She wants to go to College in her 30 /40s

United States
December 20, 2012 4:02pm CST
I am not sure whats her age exactly but she is my mother's friend ? She wants to do her bachelor degree but she is in her 30 are 40s , so she is having doubt . My mother is encouraging her to go but she is still uncertain. What do you think ? If she go to college that is a four year degree and I dont know if she will be going for her masters too . I dont think its too late for her but she dont really need it in my opinion , she is very comfortable . What do you think ? Is it too late for her? Do you know of anyone that started university at her age ?.
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• St. Peters, Missouri
20 Dec 12
Is there a cut-off age when we're not supposed to better ourselves anymore? Whether she "needs" it or not is irrelevant. If she feels it would help her in any way, financially, intellectually, emotionally, whatever, and she can afford it, it's a good idea.
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• United States
20 Dec 12
Well she can always do it but she is stopping herself because of her age . She is being encouraged but she is the one stopping herself .
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Dec 12
I got help financially as my grades were tops and just took ou t a student loan to g et my BA at the U Of Ca Irvine. Some of the students were from the elite richy families of Irvien but they treated me like royalty because I had white in my hair i guess.lol lol so f u n. She should be encouraged to go because it can be done b elieve me. only problem was my hubby feeling negliected as I was always writing term papers but I took time out t o soother him. lol
• United States
21 Dec 12
Hatley , I dont think her husband want her to go and that is why she is having second thought .
• Philippines
16 Jan 13
I have heard from Older sisters, older brothers say that "the age is just number." it means no matter do as u like. dont think of age. just do it what u want. And time to think too late for the festest time that means RIGHT NOW.
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@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
21 Dec 12
Age doesn't matter when in terms of education. Whether your age is 60 or 100 unless you want to go to college and take up bachelor's degree that doesn't matter.
• United States
21 Dec 12
Good point it doenst matter as long as you want to do it and if she is confident she will be ok .
• United States
27 Dec 12
Definitely could be
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
That's good and I think she want to have a good formal education that dreams was when she is kid I think. That might be the reason why she still want to study.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
21 Dec 12
Well, I believe that if this person is truly motivated to go to college, her age does not matter. I can cite the example that I heard of someone who has started studying at age 30, he became professor of cybernetics! I, too, now at the age of 37 years, and more on the side of forty, sometimes I get the idea of ??wanting to resume my studies to finish with a degree. But I can not do this for mainly economic reasons.
• United States
21 Dec 12
I feel it will help her feel more fulfill so I hope she do decide because she is already accepted in the school . I dont think age matter either . The bad economy is affecting a lot of people and a lot dont get to pursue degree at a early age so we have to do it when we can .
• United States
8 Jan 13
Yes but maybe when she was younger she was confused are could not afford it , the good thing is there is no age limit .
8 Jan 13
It is better for this person to decide as early as possible,for encase she really wants to pursue her degree at lease there is still enough time.I also agree that age really doesn't matter in terms of study.
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
20 Dec 12
It's never too late to get a degree. In fact, there was a news about a man on his 70's who just graduated from college. And, he even finished 1st in class. That's determination. He can't really use his degree for any work anymore, but his purpose was for fulfillment. If your mom's friend is ashamed to be seen going to school at that age, she can try online schooling.
• United States
21 Dec 12
I agree maybe its a matter of fulfillment because she wont used it to work because she runs her own business but then again it will help her run her in running the business . Wow he have good brain power to finish first in his class , I cant tell if I ever finish first in any of my classes lol .
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
21 Dec 12
wow great man. This shows it really depends on our interest in studies. No age limit. yes the purpose is fulfilled and the peace we get after achieving what we want is wonderful.
• Philippines
26 Dec 12
Yes, he was really a wonder guy! And, his kids, who were all grown ups and have their own family, were all so proud of him, too. He really won't be able to use his degree anymore, because recruitment have their requirements, which includes age.
• India
6 Jan 13
Hi silverfox. Well doing a bachelor's degree involves lot of things.. If you ask me for my personal advice, I would suggest her to do some professional courses instead of technical courses. If I was at her age I would not have gone for a bachelor's degree. But this is strictly my opinion. Anyways have a nice day ... -=SuperShames=-
• United States
8 Jan 13
What are some professional courses , I could suggest them to her . They are so many programs to chose from it can be overwhelming . Thanks for your respond
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5 Jan 13
In my opinion, age doesn't matter when it comes to attaining certain goals that anybody wants to accomplish. It is never too late for her to go to college and pursue her dream to have a bachelor degree. Its a dream come true for everybody to have a college diploma. Spending 4 years in college is nothing compared to the lifetime fulfillment or satisfaction that it will give her once finished with her course. I used to think of not going back to school because I needed to work to meet my personal obligations but I decided to go back when I was 24. At first I was shy and uncomfortable because I was thinking I'm far older compared to my classmates who are just around 16 but I got surprised when I've seen students who are also around my age. I also know some who are also around her age who are actually taking up their tertiary education in the same university where I'm in. Not really sure if they are just starting but I really do admire them for having the courage to go back to school.If I were her,I'll go to college the soonest time possible.
• United States
5 Jan 13
I think 24 is very young and cant believe you felt shy lol ... I dont believe in a age limit with education and fulfilling ones dreams . She will do great whenever she do start just hope she keep her dream alive and go for it .
6 Jan 13
yeah! right! 24 is very young and I honestly feel very young with my age now(26). I started college when I was 15 but some reasons I needed to quit. hehe! Anyway, I'm now looking forward to our graduation this coming March. Here in the Philippines, students usually finish their bachelor degree at around 20-21, some even graduate at 19 with a degree as well. I wish her the best and may she fulfill her dreams,,
8 Jan 13
I have a good Friend who is already old and yet she still wants to study. She is a missionary (sister) at the same time but she still manage her time to inter college. I can not see any wrong in there in fact I enjoy her company because she knew a lot in life. I myself don't know the real reason why she choose to study but I know she enjoy what she is doing and I believe that she can do it. There is no designated age for studying if you are interested and you can sustain go for it.
• United States
9 Jan 13
Wow that is inspiring , we really should dismiss age when furthering our education . Really nothing is wrong , and i think she will enjoy the experience also and achieve her goal .
@jobell26 (23)
9 Jan 13
Yes, I've met some people at the University who are at that age and still want to finish there course and I really admire them because I have met more people who wishes to finish a course even the short courses offered by TESDA just to have a diploma or at least a certificate. Another reason why she must pursue college degree is that it would make her feel fulfilled and no what its on the latter part of her life and age doesn't matter to pursue your education.
• United States
9 Jan 13
You are right , its not just to get a job but also can be for fulfillment . Life is too short so its best to just do all we can when the opportunity present itself to us .
@kleng014 (23)
• Philippines
8 Jan 13
Education is a continuing process.If education is the key to success why not?As long us your comfortable with it.Age doesn't matter in terms of education there's no limit and your passion is to learn more.Nowadays education is the most important profession, so don't be afraid to send in college.Whatever age you are now continue study to meet you objective in life.
• United States
8 Jan 13
She is getting a lot of positive encouragement from my mother , her other friends but it was just her husband she wanted to convince . I dont know what is the update on her but I think her husband will come around .
• Philippines
9 Jan 13
Education has no age limit.Good for her, she will start for college.I'll think twice if I will start for kindergarten in my 30s.I had a classmate and she finished college at age 42.And she is not alone who graduated at that age.But of course,she need to break the barrier of age gap.
• United States
27 Jan 13
That is true , I know she may feel a bit overwhelmed . The schools here have no problem with age and I have seen people here age in colleges and universities .
• Philippines
9 Jan 13
In my opinion, she should pursue her bachelor's degree even though she is in her 30's or 40's. In the Philippines, we have a grandmother who graduated from high school at the age of 50 and even planning to go to college. So education don't have age requirement or age limit. It would be a self- fulfillment on her part to finish her bachelor's degree. It would also be a feeling of pride that at her age she did something to better her future.
• United States
27 Jan 13
I am in 100% agreement with you , age should not stop us from finishing our education , if we are able we should because life is short so fulfillment is important .
• Philippines
9 Jan 13
In my opinion, she should pursue taking up her bachelor's degree even though she is in her 30's or 40's. In the Philippines, we have heard on the news person who graduated from high school at the age of 50. Having an education doesn't have age requirement or age limit. Even though she lives comfortably now, finishing her bachelor's degree would be a great fulfillment on her part. It would be a pride that even at her age, she did something to achieve her goal.
• United States
9 Jan 13
She really need her husband support but I dont know what is going on with them . I think she should really do it because it will be a great achievement for her . I agree with everything you mention .
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
I think in my opinion that there is no age limitation when it comes to going to college or going for your bachelors degree, and even if you are that old and you still want to get it done then I think you should go for it, and if you are uncertain then just ask yourself why you wanted to do it in the first place, but still its never too late to get something done. I'd definnetly say go for it! :)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
(REPHRASE FROM ABOVE) I think in my opinion that there is no age limitation when it comes to going to college or going for her bachelor's degree, and even if she is that old and she still want to get it done then I think she must go for it, and if she are uncertain then she can just ask herself why she wanted to do it in the first place, but still its never too late to get something done. It's always an achievement for a person that had finished college and had a degree. I'd definitely tell her "Go for it!" :)
• Philippines
8 Jan 13
For me, education is the key to everything. its not that bad if you take your bachelors degree or go to school at the age of 30 or 40's because i had classmate who go to college around 40 or more and inspire me more as young ones. There is no limit regarding of age for college student or even who wants to took her or his bachelors degree.. Everyone have rights what, where, when to enter college.
• United States
8 Jan 13
I am also inspire when I see people over 50 going to college and making it through with good grades . i think she will be able to inspire her own children one day . She will have a story to tell when its all said and done .
• Philippines
8 Jan 13
For me its not yet late for her to go to college. Because age is not requirement in going to college. And its a goo sign that she have that thingking in going to college. Because having a degree is not only for you to have a work in the future but for you to have the knowledge. And thats the only treasure you have that you can keep for life time.
• United States
8 Jan 13
Thats the good thing about college its up to the individual , age is not a requirement . She is just more afraid of the social aspect but i feel after being there for a week she will see its not as bad as she think .
8 Jan 13
I can only say to her that its not to late for her to achieve her dream. Everyone of us have a chance to do want we know is right for us. attending college at her age is not late if she have a fighting spirit and us you said you she is very comfortable with her decision. Her stress is causes him mentally she feel uncomfortable what she are doing at her age, she like a new environment to see and to communicate with. Her stress give him a positive outcome because she want to achieve something. Don't worry about your mother friend because I know she can do it and she will be successful about it. No matter what will be the result of it she know that she do her best to achieve this things for her self and this is the one way she give time to herself.
• United States
8 Jan 13
Thanks for you positive encouragement , I think she will do well also . I also like the fact that you think she will strive under stress .
@markkram (22)
• Philippines
8 Jan 13
In my opinion its never to late to go for college. Because there's no limit in going to college.As long as you are willing to study then your free to go to college. Actually thirty to forty years old are those people who are mature and willing to study hard. They are more focused on their goals and they are more motivated to learn.
• United States
8 Jan 13
Agree she will be more certain of what she want , she will not lose focus . We will continue to encourage her and let her do the rest .
• Philippines
8 Jan 13
For me, finishing a degree is a greatest achievement. Age doesn't matter. If I am her daugther, I will encourage my mom to go to school and finish a bachelor's degree. I will help and support her for whatever her plans are. Education is important, and I want her to be satisfied after taking that degree. It is not too late for you mom's friend to enter schooling. Still, decision will depend on her if she really want to continue her future plan.
• United States
8 Jan 13
Yes the final decision will be left up to her and she wanted to get her husband on board although she already apply and got accepted . i feel her husband will come around though .
@rxn125 (24)
• Philippines
8 Jan 13
It is not too late for her to take her bachelor's degree. There's no law that sets limit on until how old does a person can educate himself. Besides, taking that step will not only help her to be equipped with knowledge but also to seize opportunities in the future. Of course, preparations would be done especially if she has job and her own family in which one of the things that should be observed is proper time management. I've already met some students who are a lot older than me, and they have been successful in doing everything when it comes to their studies.
• United States
8 Jan 13
Her family run their own business , she also has her own cosmetic store so thats one of her reason for going back to school . I agree she will need to put in some work and time management . A lot of people here work and study even the younger ones . I will be one of the working and college soon .