Praying for the greatest gift...
By AngelaMarie
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
Philippines
July 9, 2012 1:40pm CST
My husband and I married for almost 7 years but we dont have yet a child, simple because we decided to save first before having a child, now that we saved enough i think this is the right time for us . Since last year we consulted to a Urologist and Ob-gyne to asked for medical advice. After several tests and ultrasounds we found out that we can able to have a child but we just dont know when. I already took fertility pills and come back to my ob-gyne this coming friday, I just hoping that everything will be okay and hoping that I can get pregnant very soon. My husband and I really praying to receive our greatest gift hoping this year. Have a good day!
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17 responses
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
10 Jul 12
In God's time and according to he's plan and purpose you will get your wish, please include me as one of those who will be praying for you and your husband for God's will in your life.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
welcome my friend, I also understand how you feel and the situation, I've had friends and loved ones who had delays in conceiving a child and I fully understand how our society (Philippines) could really be mean in terms of jokes and stuff like that, I know some of them are not really meant to hurt but just the same it's not pleasant, in a way it's part of our society so hope you just don't mind them in case you encounter any, you are still young and technology has advanced so again hope and pray that the good lord will grant the desires of your heart
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
I agree. Sometimes I get affected from my relatives or people around me when they asking why we don't have yet a child considering were both nurses and I came from a big family but I don't answered them back instead I challenge myself in this situation but sometimes crying is the best way for me to release my emotions. I am very positive that everything will be fine. Thanks
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
Hi louievill, thank you for always being nice to me and for your prayers.
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
That was so sad for your colleague, my husband and i agreed that with baby or without baby we will be together.
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
12 Jul 12
Were hoping too that we have child soon. Thanks.
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@OpinionatedLady (5966)
• United States
9 Jul 12
How long did you try before going to doctors? There is a reason why people who "can't" have babies adopt and then are miraculously pregnant right after it's stress. If you relax and let nature take it's coarse it very well may happen, especially if the doctors found nothing wrong with either you or you husband. Good luck!
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
Were trying since last year but I think the reason why I cant get pregnant because of stress and lack of time to each other since my husband is very busy with his work last year. Anyway, thank you very much.
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
11 Jul 12
Bhehelen:
you have rightly quoted possible reason being stress and lack of time. yes. you must be calm , quiet and be happy always and go along without really thinking about having a child. You will be blessed with one very soon.
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
ravisivan:
My husband and i made sure that we have lots of time together this year and as much as possible if he going to a business trip we try to go together. Thank you very much my friend.
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@asdomencil (4265)
• Philippines
10 Jul 12
Just keep on praying and the best gift will be given to you.
You should also needs stress-free situation in order to conceive a baby. This will really help.
Like us, when my wife stopped commuting in her work, we have the greatest gift to our married life. Now, he is already 2 years old. We haven't took any fertility pills to concieve one. What we took is the moringa supplement. According to natural medicine, you need to have a healthy blood in order to have baby faster. Try to make your blood healthier and you will not need any fertility pills at all. How? Take green leafy vegetables. They are rich in iron that will help nourish your blood.
I really hope that you will get the greatest gift already.
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@asdomencil (4265)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
That was a great move. Stress not only physical but emotional can be a great factor too. Like what I've said, when my wife stopped commuting to her work because their work area became near to our house, that was the time she conceive a baby.
Just one thing, when you already conceived a baby, try to make yourself avoid stress.
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
My husband and I always eating green leafy vegetables almost everyday especially moringa leaves. Now I am planning to rest for a while and if possible take some vacation from my work to focus on this. Thank you
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@manaleli101 (146)
• South Africa
11 Jul 12
I really hope all goes well for you. Having a baby is one of nature's greatest gifts. It feels so wonderful to know that somebody totally depends on you. I really do hope all goes well for you.
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@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
11 Jul 12
Hi friend, good to hear about your idea, really you planned well to face the life challenges, it shows you are matured a lot. Wish you to give birth to your kid soon, as you mentioned you saved enough money for your kid, so it is the high time to give birth to your kid.
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
Yes, we decided to save first before going to have a child because we want to give our best for our future kid. Thanks
@sharksfin (1091)
• Philippines
9 Jul 12
I will be including you in my prayer. Just keep believing and never lose hope. Also, don't stress yourself too much thinking about it or wanting it too badly that it becomes a preoccupation. Expect it with joy in your heart. In God's perfect time, it will surely come. :)
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
Thank you for including me to your prayer and I really appreciated it.
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@nonersays (3329)
• United States
10 Jul 12
My husband and I also waited several years (about 6 years) before we decided to have our first child. We were very lucky and got pregnant just as soon as we started trying.
We've been trying for about a year to have another child, but its not happening for us quickly this time.
I hope that your fertility pills work for you and that you and your husband can have your own child very soon.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
I am hoping that fertility pills will works and soon we can have a baby. Thanks
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
9 Jul 12
Bhebelen:
You are only 29 year old now. I wish and pray to God that your desire be fulfilled early. I can understand the concern you have in this regard. You will be having a number of members of mylot praying on your behalf. In the meantime you also pray to your favourite God/Temple/Church and visit regularly say once in a week for six weeks. If you cannot make it one day you may compensate by going on the next possible day. This will ensure your desire is fulfilled. Be happy and love every thing around you--say people, place, house, etc. blessings and best wishes.
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
Thank you very much ravisian my friend for a wonderful advice.
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@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
9 Jul 12
Bhebelen, never give up hope...keep praying and I hope your
prayers will be answered very soon...It sounds like you have
been doing everything properly...I will keep you in my prayers.
foe we know that od definately answers prayers..
Keep the faith!!!!
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
I will never never give up because i am very positive that everything will be fine and my prayers will be granted. Thank you very much
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
Thank you so much through prayers everything is possible.
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@elguardian (353)
• Malaysia
9 Jul 12
All i can say is keep on having faith and keep on "trying" if you know what i mean. Pregnancy, child or kids is the best gift one can ever have. Keep on praying and have faith. It doesn't matter if it's 7 years or 8 years. The time will come. I would suggest that you learn about the menstrual cycle thing and "try" when you feel like that day you are fertile. I will be supporting you all the way from my place here thousand miles away from you. I also one day would love to have children of my own and maybe your success story can be my inspiration.
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
Yes, were keep on trying and trying until we achieve our goal. I am monitoring my menstrual cycle since last year and everything is fine. I believe that when the right time come i will get pregnant too. Even were thousand miles away but i feel your concern. Thanks.
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
Thank you my friend and I am hoping that God will listen my prayers and grant my greatest wish.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
25 Jul 12
Having a child is a responsibility, and should be done with full sincerity. God is certainly listening to your prayers. I would also pray, so that you can get pregnant Show to God, if you are really ready, to be given responsibility a child. Do not give up, and keep praying. Hopefully, I immediately get good news from you. That is, the news of your pregnancy.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
I know having a child is a big responsibility and lots of challenges but were willing to take it sincerely and dearly.Thank you my friend for your prayer, I will inform you as soon as I get pregnant. Have a nice day.
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
18 Jul 12
Wow, that's very good and wise planning you have there as a couple. You must have enjoyed your time together for 7 years as a couple and not having anything else to worry about but yourselves.
Do pray a lot, for a safe pregnancy and a healthy baby to join the house soon.
If you're still on your 20's-30's, it won't be that difficult.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
Oh yes, we really enjoyed each other and go anywhere we what without any worries. I am in late twenties but still hoping that I can get pregnant very soon after all we both seek medical advice and were both healthy. Thank you for your prayer. Have a nice day.
