i promise to - respond to all of your responses

@jazel_juan (15767)
Philippines
March 19, 2012 3:33am CST
i am so bad at this lately.. i cannot find the time to mylot..and if i am on mylot, i can only browse and reply and make discussions but i cannot focus on replying to all of those who respond to mine. and i feel bad about this!
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@SIMPLYD (78631)
• Philippines
19 Mar 12
Take your time jazel. Respond back when you have the time and in the mood for it. It is important that we are in the mood, not obligated when we respond back to the respondents of our discussion. That way, you can choose if you want it to be interactive.
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
19 Mar 12
yes because when i am not in the mood, i tend to be less interactive..and i cannot find the words to say
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@SIMPLYD (78631)
• Philippines
19 Mar 12
It's because you just responded out of obligation.
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@sajeevking (5080)
• Mumbai, India
19 Mar 12
the simple way to overcome this is not starting a discussion when you are sure that you won't be able to reply back Not always though we can respond back whenever we want to even after months but we must always reply back.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
20 Mar 12
aww thinking that i wont be able to reply doesn't come into my mind actually, i do want to respond back just that time doesn't allow me..and that won't stop me from starting a discussion...
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@Hatley (164671)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Mar 12
jazel sorry to harp on this but sta rtring discussions knowing you do not have time to comment back is that not unfair to us who take our time and effort to give you our responses? I do not make discussions until I have time to comment back. don't you get it that you are not making anything if you just make discussion after discussion and do not comment back, do you want us to just leave your discussion alone as we are not forced to respond to people who do not have time nor want to comment back. I feel that if we put in time and care to respond we are owed something in return. too you make zero on our responses in mylot.you have to comment back to make any money at all on your discussions.its better to get caught up before making new ones. I know as I have experienced all this for five years here.
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
20 Mar 12
It is ok Hatley atleast i know how you guys feel about it.. i really do feel bad when i cannot comment back immediately.. it feels like i am neglecting other people.. well i do try my best to come back immediately to check on the responses
@cearn25 (3460)
• Philippines
19 Mar 12
Don't get too disappointed my friend. Even I wouldn't able to respond all the myLotters who makes comments on the discussions I have started. But I make sure that I will be able to respond although it will be late already.
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
21 Mar 12
yes i do try to make sure i respond to them even though it is a bit late...umm like this one..
@cearn25 (3460)
• Philippines
21 Mar 12
Yes, exactly! Thanks for the response my friend. Though it is late it is still worth it. I am willing to wait for your response.
• Philippines
19 Mar 12
don't be! it's ok and nobody will kick you out of mylot for that. i mean... i don't respond to all the comments... why? well some of it's isn't that eye catching or simple interesting. if it's self explaining and i have non to add so why add. that would be such a bull... so don't feel bad my friend if you don't. it's not a sin! happy mylotting!
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
19 Mar 12
glad someone says it isn't a sin! it feels like it
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@Hatley (164671)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Mar 12
luntian its no crime but what if I respond to you and get no comment why should I take my time and effort if you do not care to comment., its your discussion? if you do not want to discuss your discussion with us mylotters why make it? I do not have to respond to some who says they seldom comment as I do not waste my time that way.I have had that done to me too many times. this works both ways.,no law says we must respond to luntian or anyone else and sincey you do not care to coment to all why should we bother to respond?
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@bunnybon7 (35893)
• Holiday, Florida
19 Mar 12
i know. i think its because we get distracted by so many other discussions that its hard to get back right away to our own and what we was thinking of then. ive learned just to wait a while and go back and respond to mine when im thinking of that again. i noticed some people do that. ive waited so long for a comment on my response at times, ive forgotten i even responded to it hope i made sense in this response/comment, whatever. so dont stress. you will get back to it, im sure.
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
20 Mar 12
hahaha i sure did get what you mean bunny.. i feel that way too sometimes..
@neildc (17254)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
19 Mar 12
i don't think you have to feel guilty about this. i can say that if this is a sin, we are all guilty about this.
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
21 Mar 12
you do too?
@Hadame (194)
• Indonesia
19 Mar 12
because it is called discussion, so it is much better that we respond others opinion... well, it is just my opinion... :lol:
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
20 Mar 12
but i get delayed for offline reasons
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• Philippines
19 Mar 12
Don't be sorry, just take your time and enjoy mylotting. Besides, we are paid with what we typed, it's not the loss of anyone who respond to your topic, but your loss. So i am sure, the responders won't feel bad :) What matters is, you are always have time to visit and share some updates with your friends and other mylotters :)
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
20 Mar 12
yes as much as possible i visit here to see what other people are doing..how are they doing and the like.. i really do not see how much i am paid or not..
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• Japan
19 Mar 12
Hi jazel, don't be sorry it's ok, if you have enough time to respond then do it then if not you can always come back later and respond back to them. I do respond to my discussion too but sometimes I don'tI am being bad too haha
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
19 Mar 12
hahaha.. well i guess i am not alone on this one
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• Japan
19 Mar 12
hahaha definitely,
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@Hatley (164671)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Mar 12
hi I too cannot always do it all in one day but I keep coming back as I feel its a slap in the face to us who respond with our time and nobody comments back. I do comment back to all but it does takes some time. I do care about the time and effort you all put into responding to my discussions so I will give you all a comment in time.
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@Hatley (164671)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Mar 12
hi jazel juan at least you care. when I get in a pinch like this I just do what I can , unlike your first respndent I feel its a must to comment back to ea ch person.this respndetnent did not think so but mylot admins says to do it and if we know that a lot of r espondents like your first are going tol pick and choose why should I take time out to respond if the poster will not discuss her dciscussin with me. I will just cross that person off my mental list and will never respond to her discussions. it is so easy to make a whjole lot of discussions thern not have time to comment back if you get huge number.so I soft pedal making discussions unitl I am all caught up on any outstanding responses and then just make one. that one I can handle by commenting back as they come in. that way doing a few is no hardship at all.so stop on the making discussions until yuou have time to respond to any responses yuou get. I hope you remember you do not make anymoney from our responses unless you do comment back onthem.you type you get paid,I type I get paid.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
20 Mar 12
Thank you for that Ms. Hatley.. honestly, i really do not look at the payment part. its just the fun for me. But i do feel bad when i cannot respond back to the people who respond to my discussions.. that is why i promise i will get back the soonest i can! it is like they are making an effort and i am not even acknowledging it.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
20 Mar 12
jazel, mylot member understand. it was okay
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@KrauseHome (35025)
• United States
6 Jan 13
Oh how I hear you on this one my friend. It is hard to be able to keep up with everyone here who responds back in the New discussions you start. I find myself always behind, but doing the Best I can to catch up.
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
7 Jan 13
Yes that is why right now i am taking my time answering those who answered my discussions and i tell you it is hard to keep track of it sometimes lol
@laydee (12814)
• Philippines
20 Mar 12
I know how you feel, I have been feeling the same way over the past couple of months too. It seems that I can only have time to read through them and no longer have that much time to respond to the topics I have started or opened. Anyhow, I'd say don't fret too much about them. Most of the people here are like us and they don't really care if you read the responses, what's important to them is that they could respond and earn some few cents. Hehehehe.. Further, remember that these responses don't really get deleted once the person who started the discussion don't reply to them. You have a lot of time to catch up from all the discussion you've started once your schedule is no longer very busy. I think everyone understands our situation afterall, nobody does MyLot on a full time basis, right? So, take it easy and have a great MyLot experience today!
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
21 Mar 12
yes taking it one at a time..replying one a time right? if only i am on full time basis..but sad to say i am not lol but atleast i know people still understand.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
20 Mar 12
its okay jazel.. dont push your self for responding here if your mind is not fresh.. we need fun here..and fun can we get when our brain and mind is OK
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
21 Mar 12
yes if i push myself too much there isn't anything good comes out
@ifa225 (11099)
• Indonesia
19 Mar 12
dont worry... just stay busy and enjoy we will wait for you here
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
20 Mar 12
yes thank you!