It's sad when Christmas comes early.

No glib comment from me this time. - sad times.
@ajk111 (2495)
October 11, 2012 6:01pm CST
When someone tells me 'christmas has come early', i take it as a windfall of good fortune. Today, my workmate told me they were having Christmas in November because thier 20 year old son is coming home on a break from his first tour of Afghanistan with the British army. We have spoken often at work about his and his wife's fears for their son and i appreciate how they must be feeling organising a xmas dinner and presents more than a month early. Have you experienced anything similar? I definately cannot put myself in thier position. Have you had an early christmas? Was it a good or bad experience?
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• United States
12 Oct 12
We didn't have an early Christmas but rather a late one ... well, I guess that it could be considered an early one for the coming year, but that would have meant that we had completely skipped on Christmas for the previous year. Anyway, my parents and some other family members could not make it home (I still live around where we are all from, which in my mind is still "home") for the holidays, so we waited until we could go to them, which was in June of the following year, for us all to celebrate Christmas together. Of course, we did have a Christmas celebration for the children on Christmas, especially since Santa Claus still makes his rounds on the special day, but the adults waited until everybody was together to exchange presents, and the children obviously also got more presents then as well. Doing it this way worked out very well not only because we got to celebrate with family but also because we knew it would be in June, so we could wait until things went on sale to buy them (we did not have the usual "time crunch"), which made it easier on our wallets. It also helped with the clothes buying, because we got the needed winter outfits for the children and relatives got the cute summer outfits as children seem to outgrow clothes faster than we can buy them.
@ajk111 (2495)
12 Oct 12
that sounds like a really special day, better than a normal xmas day. Plus the kids have pu;;ed a masterstroke getting two sets of pressys, bet they're wanting that every year!
• United States
12 Oct 12
I saw on television recently where a little boy has cancer and they do not know whether or not he will make it to Christmas, although obviously they are hoping and praying that he will. Still, he is about to undergo another round of treatments, and the parents wanted to do something special for him. They asked what he wanted, and he said that he wanted to celebrate Christmas now, because he knew that if he did, then he could make it through the treatments and be here to see Santa Claus. The entire neighborhood got together and decorated for Christmas and celebrated early with the child and his family. It was really beautiful, and I think that sometimes that is what we all need ... it really is just a symbol of hope and love, which can be done at any time.
@ajk111 (2495)
12 Oct 12
when you hear of stories like that where people pull together it really does pull at the heartstrings. i genuinely felt emotional when i read about the street celebrating along with the family. maybe this world is'nt as bad as i thought. a truely beautiful story.
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• Philippines
12 Oct 12
Oh,that's really early. I haven't experienced celebrating Christmas as early as that. I guess it'll be our first time this year because Christmas falls on a Tuesday. I go back to work on Monday so it's not practical for me to go home on Tuesday to celebrate Christmas. I guess my husband and I should talk about it first. Of course, I also want to spend it on the real day.I guess it's my first time to celebrate Christmas away from my family if ever.I'll think about it well. Christmas is just once a year. :)
• Philippines
17 Oct 12
Thanks a lot. I hope you'll have a great Christmas too. Let's enjoy it. It's only once a year.
@ajk111 (2495)
12 Oct 12
I hope your xmas goes well.
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@much2say (53954)
• Los Angeles, California
12 Oct 12
Well in your friend's case, I totally understand. I can only imagine the "fear" a parent would have for their child that is in the military . . . having them home period would be the best present ever. In late July, the kids went to a birthday party - and it was Christmas themed. Everyone was to wear holiday colors - but of course we were all in our summer clothing. The decor was all Christmas-y, there were Christmas-y refreshments, and some Christmas-y parting gifts. It was a "cute" experience - it was a kids party so what can I say - except that maybe I would have ran the party differently!
@ajk111 (2495)
12 Oct 12
Agreed... your kids maybe had a positive spin on it. that is absolutely good for them to understand our customs.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
12 Oct 12
Hi ajk It is quite sweet of the parents and the son to have a great time together and I see it as something good for them that they are planning to celeberate early. After all what good celebrations are if you and family arent together. Though, buying stuff would have been difficult here to get the settings and decors done, but I think these wont be a much of issue creators... when there is a will with some good thought behind it, it goes a long way
@ajk111 (2495)
12 Oct 12
I think they are looking forward to it but at the same time they are hurting inside due to the circumstances. like all the members of the forces serving on tour they will put on a brave face and make the most of it.
@HomeBase (1153)
• United States
12 Oct 12
My family and I celebrate Christmas twice a year, once in September and once in December. Around the world there are certain peoples who always celebrate Christmas in September, certain Christian people, and certain Native American tribes to name a couple. I think that celebrating the spirit of Christmas is great anytime it is able to be celebrated. If it is celebrated in a month other than December, it may not be in sync with the rest of the world, but it is still good to celebrate. I think that anytime a family can come together and express thanks and exchange gifts due to the many blessings that they have been given, it is a good thing. I think that this soldier's family is very happy that they are able to have their son home at all because some soldiers go to Afghanistan and never return back home. I think it is bittersweet for them, but extremely sweet just the same.
@ajk111 (2495)
12 Oct 12
thanks for a wonderful reply. and you are right, it is a happy and sad at the same time for them but i know them well and they will make the most of it!
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
12 Oct 12
Yes i have same thing here in Mexico, one family has invited me to xmas dinner nov. 2nd as their son goes back to Iraq. Does feel strange to say its a xmas dinner. God bless you there.
@ajk111 (2495)
12 Oct 12
enjoy and make the most of it. hope you have a great time.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
11 Oct 12
ajk It is ok and fine, is it not? enjoy early. also enjoy holidays in december when christmas is celebrated by others. i would suggest you enjoy in the company party and also during december.
@ajk111 (2495)
11 Oct 12
Thanks for the kind words. As always, you are correct!