Cute Quarreling Couples..Break up...

@Dassodils (2010)
India
March 26, 2013 1:37pm CST
Hai friends.. I would like to share some thing about my close friends.Who are a good couple now.They will be in a very good mood at the first day of meeting.Then on that day at night,she will call me and say that we are breaking up.Then when I see him on the next morning,He will be coming with her.and say that there have no any problem.At the evening,she will be crying and saying the same thing.Then the next day both of them will be alright.Some day,the quarreling will be very serious and they will give back the all things that they give to the other person..Some times,I will be very upset by thinking about them.On the next day,when I see them as walking together,I will be very happy..What do you think about them????Is there any value in their relationships?? why do they are quarreling like this??Thanks for your comments in advance..
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9 responses
• India
26 Mar 13
Hello friend, What is the value of the relationship will understand you when you get married. Every where you go you can see that there are some up and down. With out a small quarrel between the couple, they will say that the life is worthless. If one person is quarrel some time then after some time she will understood why I am fighting with my husband, then she feel very sorry. So in the morning she is thinking about the quarrel in the night. How much we quarrel, fighting each other, the love to each other will be increased. Some women like the man should be rude. To get him rude behavior she will make a some silly quarrel. That is why I told you that you will understand the value of the relationship only after your marriage. Do not measure other couples. Do not think about them. It is their own matter. Have a Good Night.
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@Dassodils (2010)
• India
26 Mar 13
Nice to hear that.They are my friends and they are saying every thing to me.All things like their love and quarrel.She will surely say all those things to me.Then what to do?? How can I say that stop it??? They are saying everything to me.Then How can I sit very cool?? I get tensed while hearing that.I am also in a relationship.We always quarrel.But both of us know that the depth of that quarrel and that will not break a limit.I will try to keep the things secret as my maximum.Otherwise the other people will surely upset by thinking about our problems.that is what I said..Thank you..
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• India
26 Mar 13
If the quarrel is for a some silly matter, or serious matter, then just take them to some counselor. I think a counselor can save them.
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@Dassodils (2010)
• India
27 Mar 13
Ya..Me too think so.. :(
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Mar 13
hi dassodils I think they need to mature a little before becoming committed to each other as all that quarreling to me does not sound like the are really compatible with each other.Perhaps they need to date others for awhile till they are older and maybe gave gotten some common sense. right now they are acting like kids not adults at all.
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@kalav56 (11464)
• India
27 Mar 13
I too felt the same Hatley!
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
27 Mar 13
I feel they are a bit immature; they are young and are still full of expectations and do not know how to really get along peacefully.From what you have written it is not just lighthearted teasing because your friend is seen crying at times,and they also return the gifts to each other.It sounds a bit silly and childish and I feel they need more time to get depth in their relationship. Only time would prove whether they are going to be steady. Right now one cannot be too sure.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
27 Mar 13
Ya..I hope that all these things will have a good end.Thank you..
@celticeagle (159572)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Mar 13
Two things pop into my mind after reading this about the couple. First is that they need to seek professional help. A counseling could really do them some good. Then I wonder if you three are all very close what if they are playing with your emotions for some reason. They always make up. Of course there is value in their relationship. If they feel there is. They need the help of a professional to straighten it all out. They may need help with communicating and respecting each other.
@celticeagle (159572)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Mar 13
Why do you 'need them as old'?
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
27 Mar 13
I am trying to make a small consult to doctor.I need them as old and also need their friendship.Thanks for reply..
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@maharlikah (1045)
• Philippines
27 Mar 13
Misunderstanding that leads to quarreling are sometimes called as spices in a relationship. There are times when everything seems happiness is in every corner but sometimes madness sprout unexpectedly.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
27 Mar 13
I also see some type pf quarrels in a relation ship.But they are not considering it as silly things.But they are very serious.Thank you..
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
26 Mar 13
It depends on a lot of things. Some quarelling happens in every relationship. But in their case, it seems like they quarrel every single time. It can be that your friend is over-reacting and crying over really petty things, but also it could be that he is really hurting her mentally (like in a mentally abusive relationship). Maybe you could talk to her about why they quarrell, or why she won't leave him, if she calls you so often crying.
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• Philippines
27 Mar 13
I think this is going to be a healthy relationship in the future. For now, they'll fight more often, but experts say that these couples are often, if not always, the ones that live a happy marriage.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
27 Mar 13
I really hope a good life for them.And they will not be separate in future.Thank you..
@lijoos (346)
• India
4 Apr 13
they have the right relationship. a good relation should have happiness aswell as sadness. and no relation can go all the time good. they are doing well because even after each the quarell they can overcome it and can love again.thats what we all wanted
• India
8 Apr 13
Cute couples do fight but sometimes. lol. Every realtionships has ups and downs. But if its going to happen frequently that whats the use of being in relationship?? Understanding,trust is most important in realtionship. Its not a game to play. I think they should take this seriously rather than hurting eachother