I don’t know if she still loves me…

There are things that you know that is yours, but eventually you can't touch because if you do, then you'll get hurt. What i would like to mean is that sometimes we can't control others to do what we want it to do, but the essence of knowing and feeling she/he has for you is there.

off course she still loves you she might be going under a rough patch give her some time invite her for a nice dinner spend much time with her

And what exactly are you investing in your relationship with her? Can it be she is tired of expressing herself to you? A reaction (spontanious one) will only follow on action (yours). And if you sound the way you sound now you are not that great company at all. Sounds to me as well you are a claiming person not able to live your own life, kind of stone around the neck. With that behaviour you kill a relationship as well! She can't help if you have no (other) interests and just sit there and wait while her life (and interests) are going on.

This depression mood won't help you at all. I think you should try to make her have a good time like you had when she was sweet and caring. Be confident about yourself and show her that you are fun and you can make her happy. Girls understand when guys have this kind of insecurities and she might feel the pressure. It's not a good idea to ask her to express her feelings because you feel insecure. It has happened to me in a previous relationship. My bf then, started feeling that I didn't love him. He did something that annoyed me a lot, and after this I was distant for a while. I was distant because I had opened myself to him and I felt that I was going to get hurt not because I didn't love him. Then he started asking for approval of my love because things had changed and he was used of me being so caring with him. But the problem was that I couldn't trust him as I did before and I was really feeling that distance between us. My point is that, he should have tried to reduce the distance between us instead of pressuring me with his insecurity. That made the gap between us even bigger and I stopped having a good time so I left from this relationship. Try to think why things have changed between you two, or when. If you understand what she is expecting from you or when she started having that distance, you have more chances of fixing it.

Why don't you talk to her, like heart to heart talk. Invite her for a nice dinner and tell her how much you love her and that you miss her so much about the way sweet thing and care she showed before.

I think you should tell her about your feeling, She wouldn't never know if you don't tell her.

Its you who can determine her feelings towards you.You have to talk to her seriously. She might have some reasons that you missed out to know.There's nothing wrong of having a real conversation with her so that you will be both cleared up what's going on to both of you..

Talk to her about how you feel. Communication is always key in any relationship. If she's not willing to share anything with you, then its time to do the right thing. Move on, you will find love; and when she realizes what she had passed up, it would be too late!

i am actually feeling what you are feeling right now. my boyfriend used to show sweetness, but now he is cold. he said he loved me but i sensed the opposite. but still i am holding on. as long as he hasn't left me yet, i am still going to be his girlfriend.

I suggest that you talk to your partner and tell her all the things that you are feeling. We are not sure if she is aware that your heart is breaking with all the coldness that has been happening. In a relationship, communication is the first step in resolving issues like this. I hope you all the best my friend.

It appears that she is preoccupied with something - maybe things outside your relationship or issues regarding your relationship or both of this. Have you done something wrong to her? Try to figure out the real thing before making any move. It helps to be active on this issue, choose not to be passive because the longer the time of waiting for her, the more it will kill you, seriously. If she really loves you, she may reconsider things and you will be happy again. This is based on my own experience, my friends and some "lovers" on forums. Believe me, act now, before it's too late. Good luck!

This may seem harsh but, have you ever heard of the saying..."She's just not that into you"? Maybe it is time to put yourself back into the dating line, and see if you can't find a better "her" than you had before. Possibly someone that is "into you." :-)

She is probably going through something and her mind is preoccupied