do you get marriaged with a person who has no house?

China
September 27, 2012 1:48am CST
getting marriaged is very important for a person in life,if you love a person,but he has no house,do you get married with him,we all know the house is important in our live and it is dear,sometimes we use one life to pay for it,what do you think?
11 responses
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
27 Sep 12
I don't care he has a house or not, i care he loves me with all his heart and wants to settle down with me or not. If he has a job and work hard, he can buy his own house later
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
27 Sep 12
well, get married with a man, we need many things: love, his characters, works, etc...If he earns temporarily a little money then it is ok, because it is just temporarily, he can find a good job or does his business to earn much more money later..If he is lazy and have no effort to work hard, earn more money, then of course i don't want to get married with a lazy man.
• China
27 Sep 12
i agree with you, i hate the lazy person,but it will spend our one life to have own house,so long!
• China
27 Sep 12
but if he has no good job,i mean he earns a little,what do you do?
@ddaguno (3107)
• Philippines
27 Sep 12
yes, a house is very imporatnt but it wouldnt be the reason shy i would or wouldnt marry somebody. we can buy it together if he doesnt have one.
• China
27 Sep 12
but it will be hard.i think .
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
27 Sep 12
Yes, of course it is hard but if they love each other a lot and together build their house, i am sure they can do it...
• China
27 Sep 12
maybe we should buy house by ourselves.even it is so hard.good luck!
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
I think to love someone is not required any material thing or wealth. Having no house or money is not a requirement for those people consider love the most. If that is the requirement to get marriage. I don't think that marriage is good enough and stay healthy. How if there is a sudden unusual events will be happen and that house be burn or those money is rob? Does that mean you go away with that person because he is nothing to give you anymore? So, I think those requirement is irrelevant and greed thinking. Love is the most important for people to get marriage not because of particular wealth or properties.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
Yup! Love should not be compare to any material things. Because money can't buy you love. Even if your the riches person on earth and have no love. That wealth is useless...even if you have a man or woman in your side but without love. You ruin yourself by loneliness and unhappy lifestyle.
• China
8 Oct 12
what you say is right,i think,love is love,it is not related to house,good luck!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
27 Sep 12
I think that before even thinking of gettibg martied, one should be sure enough that they are financially stable enough.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
27 Sep 12
If you don't want to stay with your parents or future in laws, then you need to find your own. an apartment would do for the meantime.
• China
27 Sep 12
i want to have our own house,we need to work hard for it,good luck!
• China
27 Sep 12
include house?
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
28 Sep 12
Yes I was married to a person who had no house. It's normal here to rent. Now I am married to to someone who has no house. He rents a room and if he can not afford it he has to look for a cheaper place to stay. I rent a house and have bought a house in Hungary that I have to renovate. It's for my youngest kid so they have some property/money if they are grown up. Personally I don't care if someone owns a house or not (owning cost a lot of money since you have to take care of it as well). I think the only important thing is you have a place for you to stay no matter if you own it or not.
• China
29 Sep 12
perhaps house is only a place for us to stay,it is not so necessary.good luck!
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
27 Sep 12
Yes, definitely I will get married with a person who has no house as long as he has capability to support our family and of course if i home him and he loves me too. Actually when i get married both my husband and i inherited house from our parent since were both youngest in the family but we choose to buy our own house from the fruit of our hardworking and love.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
27 Sep 12
yeah, i totally agree with you too. a couple can build their own house later as long as they love each other and together do it
• China
27 Sep 12
we build our own house,it sounds beutiful,but the reality is cruel,i think.
@GemmaR (8517)
27 Sep 12
A house is important in the long term, but I would have to think about the reasons why he has not got a house yet. My partner is renting a home at the moment, which is not the same as owning it, but at least it means that there is somewhere to live which I think is much better than nothing. I would move in with him providing that we were taking steps to be able to find somewhere to live ourselves in the future that we could buy. I wouldn't want to get married to somebody who didn't have those kind of prospects, because I want to know that if I want a family in the future we would have the money and the ability to provide for that family.
• China
28 Sep 12
he dose not buy house,i think only because of the money.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
27 Sep 12
Well, for me, I was always told to evaluate the person for what it is, certainly not for what he has! So, I fully agree that having a home is an important thing, because otherwise also where you go to live after marriage? But if you really are in love, let's forget for a moment the illusions and riches! Accommodation I believe in all ways will be scheduled before the fateful day of YES. For many, the most beautiful day of their lives! However, I emphasize the fact that everything must be planned just before the wedding.
• China
27 Sep 12
i agree with you,we must face the reality which is cruel.
• Philippines
27 Sep 12
It is important to have house first before marriage, but if you really love him with or without house will do. Just be sure that after marriage he has a plan to buy a house of your own. Because its so difficult to live with your in-laws or rent some place to stay.
• China
28 Sep 12
you are right,renting house is very diffcult.i think.
@ztuberi (395)
• Philippines
28 Sep 12
For me its a requirement, well at least at first you can rent, just to be independent and not to live with your parents. But you really should invest for your own home. And actually its really always better to invest a home before getting married. Because its harder to save when you're married already, especially when you have kids.
@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
28 Sep 12
That's what my father did... He ended up married at a rather late age... And my mom is very lucky to have her own house as soon as she is married...
• Philippines
16 Nov 12
i am sure that if he doesn't have a house of his own he must be renting a place to live, you can start it from there and as you go along with your lives you can work together and make your dream house. you cannot just put a good man down just because he doesn't own a house would you? the most important thing is you love each other, make and fulfill your dreams together. but i clearly understand your worries, it is difficult not to have your own home, but if you love each other and work together you can make your dreams come true.