Loving the Unlovable

Every one needs love! When I first read this subject, I thought to myself who is the unlovable? Every one deserves love! I can understand that they're people in our lives we don't like, but one must treat them with respect and kindness. People that we may not like we can pray for them and hope they change their ways. Good discussion!

Thanks a ton for posting this discussion. Yes u are very much correct, all we need to do is to take the initiative and forget everything that is there in our mind and spread the pious message of love all and hate none. We should love everyone around us and should be aware of the fact that even the unlovable needs love from us. So we should be always loving by nature and spread love as much as possible. What say?

hi aliahnicole Yes its a great idea and while hard we can go it as we all are fellow human beings a great lesson and one hard to learn yet to stop the fighting and hating leaves us more open to all humanity as we accept the unlovable and become better people.

Nothing is impossible if you allow a certain amount of time to know somebody. Every person has something unique in himself. You just need to find that good point in him which most of the others do not.

So true. Believe it or not, lately i've been practicing that. My friends back home told me why i still care for my friend who has treated me so badly. I told them that I don't have any grudge against her and I'm still nice to her and still love her despite of it all. I told my friends back home that if i do bad in revenge, nothing would come out of it and i would end up bitter. If i do good, I wouldn't lose anything.

It is just same as opposite attracts......and the more you hate the more you love...Sometimes it is just very late for us to realize what we truly feel for that person,Sad thing if we are ready then it's already too late also.

Hmmm very deep my dear your been so emotional again tonight. I'm through with all that, I already have my freedom not to love the unlovable but still hoping in the future that I will love to lovable one.

I think that there is something about everybody that can be loved, but the hardest part of the challenge is being able to see that in the person. If you love somebody then you love them whatever their faults are, and once you realise this it is a lot easier to be able to accept it. If you don't love somebody then you should never waste your time trying to force these feelings, because I think that it is something that you either feel or you don't, and there isn't very much point in spending your time wondering why you don't love them.

I am an unlovable person! I have tried to find someone along time and I ended up with nothing! I am a very complacated person who has given up in finding love. I have searched and I not done any searching. So loving the unlovable is not going to happen here!

Yes, it's really hard to find the "unlovable" . Specially if that person has pained you once. At the office, i tried trying to be friendly to an office mate who has spread to put down some of us heading the departments at FB, but i think i just can't yet. He seemed not to be apologetic at all of what he has done, when confronted about it by our HR. Thus, until now my anger towards him doesn't banish yet.

hi aliah, I love my enemy more than I love others The more they hate the more I love them happy mylotting

everyone needs love,its inevitable and no matter what ,the time spent will be returned back to you from your loved ones

It's not human or animal like to love the unloveable. It's just utopia, also it shouldn't be like that. People are different and there is a very good reason for that. But what we could do is start to respect and accept eachother. That would be a very good start. If you don't like someone just let him/her live in peace instead of bullying and wasting a lot of your energy and time.

You are very right, it is possible so very hard to do, especially if the person isn't related to you by blood then there's no way that you will that person, any reason at all that you can think of. We can always find inspiration by how Jesus did the very same thing.

Nice post and would be even better if it could only be reality . If we could fight our human emotion then we could love the people that are mean to us . If it was only possible to turn the other cheek but not as long as we are human . We will feel pain and hurt and our animal instinct sometimes fight back while others crawl other rocks . Some people make it hard for you to love them , even when you try .

Nice share here my amiga I know it's easier said than done, but when we are at peace and we want to leave with peace- everything is possible when it comes to love. Even the hardest part of love would be possible, like loving our enemies. Enemies are not only those people whom we fight with or we have misunderstandings- but sometimes we never knew there are people who doesn't like us even though we haven't done anything wrong towards them. They are those people who have odd feelings towards us, unknowingly we bump with them, talk with them but deep inside they doesn't like us at all. But like what you wrote here, loving the unlovable is possible.