So you are paid here to relax and unwind!!

@allknowing (130269)
India
May 1, 2012 11:25pm CST
That myLot is a site that pays for whoever comes to unwind and relax one realises after being here for a while. Initially one does go through moments of uncertainty specially when a veteran points out your blunders and guidelines violations, some times harshly scaring the daylights out of you! As they say patience pays. What has been your jouney here. Have you already realised that myLot pays for whoever comes to unwind and relax?
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@viji_v2 (727)
• India
2 May 12
Hello friend, Some months before it is the relaxing point for me always and used to spend more time here than now. Most of my thoughts and rant would be here. (luckily my friends wont get tensed lol). Mylot is enjoyable when we find the route to get it. Most people failed to find it.
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@allknowing (130269)
• India
2 May 12
So it has been smooth sailing for you here. It has not been that way for many. I too had a bit of rough riding but hopefully I will know how to avoid such situations in future.
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@viji_v2 (727)
• India
2 May 12
Such situations would come at time here. But a pause would solve it sooner.
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• United States
2 May 12
I am just starting out and am hoping not to violate anything. I am already liking mylot and enjoy the discussions and things you learn.
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@nonersays (3329)
• United States
2 May 12
I know that mylot pays, but for me it doesn't pay for me to unwind and relax. I have to put a lot of thought, time and effort into making discussions, and making sure to respond to all my comments. When I want to relax and unwind I go to facebook or somewhere like that instead of here to mylot.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
2 May 12
n onersayhs but if you co me to us with a discussion telling us some problem nine times out of ten at least two or three people can really help you and make you relax.trust in yourself 'to make a good discussion then relax knowing you are amo ng friends and people like to read your discussions,search for a conversation going on here among your friends then put in your two cents worth of something funny and watch f or others to start commenting til the page is full and you are really laughing.facebook is not mylot at all. facebook pales in comparison to mylot
@allknowing (130269)
• India
2 May 12
It depends on the route you take. There are several topics here that can help one relax and unwind and have fun too.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
2 May 12
Hi ak! You are right that many of us come here to unwind and de-stress ourselves and while doing so, we are paid also. Nothing could be better than this. It is true that it takes time to settle down and to understand the nitty-gritty of working here on mylot. One needs to be consistent, humble and responsive to sustain here. You have been doing pretty good and I understand that since you joined this site, you have been continuing here without a major break. Have a nice day!
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
2 May 12
We do come across some unpleasant on this site and in some of the cases we feel that we can not help it and can not make the other lotter understand the issue in the right perspective.
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@allknowing (130269)
• India
2 May 12
I went through a harrowing experience a couple of times when I was misunderstood despite clarifying the position but now I walk on egg shells with those who did that to me. So far so good hopefully.
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@allknowing (130269)
• India
2 May 12
As in real life some appropriate for themselves position of power and use it but as the user gets experience here they learn to handle such bigots
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 May 12
Precisely! We are paid while expressing our feelings, sharing our thoughts, ranting and what more RELAXING
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 May 12
Since I joined mylot, I realized this...that is why I cannot stand a day without mylotting
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@allknowing (130269)
• India
2 May 12
You were sure right from the start that you will like it here. That indeed augurs well for myLot.
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@allknowing (130269)
• India
2 May 12
When did you realise this? Surely you too must have had some rough riding to do here?
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@vandana7 (99048)
• India
2 May 12
Best place to truly relax..:) Nobody is after my life, or my monies..
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
2 May 12
AK - She (Vandana) is taking about her own money and huge assets which she posses.
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@allknowing (130269)
• India
2 May 12
Monies did you say? That is giving me ideas. Who does not want money. Your days of relaxing and unwinding are ended here vandana. I will now be after you till you give me part of what you have!
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@allknowing (130269)
• India
2 May 12
Now the entire myLot community knows she is rich!
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@Suebee (2013)
• Canada
2 May 12
Hey. Speaking of moments of uncertainty, I went through that today after joining mylot just 8 days ago. There seem to be a lot of discussions about the guidelines and reporting violations. In fact I just replied to an old one asking why we should bother to report violations. I have had a few responses deleted, not because my responses were a violation but because the discussion itself was deleted. In fact, I appreciate it when veterans point out my blunders as newbies are bound to make them. I don't take it personally (or at least I try not to). And as far as I am concerned there is no reason a veteran should be harsh about it or "scare the daylights out of you". If they are indeed a seasoned veteran they already know how to point out blunders in a polite manner. As for my journey here, well, albeit a short one so far I am relaxing. I like to spend a lot of time on the computer and when a Facebook friend suggested this site to me I figured why not try it out. Getting paid is incidental to me. Of course the prospect of making money is what lures most of us here in the first place, but once one discovers that the amount of money is just pennies (which admittedly add up) one stays for the enjoyment and entertainment that the site provides.
@allknowing (130269)
• India
2 May 12
@allknowing (130269)
• India
2 May 12
You exactly know where your bread is buttered when it comes to myLot. You have got the ropes alright Suebee!! A perfect way to go about here. Deleting a discussion and along with it the responses/comments is a routine here over which we do not have any control specially when we are not sure if the topic in question is a guideline violation. Ambiguity rules here. Some do have the tendency to be harsh and may be I could quote some phrases that they use here but I will refrain from doing it as I do not want to spoil your day.
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@Suebee (2013)
• Canada
2 May 12
Thanks allknowing. I think I'm doing ok for a newbie. I agree ambiguity rules here. In any case, I just continue to respond to the topics that interest me and if they get deleted no worries. As I've said before, deletion of a discussion is not the worst thing that can happen in my day. Speaking of worst thing to happen in a day, I think it would take more than a harsh response from someone that I don't even know to ruin my day. Thanks for the encouragement.
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@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
2 May 12
hehe wow! that is a very positive review on what mylot is. :D but then i will have to agree with you on this. Of course i guess this is what it is, really because most people here are just having fun, some gets a few arguments but it is lighter compared to others. =)
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@allknowing (130269)
• India
2 May 12
This is exactly how I feel here. After a bout of uncertainty which I must admit I went through I do get to relax and unwind here.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
2 May 12
i certainly agree. Everytime i am here i do not think of how much i will earn.. i try my best to join in the fun, share what i can and respond as much as i can.. it is relaxing to be able to know people, learn what is going on with them and even read stuff about them..and learn new stuff as well
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
2 May 12
I do agree, it is nice to know that somehow i have friends with different nationalities!
@allknowing (130269)
• India
2 May 12
We have people here from all over the globe, Japanese, Chinese, American, European, Vietnamese, Filipinos, Indians, Africans, Australians, New Zealanders, Pakistanis - have I left out any? We have the opportunity to make them as our real friends. I would love to have a Chinese friend! and for all this myLot pays us! I agree with you. I too am not here for the money as the kind of money that one earns here is not worth the time spent but everything else is worth much more.
@Noseclams (149)
• United States
2 May 12
Mylot is like a therapist that pays you for your time. I can talk about anything without having to worry about what i say getting back to my friends and family.
@allknowing (130269)
• India
2 May 12
A therapist charges but myLot pays!. One realises its worth with more and more participation. Welcome to myLot!
• Philippines
2 May 12
I am just new here. Though it takes patience and time for this site, now Im starting to enjoy.
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@allknowing (130269)
• India
2 May 12
As long as you follow guidelines you will have a nice time here.