am i bad or what???

@asliah (11137)
Philippines
December 3, 2012 5:14am CST
greetings to all of you guys,i think i am crazy because i still hacking the account of my ex boyfriend,hacking i mean i still know the password of my ex so i can easily browse his Facebook account,and my reason is if he already have a new girl in his life and what he doing in his life now,do you think guys that i am bad for browsing the account of my ex? i know he didn't know that i still know his password,all i know is I'm crazy doing that,maybe i still feelings for him,hmm,, is it bad or not?why?do also know your ex partner's password in Facebook account?how often you browse it and what is your reason/s too?
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35 responses
• China
3 Dec 12
You still love him according this, you still care about his life although you are not together. But it's not good for your new life, you love him, but he maybe not. So you should end this active and start a new life, it's better for you. Additional, your action maybe affect his life!
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@eagletrek2 (5499)
• Kingston, New York
3 Dec 12
Hi you should not even bother with you ex boy friend forget about the pass and work on the future to find your true soul mate,jsut do what you do in life before you know it you find your next boyfriend maybe your future husban that what I an doing now so I can find my my future wife like helping my Rabbi if he or she need it working my job, and getting involed with the commuinty. ok hae a good day.
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
3 Dec 12
I would not consider it to be a serious matter, but it is certainly not prudent. You have to consider how you would feel if you discovered a boyfriend previous to the one you refer to was accessing and reading your account. It may seem innocent to you to monitor his account, but I suspect that you would feel different if it was your account. If you do still have feelings for him then you are not furthering any chance of reconciliation by doing something that could totally alienate him.
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• Philippines
3 Dec 12
You still want to be with him. I guess u still love him. Maybe you should let go.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
3 Dec 12
I also think most probably you still wanted to be with him and you must let go if you are not able to get him back and to carry on with your life.
3 Dec 12
i think it time u stop going through your guys account coz u now dont have any connection with him so i think u should all have your privacy.....
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• United States
3 Dec 12
Bad is evil you are not bad but it is none of your business anymore what he is doing and it's not legal. I think you have to learn to let him go You are very young and you got a lot opportunitys in yor life I don't think you would like it if he gets into your privacy like this
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
3 Dec 12
I think if your boyfriend is ex most probably you should try to stop browsing his facebook and carry on with your life. I think most probably you must ask your exboyfriend to change password if you are not able to stop browsing his facebook. I think it is not good to browse someone's facebook without their knowledge. I would say next time you have urge to do it, just simply shutdown the computer. Never go to the computer when you feel you want go to your ex's facebook.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
4 Dec 12
yeah ajithal.. she should search another man for her boyfriend.. it`s not good (and we didn`t ever said bad) she always want to know her ex pasword.. the benefit for her relationship is nothing.. the ex didn`t like her anymore..so why must spend time for the ex?
• Philippines
8 Jan 13
I think it's not good to always follow what your ex is doing because it will even hurt you more aside from privacy issue. One way of successfully forgetting him is to completely erase him in your memory and live life like you don't know him. What you did is stalking and it will be hell if your ex will know it. Better stop now before it's too late. Good Day!
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
7 Dec 12
Its not a good thing to do that. That site is personal to him. You must still care for him in order to want to look. But in reality looking at him with another girl is only making you feel worse about the whole thing. I would stop that and move on.
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
4 Dec 12
Yes, you are bad. I imagine you might want to see how your ex is doing now, IF YOU WERE NOW LIVING IN AN ALTERNATE PLANE OF EXISTENCE AND WANTED TO SEE IF THEY WERE BEING TRUE TO YOUR TEACHINGS. But I'm thinking you're still on Earth--like your ex is--and are viewing their account (VIOLATING THEIR PRIVACY) for some Jealous reason. Me, I've never known my girlfriends account-info; and would only learn it to remind her of her password if she forgot it.
@urbandekay (18278)
5 Dec 12
Here you are saying someone is bad for what is a minor infraction of privacy yet defend those that murder the unborn! Now that really is bad and crazy all the best, urban
• India
3 Dec 12
Hi friend, i don't think you are bad for this thing, it shows you are still remembering your ex and have affection with him, also you are possessive about him and wish to know about your activities. It shows your real love. I know my wife's fb password, in fact we both are sharing the same account and i will browse her account frequently
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
4 Dec 12
but they are not in relationship again vidhya.. it`s different situation like your situation
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• China
4 Dec 12
I think even you have your ex-boyfriend's password you still should not browse his Facebook.Done is done,I think you should really get over him and move on,pls have a strong belief:Next is the best!
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
4 Dec 12
so she should move on the man in the life isn`t only her ex..
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
3 Dec 12
you still don't get over with your ex and you should stop doing that. It is not good doing that since your relationship with him is already finished. I know my ex boyfriend's password and he said he still don't changed it but I don't browse it. Sometimes he asked me to browse it and check some msg I said no. I don't want to get involved with his life anymore. So you better stop doing it.
• Philippines
3 Dec 12
i have this girlfriend before, it was i who made her facebook account because she doesn't have a computer, and at that time she is too busy going to an internet cafe'. but never in my life did i ever open it after she began using it. even after we broke up, i never opened it. it doesn't make sense if i do. i cannot tell you to stop doing it. but since you ask if it is bad, then i tell you that it is bad, besides it is a violation of a persons' privacy. you can go to jail for that.
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
I think that you should not be looking through your ex's Facebook account. It is utterly rude. I am sure you wouldn't want the same dome to you, right? Other coupes might have exchanged their passwords in Facebook, but they are mutual decisions and that it is their way of showing their openness to each other. However, others would prefer to keep their privacy still, even if they are committed or married.
@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
5 Dec 12
lol it is certainly not good, well suppose you find he has a new girl, how will you feel, am sure you will feel sad and upset.. Thanks for sharing
@Sissi321 (130)
• China
6 Dec 12
i do the same things as you before...but i think it is a wrong decision...because you know the much about him...you will get much hurt...so i stop...if you break up, just forget him and don't know anything about him...because most of the news will bad news for you... so my suggestion...give up and stop this action...will be a protection for yourself...
• Valdosta, Georgia
4 Dec 12
I know that you still have feelings for him. If you didn't you would not care what he does or who is he with now. I don't think its a good idea going through his facebook like that. I think you should find better things to do with your time. Forget about him, move on and find someone for you to make you happy! =)
• United States
7 Dec 12
I can tell you for one you do have feelings for him still. But really you have to let go. He isn't really thinking about you and you have to try to get away from the feelings for him. Trust me, I have been in your shoes where me and my ex broke up and I would go on her page on facebook to see what she is doing. I didn't have her password though. But when she deleted me from her friends list, I still wanted to know what she was up to so I would ask my family who were still friends with her on facebook what has she been up to. I found out she was with another guy already a few weeks after we've broken up. I still had strong feelings for her but everyday after I found out that she was with someone else, I told myself that she wasn't coming back so I had to let her go. Everyday I fought my feelings off for her so I can allow someone else come into my life without me having these feelings for a woman who wasn't apart of my life any more. Take my word for it. Don't waste your time anymore over this guy. Don't hurt yourself over this guy.
@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
In my own personal opinion, you should avoid doing such act. You need to stop out of respect to him. It is tempting, but you need to be guided with your conscience. Good day!