curves are sexy?

Romania
October 7, 2012 1:36pm CST
I'm a woman first. second....I don't like women who are extremly slim. one of my friends had this problem...she wanted to look like those models who appear on tv. she was a normal woman in what concernes her body and she also had a pretty face. but she wasn't happy with her appearance. so she started taking pills and stoped eating. she distroied her immunitary system and now she looks totally unhealthy I find sexy a woman who has curves...not fat...but a woman who does sports and you can see that on her body because she has nice looking legs and fit abs...
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14 responses
@subhojit10 (7382)
• India
7 Oct 12
Yes u are absolutely right. What is the point in taking pills and later on regretting about the same. They are always harmful for the body and might end up hampering your system. It is good to be natural and if we want to have any physical changes then also we should take the help of natural ways to achieve it. A woman should never resort to any artificial means to look beautiful and presentable. What say?
• Romania
7 Oct 12
I don't have anything against surgery...there are certain things which can't be solved with sport for example. the facial features are an important part of the look and if a facial lifting would make the woman feel better than why not. but when it comes to body weight sometimes we're to lazy to start working out so we turn to all kinds of methods...like the one of taking pills without realising how much damage we can do to our health system
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
For me, a sexy person does not necessary to have curvacious body. If one can be proud of himself/ herself and he/she knows how to handle his/her body, then I can consider that he/she is sexy. Also those who have confidence with what they have can also be considered sexy
@GemmaR (8526)
8 Oct 12
I think that there is a difference between having curves and being fat, and unfortunately this difference is something that not everybody can understand. When I see something in the media about curves, it is usually talking about women who are quite clearly overweight. I don't think that it is ever a good thing to be promoting that kind of body image, because at the end of the day it isn't healthy for her to be that size. However, if her shape is what is giving her curves, and you can see that she has a very low body fat percentage, then this is a different thing entirely and something that should almost certainly be both encouraged and celebrated.
@urbandekay (18312)
8 Oct 12
Models are that way because the fashion industry is run by gay men, who would rather women look like little boys all the best urban
@laydee (12814)
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
I don't like women who look like walking sticks, neither do I like a woman who's only a woman because of the birth card because of too much muscles and all. I like women who don't really have abs, don't necessarily do sports but look fit. I guess I like the ones who are genetically healthy. hehehe.. Well... But my partner loves chubby ones.. perhaps that's why he loves me. hehehe.. Have a great mylot experience ahead!
@bluespygirl (2112)
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
It really depends on a person's perception what for him or her is beautiful. Others say that being thin is beautiful. I find it sexy too when a woman is curvaceous. But then again, it depends. I'm a little fat but I still consider myself sexy in other terms
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
hi swissheart, sorry to hear that :( when i was in high school, i used to suffer the same dilemma. I used to think that being thin is sexy. But i was all wrong. Good thing i manage to survive that phase in my life. I learned that being sexy/beautiful is learning to accept the real you. Love your own body, love your own skin. I've learned that being sexy is not the curves nor the muscles. Being sexy is an attitude. It's all about confidence, it's in the way how you carry yourself. I promised to myself that I won't ever starve myself just to be thin. It's not healthy at all. Good luck to your friend. I'll pray for her.
@flapiz (5805)
• Australia
8 Oct 12
Woah "abs"? That's kinda hard to obtain. This is the skinny era I guess. Sometimes, I feel down because of this skinny standard as my body build is the voluptuous. Whatever I do these curves seem to stay. Anyway I think curvy women are more sexy especially if the curves are in the right places.
@pals101 (2011)
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
For me, it really doesn't matter if a woman has a curved body, as long as she is neat, knows to handle himself, having confidence that is what I find sexy.
@obe212003 (2302)
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
i quite agree, i find women with curves basically out of workout or physical fitness, and not those made by artificial measures. Curves make a gracious statement of femininity, correct me if i'm wrong, lol! But i think sexy is more than curves as one could have oozing appeal with her mind, lol!
• China
8 Oct 12
Yes curves not only sexy but also healthy,but curve not chubby,in my opinion,curve is some part should be big is bigger,some part should be small is smaller,so that is perfect. But if a man really love you so much then he will not then I think no matter slim or chubby you are,he will like you the same.
@WakeUpKitty (8706)
• Netherlands
7 Oct 12
Personally I also don't like the bony types, it's hard to believe there are men who do. There is nothing female on it (or soft). Most of the time the models are not very easy people either always on a diet. What fat is to others can look great or attractive as well. This is a personal taste. I wonder why women need to sport, most women are working day and night, how much sport does one need? There are also plenty of women who have a great body without training in the gym. I women who looks like a bodybuilder is not attractive to my opinion (men aren't either). Your friends biggest problem is a lack of self esteem. Even if she is slim or underweighted she will never feel happy. The only thing she wants is to have control about something. In her case it's her weight. I think she needs serious help. Someone should ask her why she feels as if she lost all control, what happened to her or who gave her that feeling.
• United States
7 Oct 12
society has become a very strange place when we focus upon what people look like. while its true that society does hold a "norm" for what we find to be attractive.. its also true that each individual is attracted to someone else, and there is a 'type' for everyone. imho, media and corporations really made a mistake by selling to us an idea of what we should look like, so we would purchase their products and fatten their already fattened wallets. while our wallets shrink, and we still dont feel better because all along we were just trying to fill the shoes of some image they were trying to sell us. society FAIL!! Natural is beautiful!! [:
@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
7 Oct 12
I admit that slim and slender woman are very attractive to me but I am not saying that the rest does not appeal to my taste as well. I believe that this kind of attraction is somehow influenced by modern culture.