Dealing with Problems in Life

December 19, 2012 5:14am CST
Problems are inevitable and so we must face it. Through some of our problems, resolving such makes us even stronger. My fellow mylotters, I would just like to ask if how you handle the problems in life? Do you let somebody know your problems or do you just keep it yourself? Do you think problems have some sort of importance in a person's life?
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@WakeUpKitty (8706)
• Netherlands
19 Dec 12
I think problems are made by human beings. What is a problem to some will never be a problem to others so this already says enough. I think if you always have the same kind of problems you have to have a closer look at yourself. If you change the problems will be gone.
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• Taiwan
19 Dec 12
I would try my best to deal with the problems I met at first. f it goes well, I would be happy to see that! But actually, there are too many things I can't solve only by myselve. My friends are always happy to help me in anytime.
@inertia4 (27713)
• United States
3 Jan 13
I handle my problems one at a time. I sometimes get all nervous about some of them, but I calm myself down and deal with the hard ones first. I take my time with them and resolve them. The small problems are no big deal. And I figure since I deal with the big problems first, the small ones are easy and fast to fix.
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
We all do experience problems in our lives, it’s part of human life and we should deal with it in a manner that we solved it without putting up risks. One should face their problems with confidence, regardless if it’s a big or small problem to be faced with, you should always feel confident that you are able to solved it at the best that you can do. It’s also good to listen to other people and relate to them, you never know, what you are experiencing is just a little of what others had encountered, so best listen to them and reflect on what you had heard.
@dorannmwin (36698)
• United States
21 Dec 12
I don't actually have one specific way that I deal with the problems that I face in my life. There are some problems that I face which seem to be a lot easier to get through when you talk with someone else about the problems that you are facing. However, there are other times that I have problems that I'm facing in my life and when it comes to those problems, I have to admit that I really feel about dealing with those problems on my own without bringing other people into them.
@babyeve (1051)
• Seychelles
20 Dec 12
Yes problems forms part of our daily life. It is a matter of facing it or walking away from it for good. Most of the time I avoid it and let the other party be the winner because silence is the best weapon that cease to exists in this world. Problems should not be considered as burdens because they will eventually fade away after a while.
@silverfox09 (4727)
• United States
19 Dec 12
Yes we all face some sort of problems and when you are finish with one then you have another to deal with. We should try and learn because everything we face in life is a lesson and who can tell maybe we will take what we learn and apply it to another life . We can share our experience with others to help in their decision making . I let my close family know my problem and they all try to really help . If its something I can do on my own then I will do it on my own and most times my problem are very minor so I dont have to involved anyone else but my fiance .
@dodoazo (21291)
• Philippines
19 Dec 12
Problems may take different forms, sizes, and importance. In handling them is dependent on the nature of the problem. Not only that problems may vary from different person and different status in the society. The problem a child is much different from the problem of the adult. Do get what I mean? In the manner of solving the problem, I may suggest four ways: 1. Define the problem. Why it exists? Who started it? Is it small or big? 2. List down the possible solutions. Prioritize them as to their availability. 3. Apply those solutions you've come up with. 4. Whether the problem has been solved or not, thank the Lord that he has tested or tried you for such kind of problem. I think that will pacify yourself and make your burden light.
@caopaopao (12535)
• China
19 Dec 12
It's clear that solving problems can make us stronger. But still I don't like problems, as problems make me sad and worried at the same time. I often share my problems with my husband or friends, I can't keep things in my heart as it's not good for my health especially when the things are the diffucult problems I met. I believe when I share my problem with others, my problem can be lessened. Thanks for sharing, enjoy yourself!
• Philippines
19 Dec 12
If I made the problem myself, I usually deal with it alone. But if the problem is too much to bear, I ask my mom for advice but not directly. I'm telling her a situation then ask her opinion about it. I usually get the best advice from my mom and dad and my siblings. I also tell my siblings my problems and they are very helpful to me in times of trouble.