I am not happy with things happening with me.
By deeksha_dams
@deeksha_dams (34)
India
April 7, 2012 1:46pm CST
I am getting married to a guy ...we both are so different kind...there are so many types of petty issues which seems very small to my partner that after i get hurt...he questions me!!!! what happened..i am sorry...sorry is such a small word for others.... i am not happy ...nt happy...feel like banhging my head over walls...
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@deeksha_dams (34)
• India
7 Apr 12
He is a good human..very kind & helping ..but he always fails to understand me..my emotions get ignored.He is way too mature...
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
9 Apr 12
Hi Deeksha,
I am so sorry to hear this. This is exactly why I do not believe in arranged marriages. They could make 2 people miserable for the rest of their lives. I can't even imagine doing that to one of my girls becauese as a parent, all I want is for them to be happy in whatever they choose to do in their lives. see if it were me, I would just refuse to do it or I'd run off somewhere. I don't suppose that is an option for you. So what is the point in an arranged marriage? Do your parents get a lot of money to make your life miserable? It doesn't sound too much different than slavery and none of it sounds like love..
@deeksha_dams (34)
• India
9 Apr 12
Well my parents are sweet...but as they have always seen good examples of arrange marriage so they feel that with time..things will be alirite..parents mentality differs from ours.....what to do...i think time will only answere my questions....well good to hear that you are an understanding father...:)
@deeksha_dams (34)
• India
7 Apr 12
I hv always tried convincing myself..it has bee this way many times....even i have few expectations !!!! i am so different from him...:(...its all on destiny now.
@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
20 May 12
Is there a way you can get out of the arranged marriage? If neither of you want to be together. Sadly there are plenty of petty issues in life and marriage. It's weather you want to worry about battling something you know is petty or just let it go. I wish you the best of luck.
