I have a Love Problem :'(

If he used to do all those things then suddenly he stops, them most probably he has turned his attention to something else or there is something going on with his life. Try not to conclude anything right now, give him sometimes and I believe if something is happening, you will be able to find out soon.

Did the two of you made agreements about what to tell the other? It sounds like me as if you want to control every step he takes. Personally it would kill me and I would surely try to escape from you. I wonder if all these ideas in your head are not making the situation worser as it really is. If so it will ruin your relationship for sure. If you really think (objectively) that he changed in the past few ... then it's the time to sit together and talk about it. Before you have this chat think over first what you want. Is it fine for you to keep your friend and play stupid and blind and be heartbroken time after time? Or do you find yourself a great person who deserves better?

girls always worry about what their boy friend is doing,did he eat etc. We always sit and think about them and bothes about them. But dont worry. Guys are really cool and they know to take care of them. So dont worry yourself and hurt him too.

It sounds like your boyfriend is ignoring or neglecting you, is it? Maybe he is just too busy that he forget those common things he used to do. Just give him another chance, talk with him and clear these things. If you feel that he doesn't love you anymore, you have to accept the reality- that's one fact of every relationship, not all relationship are meant to last forever. I hope your case is not like that, hope for the best after you have talked with him.

Hi there cearn25, The best way to address this issue is to address the issu to your guy, being a guy and had been in a long relationship myself , we wanna know what the problem is ( we can be insensitive sometimes ) so just ask him nicely about the problem, tell him how you want things to change and how this will hurt you if he continues his way, if he doesnt wanna even try to make little changes at a time then dump him . The guy is no good.

cean i think there is something wrong with your`e boyfriend .he was in the relationship so he need to be open,and honest with you. i guess you need to talk to him seriously and tell him what all you want to say ,believe me in this one "boys are good liers ,you must to think of it if you still want to be with him even if he doesn`t have time with you . my advice is dont love too much ,because love gives you only limitation .. i hope you understand what im trying to say ,cheer up my friend .. :)

Hello cearn25, as far as I read your comments above, I guess you already had a talk with your boyfriend with regard to this matter. This kind of situation really happens mostly to all. Forgetting to text is okay, but if he constantly forgets to text you, then it might sound like he does not care anymore about you. As a boyfriend, he has an obligation to know how you are doing this day, same thing with you, you have an obligation to know how he is doing. Constant communication is really important for a healthy relationship. Regardless of what I say, I am sure your boyfriend had already explained his side regarding this matter to you and it sounds like you already forgave him. That's good. I hope from now on everything would really turn out okay from your end. You take good care and GOD bless.

If u have problems, talk to him. IF he refuse to listen, leave him. HE's taking u for granted and if u are not happy, leave the relationship. It's that simple I believe he doesn't really feel for u anymore or he has already found someone new, that's why he's kinda ignoring u at the moment If he still feel for you, he would listen to u, put himself in your situation and think. Do talk to him, from there u will get all your answers as well as decisions

I suggests that you really have to discuss that matter with you boyfriend. I understand how you are feeling right now for I had been on that situation just a month ago. It was disappointing and heartbreaking however for some reason you ought to know the truth, the reason behind those actuation.

hi there. you should talk with your boyfriend and clear it up. ask him if he still love you and why he is acting that way. open communication is very important in every relationship. you need to spend more time together to prevent drifting apart. if you can fix things out then better and he should cooperate with you. you should not work alone in relationship. both of you should work for it to stay long. i hope you can make things okay when after your talk.

Okay, i think he is busy or else doing.Maybe there is something wrong.If you want.you can talk to him about to tell you wherever he go,and you need to know about him more. You can't easy to trust people in these days,you need to be careful..But don't loose hope,you can talk about the problems and if you know the he is not interested,acting different,don't give fully trust to Him.

Hi! regarding to your question " what will you do regardng to your boyfriend" i just want to share something about a friend of mine who just the same situation you have.. Her boyfriend always avoiding her. Everytime she ask "where are you, what you doing and etc question." her boyfriend just say ok, just a minute, i'm here with a friend; so oneday she realize that this is enough; she try to stop texting her boyfriend,she ignored all the calls & msgs. Its hard for her to do all those things because she love the guy. But its working. the guy was nw confuse why her girlfriend was not calling her or even sending her a text msgs.. so he try to look for a way or reasons why her girlfriend is now avoiding her.. i'm not saying that you need to follow what my friend do, just try. if not working then try another one. if still not working. give him space....

Do not think too much. It's normal for us girls to be worried about our boyfriend's actions, but we must not be paranoid if he's doing something different from usual. Don't be mad about those things that only your mind has created. Talk to him about how you feel and what you think about his actions recently and be open to accept and understand him. Be rational. Show him that you are a woman who love, care and understand him. That way, if ever he's really doing something wrong, his conscience will awake him.

don't think to much about that, calm your self, may be he just have a big problem, all you have to do is make a conversation to your boyfriend and tell him whats yours problem to him, for you and his to make things clear, so you don't confused about that,, & also don't fall in love too much, it just hurting you.. always opened your mind that possible to happen, give your self a space so you can get hurt as much.. say to your boyfriend what you want, love is about give & take.. Say it to him so he will listen to you, Goodluck in your relationship i hope it will help your love life..

hi if you are just his girlfrie nd why should he have to check in and out with you all the time? if you love him you should trust him and look men do not like to be checked on every five or six hours like that. would you like it if a friend called on you four or five times just to know what you are doing? Has he given you any reason not to trust him? Maybehe is trying to tell you do not be so distrusting that you have to know everything he is doing as he is no married to you.You do not make sense wanting him to text you when he is sleeping.If you were living together I could understand your concern but apart you are making a mountain out fo a molehill.love,trust and respect all go together.

What you have to recognise is that, time for love depends on the ease of life. If life is hard, more time is spent thinking how to sort things out, therefore losing time spent together. If life is easy, he can stop thinking and start spending happy time with you. That's the reality of life. If knowledge can be downloaded under a short time, he won't have to introspect but that is just unrealistic. Let go your suspicions and learn to trust your bf.

Do you suspect that he's into another girl? Did you try talking to him already? In every relationship, communication and trust are the two things that are important. YOu need to talk to him. The reason why he's acting like there's no problem is maybe you haven't told him how awful you feel being treated that way. If you did and he still continues to act that way then just let go.

Same things happened with me. All boys are same . i don know why they act it so easily.. even sometimes they try to established that they are rue and right.. this kind of behavior really hurts a lot..

I think at first you discuss your problem with your boyfriend. I think it works. Have a nice day.

If he use to text you and tell you everything he does or anywhere he goes, and suddenly he stopped doing it, I think he is seeing someone. Why don't you ask him about it? And tell him what you feel.