YOUR BOYFRIEND WENT TO A STRIP CLUB, NOW WHAT?

Thats pretty bad...

Leave it alone. KNow the slogan, what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas? Same thing. If you trust your significant other to go to a strip bar and have fun and not do anything wrong, then nothing will be done. But if you can't trust him, you need to get out of the relationship.

Honestly, unless it is such a frequent habit that it interferes with your relationship, I wouldn't let it bother me.

It would'nt bother me as long as it was him that told me but if he hid it that would bother me more what is he hiding?

Myself personally I would shrug it off, stuff like that doesn't bother me, if anything I would ask to go with him next time, if you have never been to a strip club you should try it, it is not that bad.

I say you should approach it calmly. I went to a strip club and my girlfriend approved, although I did not get a lap dance... so that might be a different story.

He came home to you, so don't worry about it. Its a guy thing, and if he was out with the guys, he can't be a wimp and say I can't go I will get in trouble.

He came home to you, so don't worry about it. Its a guy thing, and if he was out with the guys, he can't be a wimp and say I can't go I will get in trouble.

In my relationship we have a mutual agreement to avoid places like that and situations that would lead to something like that. So I would be incredibly angry to say the least. There would be words that cannot be spoken here and I would have fire coming out of my ears. I would consider leaving him.

talk to him about it

if he told u then let it go. If he didnt then dont. I dont want my husband going, but he knows that, so if he did,then I would get pissed.

why u girls take it so seriously....it's just fun with friends

Na let him be.

I think it would depend on your relationship. If you are very secure in it, then I think you should let it slide. If te shoe were on the other foot and it were you getting lap dances in Vegas, would you want him to get all up in arms over it, or just let it go?

Well let him know that you are not happy with it maybe he will think twice about it the next and not go but if he thinks you OK with it he would probably do it again.

It wouldn't bother me if he would be cool with me going to strip clubs also. But if he says he will only go if your not there then thats a problem.

I think if it was a one time thing, Id let it go. It was probably just the influence of all the guys. No one wanted to be made fun of for not doing it. If it becomes a habit, then Id worry

Did he smell strange when he got home?

He's in Las Vegas with his friends whatelse should he do there? For as long as he just went there to watch, I really won't mind. Next time, I'll ask him to bring me too.

are you joking? he went to a strip club? thats like saying he went to McDonalds. now if he went to a whorehouse that different ......a stripclub geezus