Do love is tough to get even it is real?

India
April 29, 2012 8:25am CST
I am little sad today because somebody said something to me which really touched me and I need to find its answer. Mom and Dad loves their daughter, they grow their child to a perfect girl, till she was good obeying girl, after sometime she fall in love with a boy and they love each other with lots of dreams, her parents wants she will only marry to that boy which will be chosen by her parents and not the boy she love, only this time she refuse the words of her parents, she is not willing to marry with the boy chosen by them, her parents started to say that she is bad she is not respecting us blah blah, is finding own love means disobeying the parents? or finding love is a tough work?