myLot - Friendship request

@moulee87 (320)
India
August 11, 2012 6:41am CST
Hi all, As I'm a new user of myLot, I have give many friend request to many. But I find very few people accepting the request. I thing many of the request sent to inactive users here! How can we identify active and inactive users in myLot? Any idea?
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34 responses
• India
11 Aug 12
I think you meant offline users. Inactive user is one, whose account is no longer in existence. You cannot view such profiles. Let the offline users come online, then they'll be able to add you. Welcome to myLot. If you are still on your friends making spree, don't forget to send me a request as well. Haha. Good luck!
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@moulee87 (320)
• India
11 Aug 12
MIMO! I have sent you a friend request! Please check it out! Let me wait for the active unsigned in members to accept and than watch my friends count! Eager to know the count after 24 hours of my registration time!
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@sid556 (31005)
• United States
11 Aug 12
Actually, you can view inactive viewers accounts and request friendships. The only time that you can't is if they were banned from here and their account removed.
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• India
11 Aug 12
Moulee, I've observed that you already have an impressive number of friends. After 24 hours, I can't imagine the count. Good luck. Btw, I approved your request. Sid, by inactive I meant to say banned users. Anyways, myLot removes the account of an user who hasn't been active for 3 months.
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@mysdianait (64058)
• Italy
11 Aug 12
Whoa! You only joined 7 hours ago and half of the world was sleeping then Give evryone that you requested the time to wake up, grab breakfast and get back on here and youmight see some more of those requests being accepted. As the response above suggested, in each profile you can see on the left when a user last logged in. Bear in mind too that in some countries it is mid-summer and vacation time and some Lotters might be basking in the sun with no internet access so don't give up on everyone yet
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@moulee87 (320)
• India
11 Aug 12
Ooi! Diana! Thanks for the turn up here! I'm no sure which country mylot users are most active here! Anyway let me wait for 24 hours and then see my friends count! I expect it to be at least 100! :-)
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@mysdianait (64058)
• Italy
11 Aug 12
24 hours is a good start but some might have left for their annual vacation and might not return for a week or even more. I'm sure you will have enough to deal with even if you let them hang on in there pending for quite a longer time as I can see from your profile that MANY have accepted so you are going to be inundated with topics to participate in
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@moulee87 (320)
• India
11 Aug 12
Ho! Okay! Let me have a probably 5 - 10 gone for annual vacation and wait for 1 week to get the final count of the request that I have given! Diana! Thanks for supporting me in this discussion when sid556 had wrong idea on me! Thank you!!!!!!
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@sid556 (31005)
• United States
11 Aug 12
And why exactly would you request the friendship of members that you have never even interacted with?? A lot of members won't accept the friendship request of a member who comes on here and just randomly requests friendships. Why? Because all too often, the reason for that is to spam us with referral links etc. The way to get people here to accept your friend requests would be to actually be a friend. Join in some discussions and get to know some of the members.
@mysdianait (64058)
• Italy
11 Aug 12
I am going to butt in here and explain that I believe this new user has been reading a lot since they joined and has sent friend requests to those who activity particularly inspired them
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@sid556 (31005)
• United States
11 Aug 12
If that is the case then that is cool. I may have got confused when he/she said that they sent requests to "inactive" members. I thought that he/she was just randomly sending out invites. If that is the case, then I apologize. It's probably just in the timing like you said and the world was sleeping.
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@sid556 (31005)
• United States
11 Aug 12
I am noticing that he is responding back to others here so that is a good sign of things to come. I think maybe you called right yet again, Dianae!
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@sjvg1976 (18369)
• Delhi, India
12 Aug 12
Hello Moulee, It depends on person to person some people don't accept it easily they see the profile of the user first before accepting it as they fear that the user may not spam after being a friend through PM.And some people accept it easily as they know they always can delete them once they start spamming them.Moreover it may have happened that when you sent FR to a particular user he/she may not be active that time.
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@moulee87 (320)
• India
12 Aug 12
Sj! I'm still on my 23rd hour and have few more minutes to completed 1 day here! I still have a good count of friends here! I'm happy for the count that I have now! Will let you know the count when I get into 25th hour!
@moulee87 (320)
• India
12 Aug 12
Hi Sj! I have completed 1 full day here with friends count
@moulee87 (320)
• India
12 Aug 12
Any guess?
@thanks1961 (7046)
• India
11 Aug 12
Hi Moulee, Welcome to myLot. You just joined some hrs. before and wait for few days and I am sure that you will get a number of good friends here. This is a wonderful site and you can trust and be active in all respects. Also, mysdianait is a 'guru' here and you can always rely upon this person. Anyway, hope you will enjoy the various activities here and please find some time go through the FAQs for a better understanding. Regards
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@moulee87 (320)
• India
11 Aug 12
Yes! Diana helps me here and there to understand the site well. Thanks to Diana! She is my guru in discussing!
@mysdianait (64058)
• Italy
11 Aug 12
I am only passing on what others passed on to me when I was new here a long time ago. I am always happy to help those who are willing to be helped
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@moulee87 (320)
• India
11 Aug 12
But you know! Many of the newbies would have not got such a wonderful person like you! Since they have not you they turned inactive!
• Jacksonville, Florida
11 Aug 12
I usually only accept friends that have a number over 10 by their name. Only because I have been spammed by people with a lower number so many times! Once people reach the number 10 I will accept them. =)
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@moulee87 (320)
• India
11 Aug 12
Ha ha! This test is really easy to pass. Probably I may pass your test in some more hours! Thanks for the notice!
• Jacksonville, Florida
11 Aug 12
Oh yes this is probably the easiest test you will ever be given! And a fun one. Lol. I am sure I will be seeing a lot more of you around here.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
11 Aug 12
By the way, I just accepted your friend request.
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@timetravel (1428)
• United States
11 Aug 12
I don't have anywhere near one hundred friends and have been here nearly a year now. I actually send out very few friend requests - only those who repeatedly respond to my comments and discussions. On the other hand, I have gotten many - and I always check them out before accepting. There were an occasional few who "spammed" me for friendship, and I refuse to be one of hundreds just so someone can pitch something to me.
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@moulee87 (320)
• India
11 Aug 12
Hi, I can understand that you are so much genuine to the work that you do. Though you have 521 as your count you are at top (blue star). Let me wait for the strict officers friendship soon! lol!
• United States
11 Aug 12
I probably have my "10" star simply because I only respond to discussions where I feel I can contribute something! Friendship is nice, but I don't beat myself over the head begging or waiting for it.
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@moulee87 (320)
• India
12 Aug 12
Hi! There is nothing to do with begging or waiting for friendship! Particularly in myLot we have almost 5000 active users! So till you reach the figure of 5000 as you friends count!
@oindy54 (3446)
• India
11 Aug 12
Hi, Welcome to Mylot!The solution has already been given above my experienced Mylotters. Do not worry dear. You are just signed up to this wonderful community and you can expect a lot from here. I accept every friend request I get, so if you want to be my friend, feel free to shoot me a request. May you enjoy your stay here as much as I do, good luck!
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@moulee87 (320)
• India
11 Aug 12
Hi oindy! I have given your the request! Please complete it let rock lotting here! As you have told that you accept all the request! I never come across friends request by people who have huge count! Hope I need to do fem more days of journey to come across such request!
@oindy54 (3446)
• India
11 Aug 12
Hi friend, I have already added you to my list. Hope to see many more interesting discussions from you! See you around and take care
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@moulee87 (320)
• India
11 Aug 12
Thanks for the care that you take on the newbie! Love you!
@krupesh (2608)
• India
11 Aug 12
hey Moulee , till now I haven't accepted your request coz' when I first saw your profile after seeing your request , I could see within 3 hours you had 32 friends in your list and not even a single response from you nor you had not started any discussion.It definitely makes all to think that you are here for some other reason.I only accept requests of those who really participate in the discussions...sorry to say that..
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@moulee87 (320)
• India
11 Aug 12
Hey Krupesh! I will not take it in a wrong sense! I still find that you profile saying that you have not accepted my friend request! But I have lot of hope that I will pass your test to turn as a good friend of you!
@mysdianait (64058)
• Italy
11 Aug 12
Hey there Mr. Krupesh! Good to see you back!
@sylvia13 (1851)
• Nelson Bay, Australia
12 Aug 12
I don't always look to see whether I have friend requests, but when I do, I accept them. Just have a bit of patience and I am sure you will soon increase the number of friends. Do enjoy it here in ML!
@moulee87 (320)
• India
12 Aug 12
Yes Sylia! I'm enjoying it to the core. May be the site is new to me I'm enjoying it very much! Actually it make my bore timings very busy!
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@lampar (7597)
• United States
11 Aug 12
Some may not have yet receive your friend request due to less than normal activity as members, they just log in once a week or twice a month. Other may not like to be friend with a newbie who is just join mylot for several hours only, it is solely a personal choice for one to decide whether he/she want your friendship or not, it is nothing personal and you shouldn't take it too serious and feel disappointed at all. I am the few in here will normally accept friendship request from newbie without condition, i just don't see why not? After all, not all newbies are rude in presenting their old idea, thought and personal view, i have nothing against them, after all, all they're trying to do is asking for a friendship, not to attack me in person. Usually those that are inactive have no posting in the passed 10 days or 30 days shown up in his/her profile page, whichever you think is appropriate. Just my personal two cents for your information.
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@moulee87 (320)
• India
12 Aug 12
Hi Lampar! I can understand that people who have 1000 points have more rules to accept a new friend request! But on the other have got people like Diana who have accepted my friendship very soon. Though I have not even completed 1 complete day here, I appreciate their care to bring up a newbie in myLot! That the nature of professional lotters (more than 10000 points).
• Indonesia
11 Aug 12
Hi, welcome. I also new here. Make me as your friend as well :)
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@moulee87 (320)
• India
11 Aug 12
Hi hadiyanuarz! Happy to see you here! Welcome to myLot! This is the world of discussions! Happy lotting! Have fun!
• Malaysia
11 Aug 12
Hi there moulee87, ive added you as friend. Welcome to myLot. my experience here is very interesting and every time i visit myLot there is always some topics that i like .
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@moulee87 (320)
• India
11 Aug 12
Hi, Hope you liked my post so I got your response! Thanks for the show up and the welcome!
@vandana7 (66024)
• India
11 Aug 12
First and foremost welcome. I have accepted ur friend request. There are four more friends out there. I didnt accept them because once I press accept, myLot does something funny and forces me to leave it the site. lol You just got lucky to be first. I will accept them one by one. :) I never refuse friendship request. God knows how short we are of that.
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@moulee87 (320)
• India
11 Aug 12
Hey! You dint give me any test! lol! Thanks for the acceptance! Happy lotting!
• Vietnam
11 Aug 12
Oh, I think that's so easy. When you see a myLotter let's check their profile. If they do something on myLot ( response, start discussions,...) nearly, they are active, and vice versa. Let's check the peoples that you sent request to, and you will see. I am a newbie in myLot too. This site is not easy to earn money. You should use this site like a social network. And you will find very interested. Have a good day!
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@moulee87 (320)
• India
11 Aug 12
Hey! I came to know about this site thru my friend as a social network site only. He never told that myLot is paying! After registering only I came to know such things. Anyway, let me have it in my mind that myLot is a social networking site!
@yugasini (12816)
• Anantapur, India
11 Aug 12
hi moulee, when i see a new friendship request immediately i will accept it, i do not even check the profile also, since long time i am not seeing any profiles, but some times i will see the profiles after some days, now i have more than 700 friends in this site, if you do not get approved your request for long time, then think that they are inactive,it is better to send request for friends who are active and whose discussions or responses are in mylot,have a nice day
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@moulee87 (320)
• India
11 Aug 12
Hi yuga! Nice to have you here! Let me wait for 24 hours for the users who log in frequently! Some say that they have strict rules to accept my request! Let me wait for those users also!
@Juliyan23 (600)
• Indonesia
11 Aug 12
I have been here for 2 days, and I haven't sent any friend requests yet. But I do always accept the friend requests which were sent to me. I'm not always online, but when I'm online I will check if there any friend requests or comments . My discussion hadn't been commented by anyone for 5 hours, then I went to sleep. Then this morning I saw some comments , replies, and friend requests. So I think the late responses is because of we have different time at our own place to the others. When the night comes and I sleep, the rest of the world are about the dawn - time for people start doing they activity. anyway, thanks for the friend request you sent to me :)
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@moulee87 (320)
• India
11 Aug 12
Hi Juli! As you have waited I waited for few minutes only! But I was excited to cross those seconds! Finally got 1 comment from where my(Lot) journey of discussion started and it goes healthy!
@bLadeee (403)
• Philippines
11 Aug 12
Hello and welcome to myLot. Maybe you can tell if a member here is active based on the number of his/her post but it is not that accurate since we never know whether that account become active again or will be inactive in the future. Another way is that, you can look at the discussion's made and look for members who comment. Anyway, welcome again and try to be active here.
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@moulee87 (320)
• India
11 Aug 12
Hi bLadee! Only source that helps me to know the activeness of the user is bottom theirs profile page. But I expect more from the myLot admin to show this on the site level which will be more interesting!
• India
11 Aug 12
Hello my friend moulee87 Ji, Please do not get diosheartened so early. There are memebers who would like to filter out at micro-level and then accede to your request, unlike me, who immediately response. Please do one thing, go to Discussion (today's top) and you will find many discussions, they are all active and you may choose few of them, at randum or by your choice. In my case I never go through anyone's profile, only that I discoiurage e-earning. I am here to pass my time and enjoy International community. All the best for myLotting. May God bless You and have a great time
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@moulee87 (320)
• India
11 Aug 12
Hi! Its not like disheartened! Some myLot users are very strict I think! They notice the people particularly newbies and then they accept their friend request! I think it also pays you good as it will avoid spams! Let me wait and see how many accepts my request!
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@sajeevking (5080)
• Mumbai, India
11 Aug 12
Visit the member profile and on the left hand side you would see when the person was last online.
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@moulee87 (320)
• India
11 Aug 12
Thanks San! People here (active people) always follow guideline and many know the micro information about myLot! Hope it will be a gradual learning for me till I reach some good count line you!
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