Asking by a friend to "Like" their status in facebook

Indonesia
April 23, 2012 10:31am CST
Facebook has a "Like" function that will give the reader / viewer of status / picture / link. I know when people make a good status or upload a great picture / video, or simply share a nice link, many people will give them LIKE. So it will make sure, a status / link / picture is like by many people. But lately, it seem a few of my friend become obsessed with Facebook like. Many of them sent me messages, that ask me to like their status. Some even threaten all of their friend that never give them "LIKE". Off course i always ignore this kind of request. I only give "LIKE" when i think a picture / status really deserve it. What do you think about this kind of act? Do you ever met people like this?
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17 responses
• Philippines
26 Apr 12
Yes, I do know few people who are like this. I do what they want, I'm doing it as a favor and it's not like I'll lose anything if I Like, so I don't find anything wrong with it.
• Indonesia
1 May 12
Oh well, that are bad. I already setup my facebook chat, so people that are annoying and like to spam people or simply people that i don't want to chat too, see me as invisible. So i don't get popup message like that. Off course they keep private message me every now and then.
• Philippines
28 Apr 12
Yes I know sometimes I get annoyed too. Especially when I'm doing sometimes or chatting with an important person and then someone instantly pops out and asks me to like their picture/status. That's annoying, I know.
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
24 Apr 12
No, and if I did, I'd reply and say, "go ahead and delete me" I have been deleted over disputs, not because I didn't hit "like" on their status, that is just immature..
• Indonesia
24 Apr 12
Well although i always ignore their threat, i actually never challenge them to do that. I want avoid unnecessary problem with them. They might make the threaten because a sudden emotion. Since they never really do what they threaten, so i think it is better to leave it alone.
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• United States
24 Apr 12
Are these people you know in real life?
• Indonesia
25 Apr 12
Well some of them is people that i know in real life. But most of them is an old friend that i never met again ( mostly junior high school and high school friend ). I never ask them about this case to them, i think it is something that better to be left alone.
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@much2say (53944)
• Los Angeles, California
23 Apr 12
Wow - that sounds pretty needy! I know sometimes there are contests going on where the person with the most "likes" would win . . . I've asked my friends to "like" in those situations. But otherwise, eh, I'm not going to cry over people not liking my personal photos or status reports. And certainly I'm not going to demand my friends to do it - that's just silly. Best to take everything on Facebook lightly and not personally - it's not like our life depends on these "likes" - sheesh!!
• Indonesia
24 Apr 12
Well i don't think they are in any contest. Most of them request "Like" on every status they have. So i don't think contest is the causes for that. Also if they in the contest, i am sure they will tell me about this. If that the case, i will gladly help them, but since it not the cases, and since they threaten me, it make me really bothered by that.
@much2say (53944)
• Los Angeles, California
24 Apr 12
Then sounds like it's more of an ego thing for them. To me it sounds silly to ask people to "like" my stuff . . . why would I go phishing for compliments like that - people can either like my stuff or not and they don't have to tell me. And in turn, I don't have to feel obligated to "like" anyone's Facebook stuff if I don't feel like it. If I have to beg, then it's not a "real" like, you know what I mean? Sorry some people are threatening you about it . . . I just don't understand that!!
• Indonesia
25 Apr 12
Well yes, i think it is more to satisfied their ego. Because they will not get any advantage by getting "liked" by their friend. They don't really care about the quality of their status / picture, all they want is people giving them the like. It is really strange indeed. Thanks for your respond.
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
24 Apr 12
i will like a post or picture if i really do like it. no forcing people LOL there are even times when i like a picture or status but i don't even bother hitting the like button
• Indonesia
24 Apr 12
Well thanks for sharing with us my friend. You are a good example. With not forcing people to "like" our status / link / picture, it also will give us a feeling of accomplishment when we know people like our status / picture / link. Thanks for sharing my friend.
• Philippines
24 Apr 12
I'm on your side on this, I agree with you. I've encountered these kind of people who just chat you even though you aren't really that close, asking you to like his or her FB status. I also reacted the way you did. Its like the FB status posting is a game that needs thousands of likes. You can't push people to like your status. Though I've experienced asking my FB friends' likes but it was a CONTEST and there is a prize for the People's Choice Award, so I need to ask for their help, but I messaged them that if they like it, then like it, if not, like it still -(joke!). So they end up liking it. Hehe, but that's it. I didn't do it again.
• Indonesia
25 Apr 12
Well yes, off course if it is a contest, i will gladly help. At least they asking me to like their picture or status for the right reason. But what happened to me is asking without a real reason. They simply just want to have a lot of like in their status. It is really strange.
• Philippines
24 Apr 12
Like you I ignore these messages asking me to like something be it their personal photo or a contest entry. I believe that a LIKE should be given to posts which you think is likable. And I also notice that nowadays people are getting obsessed in getting a lot of likes. I actually know a facebook application that would let you get 100+ likes in less than 5 minutes. And this is what I give to those asking help in getting like boost for their photo entry on facebook. http://pastebin.com/VETKqXjk
• Indonesia
25 Apr 12
Well thanks for sharing my friend. I don't think i will use that kind of apps. I also, i don't think people will enjoy apps like that. It usually request you to add many friend. Anyway, you should not put any link in your comment. It might be deleted by the admin.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
24 Apr 12
i think people have been obsessed with many things and well of course in facebook having people to like your pages, shots, status and so on is sort of a status quo - it makes people recognize your page and that you have a lot of friends... and when people does not hit the like button it can sometimes feel as if we have no approval from people.. as if they denied us the opportunity to be appreciated for what we posted. and some may actually get affected by these stuff... --- well i don't haha ;) i am not too active on facebook now... and if a friend ask me to like his or her status, page, or photo or comment.. i would probably not like it because i think that is inappropriate for them to do so.
• Indonesia
24 Apr 12
Well i actually pretty active in facebook, but it not really make me obsessed with it. I don't really care about wheteR people will like my status or not, when i met status, i want to share what in my mind with my friend. I don't care if i got 10000 like or not even a single like. So it is sad when people collecting like in facebook, just because they want people to think that they have a lot of friend instead of just enjoying facebook.
@ShepherdSpy (8544)
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
24 Apr 12
I was reading an "Oatmeal" Comic online on this subject just yesterday that rang true with Me..If you consider social Media as to be an alternative to hanging out with someone IRL,Hassling someone to do something online or face to face that you're not interested in is not socially acceptable..and would you really want to hang out with someone who'd be like that?
• Indonesia
24 Apr 12
Well although some off this people really make strange stuff on the internet, but in real life ( some time ) they act different. They not needy and want to be accepted. Some of them have a lot of friend already even before facebook exist. I don't know what happened and what their purpose of collecting like though.
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
24 Apr 12
I don't ask my friends to like whatever I post in facebook. It's up for them id they would want to like m status and other posts. I also receive requests from others to like their posts, it also depends on what they posted if it deserves to be liked.
• Indonesia
24 Apr 12
Well what you do is wise my friend. It is up to people whether they want to like our status or not. Like function in facebook is a function to show how good is a quality of a link / status / picture. When you force people to like something that not good, it actually ruin the function.
@Devilova (5392)
• Indonesia
24 Apr 12
You won't believe what happen to me when get online from PC. There will be too much people ask me to like their status, photo, etc. They do it from the chat feature, so I turn off this feature.
• Indonesia
24 Apr 12
Well that also one of the reason why i set my facebook chat to available to only a certain group of people and make my facebook chat invisible to the rest of my friendlist. This kind of request is annoying. Even when my facebook chat is invisible, they still send me message through private message. Thanks for your respond my friend.
• Philippines
24 Apr 12
Oh yes, a lot of times, but they do it with a purpose. Usually, those who ask for LIKES need them because of a contest - that they need the most number of LIKES in order to win something. I help them most of the times. Anyway, I assume your Facebook friends must be asking for LIKES not because of a contest, but just because they want to gain popularity. They want to see their posts having many number of LIKES but these numbers are meaningless. Good thing I haven't encountered such requests nor threats that you've mentioned.
• Indonesia
24 Apr 12
Well i don't think they are in any contest. Most of them request "Like" on every status they have. So i don't think contest is the causes for that. Well i think they might want to do this because they want to look popular and liked by many people. Thanks for responding this discussion my friend, have a nice day.
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
24 Apr 12
I hate it when my friends asked me to LIKE their status or photos. Geez! I don't know why they have to do that. I have a friend who always upload photos and asked me to LIKE or COMMENT to her photo. I don't get that. I don't hit LIKE or COMMENT to their status or photos unless I want to.
• Indonesia
24 Apr 12
Well you are right. I also feel bothered by people who are needy for "like" button. Although they realize the logic behind like, they still asked people to like their stat / picture / link. Off course when they are in contest, it is still make sense. Thanks for your reply in this discussion my friend, have a nice day.
• United States
24 Apr 12
i have never met anyone who does this i can't believe people can get like this! if i would to get messages from them, i wouldn't respond
• Indonesia
24 Apr 12
Well i actually never respond their threat. And like i thought, it was simply an empty threat. They never remove me from their facebook friendlist. They still comment on my status. They not blocking me. When they see me they still say "hi". So it is really wise to simply ignore their request. Thanks for your respond my friend, have a nice day.
• Philippines
24 Apr 12
Yes, I have a lot of friends who ask me to like their facebook statuses and photos. If it's not a contest, I don't do it. It's awkward trying to force people to like your status and/or photos when it's not likable in the first place. People has their own choice and it's all up to them whether they like your status or not.
• Indonesia
24 Apr 12
Well you are right, Like function in facebook is a function to show how good is a quality of a link / status / picture. When you force people to like something that not good, it actually ruin the function. And i agree, People has their own choice and it's all up to them whether they like your status or not.
@polaris77 (2040)
• Bacau, Romania
23 Apr 12
I think that those people on your list of Facebook friends who come with such requests have become obsessed with the 'like' button and they don't realize that no one should be forced to 'like' something;if their link,picture or whatever they post is interesting and has a certain value it will bring them enough 'likes' from their friends,but to threaten other people for not giving a 'like' is indeed a sign that the person who does such a thing has serious mental problems,and such people need treatment for their obsession.As for my friends,if they send me such a request I might give them a 'like' even if I don't really like what they posted,but they are involved in a contest and they need 'likes'.I would do that for a friend,but never for one who threatens others;in this case,I would end my friendship with such an individual.
• Indonesia
24 Apr 12
Yes i agree with you, no one should be forced to 'like' something. If their link,picture or whatever they post is interesting and has a certain value, people will press the "Like" button automatically. They not involve in any case, the status itself is very simple. Like "waking up", "What a beautifull day", "I hate monday", and many other unimportant status. It really troublesome. Off course i never though they have a mental problem, most of the threat is simple like unfriend or blocking id.
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
Hi lordaodao2025, I also encounter people like that who bothers other people to like their status. sad thing is that what they put in their status is not even worthy to like. In my case, I only like those status which I really like. If I don't, why bother hitting that button. It is sad that there are people who resort into threatening their friends because of this shallow issue. If I were in that situation, I will just ignore them. I really wouldn't mind if they wouldn't like my status in return because I would rather have people like my status because they really do like it, than to have people like it because they want to be reciprocated.
• Indonesia
24 Apr 12
Well yes, it is really a sad thing. I do ignore them, and they threaten also just an empty threat. They threaten to remove me from their friendlist, blocking my id or never comment on my status again never happened. I actually never care about how many like in mystatus. I play facebook for fun, not for collection "like".
• South Africa
23 Apr 12
That is ridiculous! I would find it appalling if my friends asked me to like their status updates, photos, or whatever. I won't 'like' every single status updates or photos. I can't help it if their status updates are lame. Some of them are overly dramatic too!
• Indonesia
24 Apr 12
Well yes, you actually true. It is really ridiculous! Well i know what you mean about over dramatic status. Sometime people act like a drama queen and think that they are the only person in the world when they are making status. But i don't think that kind of status bother me. Thanks for responding this discussion.