can you buy a friend? why not?

@atwilson (540)
Indonesia
March 26, 2012 5:49am CST
without money, friend goes away, it is one statement of my friend. How do you deal with this guys? is it true that friend could be bought? why?
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@dazzledlady (1618)
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
Yes, I believe friends can be bought but not true friends. It is always advantageous to have rich and influencial friends. They can surely be of help when you're in need of money or other contacts. But if you have ulterior motives, you might end up using each other. Some people stick to the rich and famous because of the benefits . If you are the rich one then learn to know who are your true friends. If you sre on the other side, be careful !
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Mar 12
but if you are using these so called friends with wealth then'you are not a f riend at all but just a user and should be ashamed of yourself for doing that. I once had a very we althy friend but I never asked her for money or help and when she tried to buy my friendship I told her I did not want to use her as a bank.I had a job and if I could not buy somethine i waited til I could.she seemed hurt that I would not take her money bu t if I had I w ou ld have felt ashamed of myself.,Friends help one other true but do not se one other as banks.
@atwilson (540)
• Indonesia
28 Mar 12
AS you said Friends help one other true but do not see one other as banks, I like that point. But nowadays is so hard to find the true friend. Do you have one? two? or more? thanks anyway. :)
@9jbas22 (66)
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
We can't buy friends. Friendship is mutual understanding, mutual trust, mutual compassion between the two parties. Those values can't be bought, they are developed. Those friends who go away when you have no more money are not friends. They are companions and those are who you can buy.
@atwilson (540)
• Indonesia
28 Mar 12
In other side i agree with you, but i also disagree. With friend, we can borrow and lend money anyway, right? it is in reality today. But i do not know if you think so.. thanks anyway. :)
@tonyllenium (6252)
• Italy
28 Mar 12
in reality it is true that you 'buy' freinds or better new friends but they are false friends normally so people that you can't trust at all deals with your serious advice in life because they feel interest for you deriving from an economical point of view..so not really trusted!!
• Italy
28 Mar 12
yes unlucklyit is as so...even if there are also people who are real friend excluding money and other things in life...may be it is for this reason that many think that you can know many people but really a few can be areal friend!
@atwilson (540)
• Indonesia
29 Mar 12
Yes Tony. i do believe it. have you ever experienced it anyway? maybe you can share me.. hehe. If you do not mind. :) thanks anyway.
@atwilson (540)
• Indonesia
28 Mar 12
Yes, i look at the reality. It is so hard to say why people now tend to love money than friend. I hope it will not spread too much. Thank you anyway. :)
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Mar 12
hi if a person can be bought then that person is not your friend,. real frie nds are priceless and you cannot buy them, you have to make them instead. to have a friend you first must be one yourself.People are living breathing persons not inanimate objexts. while you can buy ser vices or goods you cannot buy friendship. true friendship is given freely and spontaneously not bought. users and abusers can be bought but they are never your friends. Your friend's logic is totally wrong and screwed up.
@atwilson (540)
• Indonesia
28 Mar 12
Hi Hatley. Yes true friends are priceless. But is it possible to find the true friend without money? I think money can change everything. Thank you anyway. :)
@Runite (307)
• United States
26 Mar 12
That's what many kids do these days, they give their friends things hoping they would still be their friends, they're just being used. You can buy them physically but not emotionally.
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@atwilson (540)
• Indonesia
28 Mar 12
Yes of course. Buying a friend is noe becoming trend. Without money, you will get few friends. At least it ever happened tome. hehe. thanks anyway.
• Indonesia
29 Mar 12
We can not buy a "TRUE" friend..
@atwilson (540)
• Indonesia
29 Mar 12
Hii eagle. How do you say that? Just look at the reality now. Have you ever experienced it? thanks for responding anyway. have a nice day. :)
@tkonlinevn (6406)
• Vietnam
21 May 12
You can buy friends. But not True Friends! Because when you don't have money, you won't have any people beside you!
• Canada
26 Mar 12
Ridiculous! Only users and abusers think this way. They are not your friend if they say money will keep them around. Like wtf! I would just walk away from them, and tell them you can find ''true friends''.
@atwilson (540)
• Indonesia
28 Mar 12
Yes that is true blaq, but you do not the reality today. It is so hard to explain. Nowadays money is so important. what do you think?
@Crixus (19)
• Romania
26 Mar 12
Yes you can buy a 'Friend' most of them have an interest.If you have money you will have many friends and that will made al you want for your money they are like leech.If you are poor you will don't have friend.The friends stay with you only for your money or for interest
@atwilson (540)
• Indonesia
28 Mar 12
So you said that friend can be bought. Did you experienced it? Why did you say so? Thank you anyway. :)