Trust

Philippines
March 30, 2012 2:33am CST
How do you develop trust? My girl right now is living in a dorm and has a guy roommate. It gets into my nerves at times knowing all the possibilities that could arise between a female and a male in single room together. I hate it. She keeps on telling me to trust her. How?
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@Lucas818 (377)
1 Apr 12
Hello mate, I just don't get it, how is possible your girl end up with a guy "roommate"? Seriously, sharing a room with another guy? For sure, you can trust her but how about the guy? CAN you trust him too? I suppose you should have a discussion with your girl regarding this situation.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
30 Mar 12
trust is a strong word. trust is a very good thing but sometimes you just need to be able to trust a stranger is very hard. just keep things up and be yourself. Yet you can simply try to understand people and if you take something. Success. nice day!
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
30 Mar 12
You can't develop trust. It's already in your head, so no matter what she will do or not do, say or not say you won't believe her anyway. You might hate the idea of the two of them in one room. Let me tell you if it would happen it can happen everywhere. You don't need to stay in a small room for that. You look at other women/girls too outside on the street, in shops etc. You feel attracted to all of them? Believe it or not but there are plenty of women who don't and are not interested at all in other men.You can drive yourself and her crazy with your ideas and ruin your relationship with that or act normal, like an adult.
@vertu007 (683)
• Romania
30 Mar 12
That is a bad situation. I wouldn't want to be in your shoes. Trust is either given from the start or earned. You should discuss about this maybe she can switch rooms or something. If you keep yelling at her for it you'll end up pushing her away and maybe she will to something with that guy. There has to be something you can work out.
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
That's it bro! You just have to trust her. It's that simple. But I know it's very hard practice. First of all, you should not think of negative possibilities about your girl especially involving her male dormmate. Recall your happy memories together if you're missing her. Put on her shoes, if you are the one having a girl dormmate, do you think she will feel the same? You just have to give your girl all of your trust. Good luck!