Missing my old life with friends
By hlfbldmom
@hlfbldmom (743)
Philippines
November 10, 2012 8:01pm CST
Lately I've been stuck at home. I didn't go out and when I said go out, never been outside our house. I am too lazy lately I stay a lot in my room go downstairs when I'm hungry or yet ask my niece to bring food upstairs. Some friends called and asked if we can hang out I said yes but on the last minute I really feel lazy so I made an excuses, they understand me because I am pregnant. But I miss hanging out with them really just that I am so lazy. My niece motivate me to go out like telling me new good movies to watch, new boutique shops newly opened or she convinced me to just have walked around to bond with them but still NO! I am so LAZY really! ;(
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13 responses
@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
12 Nov 12
I'm happy for you. I'm lazy today too co's I have my monthly period, but I would love to get pregnant too. Hubby and I been trying to conceive for four months now and nothing happen still. We went to a doctor already and have told us to take some meds and vitamins, tried it several months but we got tired and frustrated and stop.
I hope you'll get pass of that stage and hang out again with your friends. It's good to see them every now and then. Happy mylotting.
@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
12 Nov 12
Thanks for the info. You do 9 days after your period? I thought I have to count from my first day of period till the fourteenth. Anyhow, I will just trust that the Lord will give us complete joy when His perfect time comes. I'm 35 and it's not easy. But I'm not losing hope and I'm putting it in God's hands. :))God bless! I'm inspired by you! thanks.
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
12 Nov 12
Yeah we count 9 days after my period. I don't know where he got that idea of counting. My boyfriend told me that we do 9 days after my period maybe because the conception period is on the 14th day from first day so maybe he wanted to make it early to make sure (hehe).. Just stay positive and don't lose hope. God's plan is always perfect. I will pray for you and I'm sure God will answer my prayers as He always did. Godbless!. Take care!
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
12 Nov 12
Than you leeandrew!.
Im sorry to hear that!. I know the feeling!..We've been trying hard before and nothing happened!. You know what we do is we free ourselves from any stress, and we relax, we didn't try it for around 2-3 weeks then from the last day of my period we count 9 days and we try again and GOTCHA!..Try it if it works for both of you.
On my 2nd trimester I am sure it will get better..My 1st trimester will be over soon!.
Take care!
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@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
12 Nov 12
I think it's your condition of being pregnant why you always feel lazy. Is this your first? I heard some women have the same kind of feeling and some doctors said, it may be associated with pregnancy.
But other medical professionals advised women with the same conditions to have daily exercises, like short walking or not to remain idle most of the time.
Do let your friends visit you too, maybe when they are around it may change your mood.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
12 Nov 12
Having a regular check-up with your OB is a must and since it's your first baby, you must be careful always. I hope your friends visit you too and congrats. 
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
12 Nov 12
Hi Stanley,
Yeah maybe that is the reason why I feel so lazy. I do clean my room everyday have a walk downstairs that,s it. Been with my OB last week she told me everything is normal..Yes, this is my first baby so kinda hard pregnancy.
Thank you for the advise. I might ask my friends to visit me. I never think of that!. Thank you!
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
11 Nov 12
Welcome to Mylot, are you sure it is down to laziness the way you feel or it could be a bought of depression. Depression stops us doing a lot of things that we usually enjoy, we lose interest and just can't be bothered, that's not being lazy, that's symptoms of depression.
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
11 Nov 12
Thank you Wolfie,
I am not depress I know for sure I'm not!. I am just lazy!. I don't have any reason to get depress. I am happy! And been with my OB Gyne lately she didn't told me I have signs of depression.I am doing fine though!
Well, next time I will go to my OB I will tell her about my laziness!.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
13 Nov 12
Hi friend, sad to hear about this, don't worry you will meet your friends soon and spend your time with them in a good manner, my wishes for you
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
13 Nov 12
Hi vidhyaprakash!
Yeah, i will be able to meet them soon. Maybe they will come and visit me on weekend!. I hope...Thank you!..
@41CombedaleRoad (5952)
• Greece
13 Nov 12
Are you really lazy or are you suffering with agoraphobia? This is a fear of open spaces and is a well known problem. Whatever has caused you to get this 'lazy' outlook you really should take yourself out again. You will become boring to your friends and they will tire of trying to help you. Please this is nothing to be proud of, do yourself a favour and step out of that door. If it is a medical condition then you need professional help.
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
13 Nov 12
I am not a lazy person just that lately when I get pregnant I feel lazy. But I am fine maybe I am just lazy to go out. I do some cleaning and organizing in my room every other day. Thank you for the advice. I did my motivation yesterday I go out with my niece. Thank you for the concern.
@franseman (516)
• Philippines
11 Nov 12
Why complaining when you know what is the problem? Go kick yourself girl and stop complaining. It's all in your own hands!
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
12 Nov 12
Hi franseman!.
I am not complaining Im just saying that I am lazy lately.
Take care!
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
11 Nov 12
Hi Cutie,
Yeah. I need to motivate myself or forced myself to go out. Thank you for the advised.
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
11 Nov 12
Awesome. Be sure to walk around a little (at least), coz lethargy's a beeotch. 
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
11 Nov 12
ya me too,there are variety of raesons for it like when i was young we use to hang out everywhere and the time we spendt together was simply awesome and we always dealt problems unitedly,no worries but not life is so jealous filled and selfish too
@nelerkz (467)
• Philippines
11 Nov 12
We can be feel lazy sometimes but don't abuse the laziness. You miss the chance to hang out with your friends, you need to expose your existence. Just enjoy life or else since that you are pregnant, you have fear to face them. Just be yourself and enjoy life. :)
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
11 Nov 12
Hi Nelerkz,
I don't have fear to face them just that I am so lazy. But I am motivating myself now to go out and hang out with my friends. Thank you for the advised.
@kenshin2143 (1880)
• Philippines
11 Nov 12
Friends are one of the greatest gifts we could ever had. And missing such would really be depressing. As for your case, it really depends on how will you motivate yourself to go out again.
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
11 Nov 12
Thank you kenshin! I will start to motivate myself so soon and go out with my friends again. I really miss the times hanging out with them.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
11 Nov 12
Yes I am the same way. I left friends and family in las vegas when I moved back to mexico. I hope I get to go visit them all soon. Hope you are having a great weekend.
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
11 Nov 12
Hi Maria,
I do have a great Weekend!. Thank you. I hope you too and that you can visit your family and friends this holiday season!
Have a great week ahead!
@qw86289as (39)
• China
11 Nov 12
A good friend is a good thing,until now I just know a good friends,I really very few friends,because I am not good at expression,so friends,friends need more communication can be understading, hope to make more friends.An introverted person.
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
11 Nov 12
I have lots of friends I can say, from childhood friends. high school friends to college friends and online friends but only few trusted friends whom I can tell everything. An I communicate with my friends more often just that I am so lazy to go out and i miss being with them. With them I can laugh our loud and burst out what's on my mind whatever it is.
