What to do when no one trust you?

Malaysia
March 10, 2013 7:36am CST
You feel betrayed, lonely and frustrated. Do you? Or something else you would do?
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13 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8711)
• Netherlands
10 Mar 13
Be yourself, show yourself. Sooner or later you will meet people who do appreciate you. Unless you did a lot of really bad things and this is the reason you broke the trust of other people time after time after time, there is nothing you can do to prove you are different or changed. There are people who will always pick on others, who will always try to manipulate, will push you (over the edge) to get what they want saying you can't be trust. So you try harder and harder (to be accepted). Don't let anyone push you that far. Be yourself, show how you are and wait and see what will happen.
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@ajithlal (14563)
• India
10 Mar 13
I also think that most probably people will understand it and will most probably after some time will trust you.
• Jacksonville, Florida
10 Mar 13
I would try to prove them wrong and show them I am a trustworthy person. I would try to make things right with them so they would realize they can trust me.
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• Sweden
10 Mar 13
I think that everyone knows that in some point of life everyone was lonely, frustrated or betrayed. When I feel like that, I wouldn't let anything go off my hand, which what I mean with that is something want to make me bad i'll fight it, not let it go and do as it wants. If you are alone, you still stand up, never give up, because it won't happen only once, it will happen many times and I'm pretty sure everyone is familiar with this since they have experienced it. Thinking positive is one thing you could do. Thinking something bad or worse in your situation won't do any good. When no one will trust me and if I'm right, I'll make them realise that they are mistaken and that they could trust me, instead of not trusting me. Betraying (in a bad way) is something very different for me that I do not tolarate toward people. Doing some of your favorite hobbies or actually do something that will take away that feeling is one good thing too. Rethinking over from the beggining is one way to clear your mind and start over.
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• Germany
10 Mar 13
Even when you are down, betrayed,lonely, all you need to do at that moment is to relax, then try to but all those thinking aside. then get motivated within you and know for sure that live goes on.
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@r0ck_r0ck (1956)
• India
10 Mar 13
When no one trusts you, i think it is time to re-think all the bad life choices you might have made. Start working on them and hope to regain all the trust that you deserve, requires hard work but is definitely worth it. :]
@patnopy (721)
• Philippines
10 Mar 13
i don't care but for sure sooner or later i proof it to them
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@alilin28 (1532)
• Uruguay
10 Mar 13
I think most of us has lived a a situation like this, sometimes we feel lonely, sad, like nothing is going to be better,depressed or we see the negative point of things. Sometimes I feel in this way, I know that is difficult to see the good things, but I try to see the better things that life offers me. Also I know that sometimes we choose to feel in that way, when we dont know what is going on with a situation we are living, feeling that all has a question but we couldnt answer it, I know that is difficult but we have to let it go, and continue with life. when I feel in that way, I put myself into books, studing more for my career, trying to have my mind busy, trying not to think much abot the situation. many times it really works, many times not, so you should find the activity that allows you to be busy and keep your mind thinking about an other think. Have a nice day
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@dorannmwin (36608)
• United States
12 Mar 13
I have never experienced this kind of thing in my life. There has always been people that trust me in my life. However, there have been some times that I've made bad decisions that will make someone lose a lot of their trust in me and it really is something that makes me feel bad. That said, when it is a friend that I've betrayed such that they lose some of their trust in me, I do feel lonely because the dynamics of the friendship that I had have had changes.
@cherigucchi (3865)
• Philippines
11 Mar 13
Take a deep breath. Accept that this is actually happening. Let all the feelings sink in first. Then start thinking straight... You are not alone. There are so many snakes in the forests and it was sad that you were at the wrong place at the wrong time. What makes it difficult may be is that the person who betrayed you is a person you consider close to a family. But this really happens. Be strong and I believe that you will be able to survive it with the help of people who truly cared.
@jricky1 (6809)
• China
11 Mar 13
Some of us had the same experience before,while this kind of feeling is really not good though,so i choose to both forget the one who disappoint me and you don't have to punish yourself by other people's mistakes,isn't it? Good luck to you.
@Raine38 (8908)
• United States
10 Mar 13
It is okay to feel bad after the betrayal. But you don't have to feel bad and wallow in self pity forever. It wouldn't erase what happened and it wouldn't bring back the past. So learn from it, and then move on. You will still meet other people who are worthy of your trust and friendship, and I am sure that the experience will teach you a valuable lesson in trusting people.
• Philippines
10 Mar 13
For me, just be yourself. If someone doesn't trust you for any reason, just go on with your life. You don't have to feel pity about yourself because at the end of the day, it is yourself that you need to trust.
@ajithlal (14563)
• India
10 Mar 13
I also think most times I also feels down when people does not trust me. I think it is always good to have people to believe others and to trust others. I think it will be good to have a good circle of friends and this will helps to do better in our life and also helps to be happy in our lives.