 Mar 12
Like you have said the mother is source of strength and invisible thread binding the family. But today's generation is indifferent in their attitude towards their mother and sometimes even call them bothersome and irritating. But they will understand when they become a mother. Even our sastras say that whatever good you do will not count when you hurt your mother or give them pain. Happy mylotting.
• South Africa
13 Mar 12
Yes, mothers cry all the time. They cry when they are happy..but it is so painful to hear a cry of a distraught mother.. A mother's heart is forever forgiving. I am a mother to a one year old and feel so sad everytime my toddler falls when trying to walk..I personally do not know where I would be if it were not for my mother. Maybe I would be a hooker standing on a street corner..I thank God for the mother he has given me.
@harini23 (84)
• India
11 Mar 12
Really mother is a gift given by a god.She takes care of everything.She will scarifies everything for her family.Without her we cant imagine happy family at all.I love my mother so much.If I got hurt by any situation, first my mother will cry.That much she loves me.
• United States
11 Mar 12
I think if you are a mother you will shed a bucket of tears before the end of life comes. Not just until the child grows up, but until we are gone from this earth. There are times when we cry when we are happy and when we are sad… and when our grown child hurts us with their words. So many times I have cried but I keep it to myself.