Excuse me, am I bothering you ?

United States
October 3, 2012 6:21pm CST
I would like to know if you feel bother by one sentence respond ? Is it hurting you ? Is it taking away from your earning ? I see members complaining all the time that they hate when members respond with one line respond , but is it your business? how is it affecting you ? Do every respond need a full essay ? Your approach is all wrong , if you want to encourage someone to write more for their own benefits , think of how you say it and dont pretend like you never make a one sentence respond . I mean we are all free here , and if you want to make one sentence respond your are not breaking mylot rule ,,,, so who are you to judge? I am playing the devils advocate's
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@echoforever (5180)
• United States
3 Oct 12
If it still moves the discussion along and makes sense with the topic yes one line is fine. It is just when someone will write one line that makes no sense that I really disagree with that. The way you go about that one line is what counts.
• Philippines
3 Oct 12
good to see your back. we miss you a lot. how was your mom? i hope she doing fine already. anyway, going back to the discussion, there are members who responded one responded one sentence but the thought is there. it really gives a strike...
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• Philippines
4 Oct 12
I'm glad that she is doing very fine. i know everything will be alright. just be strong.just keep your faith in god.he will always be there for us.
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• United States
4 Oct 12
Mom is in high spirits. She will be getting a scan soon to see how her treatments are going. Thank you for your thoughts and prayers! I understand I think. Some lines can be helpful when they are short. Others just will not help at all and should just be left out though.
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@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
4 Oct 12
Hi silver quite an interesting post...personally I don't care if people give one liners..If that what they want to say then why should anyone else care..I try to give my best experiences/knowledge to a post..and who can say wheather I should have said a little less or a little more? its MY response...if i want to make a one liner so be it.. I'll tell you want annoys me is when i read a response that has NOTHING to do with the topic or they write something that i just have absolutely no idea what they have written, even after reading it several times...so in instaances like that a one liner would be welcome....
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• United States
4 Oct 12
Thats how it should be , none of us are paying your bills so we cant tell you how you should respond . I also believe in giving your best and if you can do that with few words , good for you and if you have a lot to say and want to share excellent because I like that too . I think if the person is not coming on your post to be rude , I appreciate it . Happy mylotting
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• Philippines
4 Oct 12
I agree that it is really annoying to see a response or a comment that is not related to the discussion that you've post. i don't know if he/ she posted it there in a mistake? or he/ she intentionally post it there even without relevant to the post just to ptove that he/ she has posted.
• Philippines
4 Oct 12
giving your best, that's the word.it is not important on how long is your response or not. as long as the thought is there. as long as it's understable. as long as it helps the user on his/ her concern, that is definitely fine with me. we came from different cultures and beliefs so we have different point of view. the best thing about is we get to respect each point of view. happy mylotting!
@GardenGerty (157562)
• United States
4 Oct 12
MyLot encourages you to add as much detail and be as descriptive as possible. If it only takes one sentence, the you just write the one sentence. However a one line response from you may not give me what I need to respond back to you,so it hurts the discussion in that way. It is your choice.
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• United States
4 Oct 12
Sometimes we can ask the person to elaborate ... I remember a topic someone did when I was a newbie here and I notice that person ask everyone certain question to help bring out what they trying to say in such a way that almost everyone on his discussion had at least 3 different respond and I keep going back to that old discussion and even now I still remember it because of his approach . I mean sometime some discussion pull you in and you can get into details , especially when you notice the person is interested in what you have to say . You know what I am saying , like the more you give me the more I can give you .
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• Philippines
4 Oct 12
giving sufficient details and giving descriptive responses gives the discussion maker enough options or solutions on what to do with his/ her concern.
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@GardenGerty (157562)
• United States
9 Oct 12
Yes, asking leading questions does build the discussion. I do not complain about one line responses, I am grateful that people see my discussion. Your response here, silverfox is a very good example of how to build a conversation, and rberon is correct that improved options build the discussion.
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
3 Oct 12
Hi Silverfox it doesn't matter to me, even if my responders just commented one sentence. the most important is that they share what they have on mind. we cannot do something on that. it would be better rather than you will get a zero response on your post. it only means to say that no one is interested to your post.in this site, i am more focus on sharing my thoughts and ideas on the different discussions posted here.it all the matters. sometimes i would be surprise, unknowingly I was able to meet my target.
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• United States
3 Oct 12
It doesnt matter to me also but I see a lot of other discussion about people making one line comment so I was just wondering how is it affecting them . It is always best to focus on your own target . Thanks for your respond .
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• Philippines
4 Oct 12
there are actually two kinds of response. i can be a good response or a bad response. good responses are those responses that really captures the heart of the discussion maker and tagged as best response. and for bad responses are for members who just responded just to say that they responded to the post and earn some cents.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
4 Oct 12
Those who respond just to say that they responded so that they can make some cents... will not make any cents at all Those ar the ones who then complain later that myLot pays solittle and they are wasting their time. Yeah, right
@ShyBear88 (59283)
• Sterling, Virginia
4 Oct 12
It doesn't bother me when people give me a one word respoinse it can make it hard to understand what they are saying or meaning so I normally ask them back what do they mean or something. Is it hurting me no it's not hurting me or my feelings if someone says one word. Does it hurt my earnings it might hurt my earnings but that is a risk that I have to take with either letting it be or saying something. When someones leaves a one word response in a way it does mess up your earnings because that response will be deleted it not only affects them but it affects you a especially if you go back and respond to them. Nope I don't need a full easy more then one word like a short scentence would be nice but they don't have to its there choice. If other ask when they come here and are new I normally highly suggest that they write more then just a few words like a senctens or two because if they want to make a good earning then they might want to make sure they have more then one word. After a few commonets on that discussions you can leave a one word responses and nothing will happen to it.
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• United States
4 Oct 12
I dont think one word would be easy to understand , what do you think about one sentence ? I am referring to one sentence respond because I see people make valid point with one sentence , it also give me enough to go on .
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• Philippines
4 Oct 12
I agree with silverfox.it won't be easy to understand if the responder will just give one word response, it should be at least one sentence.
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@ShyBear88 (59283)
• Sterling, Virginia
17 Oct 12
So you two can't understand the word No or Yes. Those are one word responses those are pretty darn clear. One word sentence can be use to clearify the reason behind an answer but that doesn't always make it any better to understand some times it makes it more difficult. It all depends on what your looking for and if it fits what your thinking of the response to be. I agree is a sentence but at 2 word responses.
@aejey322 (1004)
• Philippines
4 Oct 12
I do agree with you.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
4 Oct 12
" And comments/responses does not in any way affect your earnings neither." Indirectly theu do. If a response/comment furthers the topic then it gives us the chance to add something more to it when we comment back and that is how we earn. In the Guidelines we are told to add something of substance and not respond just for the sake of it. Often those meaningless responses are deleted along with out comment too. If our posts are deleted we lose the earnings that they produced.
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• United States
4 Oct 12
Aejey I may have miss the memo lol but I dont see why they can be so hurt if the respond is relevant to the discussion.If the discussion starter feel its irrelevant and dismiss that person respond is hurting his/her self in the future also . Mysdianait I agree if the respond has nothing to do with the discussion then its irrelevant but sometimes it can be language barrier . So I am just saying we all started off learning and we should let others learn also , we can help them without letting them feel "meaningless" . Thanks you both for your respond
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@aejey322 (1004)
• Philippines
4 Oct 12
I'm just kidding with having a one-liner reply... But seriously, I do agree with you. It doesn't hurt me nor make me feel anything if a member replies with just a single line sentence... or even just a phrase. We should even be thankful that they made an effort to read your post and left a comment. And comments/responses does not in any way affect your earnings neither... You are right, we are free to do that because it does not violate any myLot policies. I couldn't understand why others may feel bad about it...
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
4 Oct 12
I have no problem at all with a single sentence response. A member is entitled to respond in whatever manner they like as long as they are civil about it. I rarely submit very short responses because I try to limit myself to replying to discussions which attract me, so it is natural for me to say a fair amount. This is my choice and I expect this to be accepted, so I would have no moral right to disagree with another member's choice of response.
@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
5 Oct 12
Your approach is just as good as mine because that is what you prefer. The beauty of Mylot is that we can choose to respond to whatever we like, so the reason that we choose a discussion is quite irrelevant as long as we enjoy the site.
• United States
4 Oct 12
I like your approach , you respond to something that you are really interested in .That is a lesson for all , I must admit I am guilty of not always following it lol I sometimes visit friends discussion for the sake of being a fried. I sometimes end up in thing s I have no idea about and I just want to learn so I dont get in details , I may end up asking question instead . Have a good day .
• United States
6 Oct 12
Ok I'll argue the pro side on this one. I feel we have a right to complain about 1 line answers. They usually don't add anything to the discussion, they earn no money for the poster or the discussion starter (you have to have at least 4 lines for a post to earn at least 1 cent) Its just basically a waste of time for everyone involved when a person posts a one line response. I don't think that complaining directly to that poster really helps anything. But if you explain to that poster that they are wasting their time and energy with one line answers, they may be more likely to put more effort into their responses and create better discussions for everyone.
• United States
6 Oct 12
I would never say to make the person feel meaningless by berating them about the post they make here. That will not only not help the situation, but it may actually lose you a friend on MyLot, or even for them to leave MyLot altogether. But, if you educate that person on how a one line answer is ineffective, and how they can learn and earn more by creating a conversation with their posts rather than just quickly typing a response, they will be grateful for the help, and also make MyLot a better and more interesting place for all of us!
• United States
6 Oct 12
I will argue why do we make what another person do around their computer affect us ? to the point that we make another person feel meaningless when we our self are not perfect and guilty of it also, maybe not today because we are now season to mylot but no one here can tell me they never made a one line respond . Also some approach will not work with everyone if you are really concern about that person earning encourage him to get more into details , visit his profile follow some of his discussion . I am a pro now and I still do as I please , but in the beginning I made one sentence respond according to the discussion but now I am more creative to stretch my respond even if the discussion ask only a question . I appreciate your argument ... thank you
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• United States
9 Oct 12
That is what I am talking about some people will make a newbie feel meaningless and that person may leave all together because of that . I agree with educating others can help us all but sometimes some people approach is to bash a person and that is just wrong . Because some discussion are just one lie question so its hard to answer with a lot of details . Yes they will be grateful if they feel welcome and it will make us all feel more free and happy to be here .
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Oct 12
hi silverfox no its not hurting me if they do not w ant to earn for their responses thats no hurt off me. I read the guidelines and if the one sentence is nothing it does not pay the person anything,. so good for my side there's more money for the rest of us.we are all free here of course and if any of us like to break rules go right ahead just do not bia,.t.ch if your earnings go down.I do not judge anyone.I just keep on being a nerd who does read the guidelines and the FAQ's and does try not t o break rules.the only time I feel bothered by a response is when its evident the responder in her one line did not read my discussion and her one line made no sense at all. If I was discussing say telemarketers driving me nuts and the one line read "I do not like lemonaide either I prefer coca cola" I think I am right in saying she never read my discussion as that one line makes no sense at all.
• United States
4 Oct 12
Well that person would clearly not be interested in your discussion or was replying to the wrong discussion or something . I think if they are on point I find no problem and yes it may affect their earning but they can do what they want . Sometimes they may give you one line but then give someone else discussion more because of their interest and experience in that . I just chill and watch most time because I know we all grow in our different ways . Thank you
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
4 Oct 12
I think that one sentence responses are fine just as long as they go along with what is being discussed and in my opinion, I don't like seeing those one liners where they say that they agree and that is all. Okay yes, you agree, but why do you agree. That is what bugs me. But one liners are fine with me.
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• United States
4 Oct 12
I would not understand a person that make a one word answer unless its a yes or no answer lol .You could ask them why they agree ... I am yet to come across one word respond Except for "thanks"
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@vandana7 (98834)
• India
4 Oct 12
Ah my advocate.. I must be honest with you, right? Well, I used to be one liner person when I was young. And that got taken as a snob or a person who doesnt like mingling. Many of the one liners earned me enemies because of the possible misinterpretation. I was called once by a nice old lady who also happened to be my English teacher and asked to explain myself a bit more which she felt would keep me away from controversies. I struggled and while I still can go the one liner way, I dont really want to be at risk. I like my friends too. :)
• United States
4 Oct 12
That is true people will say you are that when they dont know you, but I am just a person that dont always go with majority and that also make me enemies but I am like that , I like to look at things from all point of views . Did you make your one lines on mylot or in English class? On mylot I will make one line based on your questions and if its a discussion then I am more likely to elaborate.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
4 Oct 12
Well, in Italy there is a proverb that says "ask is lawful, answering is courtesy." I personally rest bad enough when I write a question and nobody answers me. Then I like to see all of the free responses, which people can respond according to their own personal opinion that in no way be influenced by anyone. If, then people respond just to get an economic return, rather than showing a real interest in my discussion, this is a problem that does not affect me personally.
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@BabyCheetah (1911)
• Australia
6 Oct 12
Well you know with some responses I can write long sentences depending on the questoion or discussion but with others well I want to reply but I can only write one or two sentences. But if you do write longer and thoughtful sentences you will earn more I think. I just write what I think I don't care what anyone else wants to write or how long as long as they are being helpful ande thoughtful in their response
• United States
9 Oct 12
Yes that is it , it all depend on the discussion and maybe the language . I think you earn more also on the longer your answer is which is good . I also like your attitude write what you want that is how I am . I dont watch what another person do , I try my best to be helpful so it depend on my mood and the discussion I am answering . Thanks you for your respond
• China
5 Oct 12
Ye,we are all freedom here,no one can juge others by this. In fact,i didn't discover this phenomenon since i logged in mylot. Or,maybe there was,but i didn't care of it.After all,someone can take some time to answer our questions,that's enough.Right?
• United States
5 Oct 12
I agree if they take time out to answer our question that should be good enough . Its not nice to make people feel irrelevant , we all learn at our own paste . Have a good day and thanks for your respond
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