More active when being single now...:))

@ryanong (9694)
Vietnam
July 20, 2012 5:33am CST
I am single...just 1 week... and what i feel is i am more active when being single (of course comparing with the time when i was in relationship). Right now no debating, no irritating, no blaming, etc...and i have much time for thinking of many things else to do instead of thinking of the relationship as before. I am happy and think of what i should do in a day when i wake up, i want to earn more money, working harder... I am full of energy for a new day...Being single now is very great!!!
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17 responses
@riempie9 (1026)
• South Africa
23 Jul 12
I am indeed happier being single. Time which is so precious to me is everything. I can plan my day as I want, get a lot of work done, indulge myself if I do not feel like working, and go anywhere I want. Don't get me wrong. I like friends around but not always. Writing has made me a loner and I far prefer the benefits of being single. It is actually selfish of me but I cannot help it. I don't attend parties and functions except when it has to do with teaching kids how to enjoy books and reading.
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
23 Jul 12
It is very nice when you can enjoy your life in single time like right now, i am doing like that also and really ok with my single time. being single or in relationship is ok, as long as we all enjoy our life and live in happiness. i wish you a nice day!!!
@riempie9 (1026)
• South Africa
23 Jul 12
Great going... yay!! to the single woman or man... good place to be in.
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
24 Jul 12
Exactly!!! and my life is here, i am enjoying it...
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@verolop29 (1096)
• United States
21 Jul 12
enjoy it! there are good things and bad things about being single. the good are u dont have to worrie about looking good for him. the kinda bad are being intimate. u see if u were hooking up with someone at a club or online then u would have tons of things to worry about. such as is he a nice person? will he hit me? u dont know what kind of person he is. most ppl like to tell u what u want to hear. if they say the right thing then they know they are getting a step closer to their goal. getting inside ur pants or getting mmoney.. if ur married then u have no worries about where his stuff has been! and visa versa. there are a lot more to this than what im saying. i have not been around the corner and back to tell u alllllll the pro's and con's and being in a relationship. i have heard a lot of stuff from other ppl in my dorm from the other girls. they would talk about how he wont pay attention to her. money. he wont give her any$. but now that ur not attached to anyone be prepared for more men to come knocking on ur door! be smart. if ur gonna do 'it' be safe. there are some STD's that are hard to get rid of and some are even hard to detect. play hard to get and confident! be urself.
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
23 Jul 12
Oh, i have no plan to date now, i am just out of the relationship and now i should enjoy my single time. This time i don't go out much with friends also, i do focus on my plan and wanna complete it.... I feel i am full of energy for working and enjoy my life now.. Dating, all should be from my heart and i am patient enough to wait...I am not interested with 1 night stand also, it sucks...i am busy working, earning money, preparing for my trip back to Korea..
@verolop29 (1096)
• United States
24 Jul 12
u are so lucky! u r a smart person and u will do just fine! say...is the toe next to ur big toe is longer than the big toe? im just asking because they say that if ur 2nd toe is bigger than ur big toe, ur going to be the one who wears the pants in the relationship....neither mine nor my husbands is bigger than the other. both our toes are smaller than our big toe! but i like to think i wear the pants in this family and sometimes its him!
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
25 Jul 12
hihih, is it true? a big toe is always bigger than others toes, right? let me see, my 2nd toe is longer than big toe only. then what is going on?
• Indonesia
20 Jul 12
wooow.... the way you told us, it seems like you were just free from the prison. of course when you are single you have so many time that previously you spend with boyfriend to do another fun thing. mylotting is one of them. you can have fun now, ryan! don't be hurry to have a new boyfriend/ girlfriend
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
21 Jul 12
hihihi, ya, it looks like i were just free from the prison No no, i have no thinking of finding a new boyfriend yet, Love should be came from natural...i just let my heart choose. Currently i am happy to enjoy my single time, earn money, save money, travel, ...all is very great now..
• Indonesia
31 Jul 12
that's good, have you enjoy your quality time. this would be a nice experience for you
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
31 Jul 12
Yes, i think so....it is a good time to make me complete many goals now..i was too inactive in previous time.
@sonusd (1548)
• India
20 Jul 12
It is not always true some time when we get irritate from our relationship then it may work but some time missing some one from your life make you frustration and you may become lazy. In my case some time I stay very active when I stay single but some time I become more active with my partner.
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
20 Jul 12
Umh, most of my time was for talking, debating, irritating and i had no mood for working. I also could not going out much because of his blaming and faced to the walls every night alone...and one more the relationship can't work more, no cure for it more... If someone tells me go back to that relationship, i will say No immediately. I prefer to be single like right now..
@sonusd (1548)
• India
20 Jul 12
Its your mistake never ever mix your personal life with professional life ..thats the reason why you waste your time.
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
21 Jul 12
Nope, he is not my right man yet...with the time in relationship we just know about it...
@flagella08 (5069)
• Philippines
24 Jul 12
that's good for you. this is one of the rare times knowing a person is just so okay after a break up. Breaking up is one of the most heart breaking experience for most of us. Of course, if you been trying to get rid of your ex for a long time, chances are it would probably be a relief.just keep going and for now you are free to set your priorities. Take sometime to think things through and of course what matters most now is the fact that both of you should be happy, with or without each other.
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
25 Jul 12
Ya, i understand your meaning...all is we should be happy, right? even in single or in the relationship...and being single is the best choice for me this time and i am ok with it. I have much time to put my plan moving forward now..
@512771751 (1096)
• China
23 Jul 12
Being single and in relationship both have their advantages. But it is good that you feel too much beter and be full of energy. Just do what you like, fighting.
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
23 Jul 12
ya, you are right...and this time is the best time for me to be in single...
• United States
21 Jul 12
Sometimes, relationships just do not work. It sounds like being single is suiting you so much better than being in the relationship you were in. Instead of wasting energy on all of the bad stuff that was going on in that relationship, you are now free to focus your energy on more positive things.
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
23 Jul 12
Exactly, wilsongoddard. I am very Ok with my decision and love myself more, enjoy this life, active in working more....it is great!!!
@wolfie34 (26793)
• United Kingdom
20 Jul 12
I love being single, I have been single since 2008 and I wouldn't have it any other way. I can do what I want, when I want, go out with who I like, I can be independent, no one to worry about, no compromise! Life is so much better being single. I have been in relationships and I have felt like a bird in a cage, I prefer my own company and I can please myself. Enjoy freedom and enjoy doing what YOU want to do, no restraints. I don't get jealous of my friends in relationships. The world is yours, your life is yours and not to share with anyone but YOU. Enjoy!
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
21 Jul 12
I can feel how happy you are in single life now. it is very good..because life is what...is we can live in happiness, right? I agree with you: "The world is yours, your life is yours and not to share with anyone but YOU"... and i am very happy with my single time also...
@Raine38 (9195)
• United States
20 Jul 12
If you're relationship is all debating, irritations, blaming and none of the good stuff, or they're too ignorable, then I guess you're right it's far off better to be single. It's nice to know that instead of moping and sulking you're taking this "opportunity" to work hard and concentrate on your set goals. And for someone who's just had a break up, you're far more energetic and lively than most people I know who are also in your situation. That's actually admirable.
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
21 Jul 12
No, i won't be sad and spend my life time in sadness more, for what? Time is gone and we never get it back, so i lost much time for being in the relationship already, why i have to make myself to lost time more? I am full of energy for working to earn money and enjoy my life time now...Life is very beautiful we should catch it...
@jula65 (128)
• Hyderabad, India
20 Jul 12
i have a girl friend. only thing she is doing she is wasting my time. every time she wants to talk with me. so i could not focus my work because of her. many times i have to tell lie in order to do my work. so i do not know which is better to spent my time with her or focus my work. still i am thinking being single is better.
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
21 Jul 12
No no, it is not good when being like that. You can arrange your time for talking with her not in working time. I never bother my ex(he is my ex now, right?) when he works, and for sure i don't want him bother me when i am very busy also. but we still have free time for talking in a day, before going to sleep right?, or sending msg, sms to know both miss each other so much...
• Philippines
20 Jul 12
Being single is good especially when you just got out from a not-so-pleasant relationship. You are free now and don't have to argue with someone for petty things. But I still hope that you'll find the right person for you. Someone that you want to spend the rest of your life without regrets.
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
21 Jul 12
Ya, i have no plan to live in single entire my life..however it is later, now i am full of energy for earning money, enjoying my life...
• India
20 Jul 12
Hi friend, you are right, we will be more energetic while we are single and try our maximum to achieve our target. Now i am single(alone) in my room and doing my work without any disturbance , my wife is taking care of my two kids and i am free from their tensions
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
21 Jul 12
hihihi, you are not single...but it is nice when you can work alone in a room, very quiet and you can focus on your work well, i like to work like that...
• China
20 Jul 12
I totally agree with you. I am single too and I also enjoy my life right now. I spend more time on study and work. I hope to achive more success in my career. So I need to focus on what I am doing. I can not make it if I were in a relationship.
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
21 Jul 12
Ya, to be single is so good when we know our goal in front. Now my goal is earn more money, save more money, enjoy my life more...
20 Jul 12
You're right sir ryanong. Being single is freedom because you don't have to worry with someone else. No one controls your time and no one interrupts with your plans. But being single also has disadvantages. One of them is you're still moving on with your feelings to her 1 week before you are with her. I think there's still love remains and the best way is to just focus on your career.
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
21 Jul 12
ya, exactly, i have more freedom do what i want now...however i still prefer marriage life..so that one day my heart will open if i meet my right soulmate. But it is the future, now i focus on my work, earning money and enjoy my life... Thank you so much for your caring!!!
• India
20 Jul 12
Same as my case. I am more active when I am single. But the thing is as while being in relation though we ve a lot of debates, confusions and fight the real happiness lies there than being single..
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
20 Jul 12
Ya, My life was in the hell and right now it looks like a heaven. I am ok with debating sometime but please not too long and repeat over over again a small problem... I thought of it a lots before ending it..and i am very ok with my decision. I am more active and happy with my single time now...
• Philippines
20 Jul 12
The best thing in being single is that you can do whatever you want now. You have a freedom that is more now than before. You can focus back on things that interest and those things you weren't able to do when you were in a relationship. You have also freedom to look at other girls who are also sexy and single. hehehehe
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
21 Jul 12
Exactly! that's why i am very happy with my single time now..
• Philippines
20 Jul 12
hi ryanong, I don't know if I should congratulates you or not oh well debating, irritation and blaming etc is just part of every relationship Well it's still your choice if you think you are better now than before then that's good Being positive after what you went through is really a good one happy mylotting
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
20 Jul 12
I understand your mean. However my relationship can't work more, i thought a lots of it already...I used to talk if it is not ended today, it will be ended in some months later, no cure for it more...that's why i am very ok after ending it. Thank you for your sharing. i wish you a nice day!!!