Respect to others

@roshigo58 (4859)
Pune, India
March 28, 2013 2:32am CST
Hi, I saw interesting black and white picture in news paper. It is about giving respect to elders. This picture shows that if you give respect to others you also get respect from others in future. I am adding this picture to share with you.
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@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
28 Mar 13
we all go to one point in our lives.. that is going old. LOL. this is nice..
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
28 Mar 13
Hi, you are right. Everyone is going to become old. Thank you for the response.
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
28 Mar 13
a story: There was an old man.. he breaks everything in his son's house. plates, glass and everything because he is very old and his hands are trembling... so the son got angry.. for breaking all his things at home. So the son gave this old man (his father) coconut husk and can for eating. So he won't break anything anymore. One the son saw his son busy cleaning left over coconut husk and cleaning cans. then he asked his son "What are you doing?" his son replied "I am preparing, dad.". The son confused ask "preparing for what?" then the little boy answered... "for you, so when you get old you are going to use these too," From then on, the son realized what he has been doing to his father, give his father good bed to rest, feed him so well and he never gets angry even if his father breaks something in the house.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
28 Mar 13
Hi, Very good story teaching a lesson about how to behave with our parents. We get what we do with them.
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
29 Mar 13
Respect like education begins at home. At home we have our children and our parents whom are children call them grandfather and grandmother. We have to show our respect and reverence for our father and mother at home or outside home. If our children see us showing respecting our parents they in turn will show their respect for us.
• Malaysia
29 Mar 13
I absolutely agree with you, Iriene. Respect like education begins at home. From young I taught respect for the elders to my son. When my man friend visit me at home I tell my son to address him as uncle or my wife's lady friend, then my son is to address her as auntie. Of course my brother or sister or mu wife's brother or sister then he has to address as uncle or auntie.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
29 Mar 13
Hi, Children always try to copy their parents. if parents behave respectfully to everyone then children also behave nicely with everyone. If parent are not nice with others children also become arrogant or rude with others. Thank you for the response.
@celticeagle (159154)
• Boise, Idaho
28 Mar 13
That's a cute picture and a great way to show respect for one another.
@celticeagle (159154)
• Boise, Idaho
31 Mar 13
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
29 Mar 13
Hi, In that picture everyone is giving respect to others. That little child also get respect in future because he is giving respect to others. Thank you for the response.
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@jkct02 (2874)
• Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia
29 Mar 13
Respect to others is a basic manner that we all should possess, especially to the elders. It is certainly true that if you respect others, others will respect you too, because what is in your mind and what you do from your heart will eventually show in your behavior. People will feel the positive aura around you.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
30 Mar 13
Hi, When we do something positive from the bottom of our heart we always ahve positive aura around us and we are respected from others. Thank you for the response.
• China
29 Mar 13
That is right,if you want to get respect from others you must show your respect to others first.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
29 Mar 13
hi, Thank you for the response.
• Philippines
29 Mar 13
I think we all need to be respectful without any condition that we should be respected too. Respect should be a part of us but sad to say not all people were taught how to be respectful so if you are in a circumstance where you feel like you get disrespected, do not retaliate but show how decent you are. Show that you respect that person who disrespected you. In that way, that person will realize his bad attitude and at the same time other people will also commend you on how professional you are.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
29 Mar 13
Hi, you are right. We should respect those people who disrespected us. By doing this we make them to realize their mistake and they try to improve their behavior. Thank you for the response.
• India
29 Mar 13
it is a hunger for every people that one should respect or love . from beginning it is give and take relationship . so u give respect than only u get the respect
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
29 Mar 13
Hi, you are right. Respect is a give and take relationship. Respect is earned and can not be demanded. thank you for the response.
@JamesKYTan (1605)
• Malaysia
29 Mar 13
In Asian societies we have been told to respect and have reverence for our elders since young. My mother taught me this value when I was a small boy. When elders are having some talks or discussion we are not to interject or intrude into their conversation. To translate literally from Chinese quote by my mother, " Children have hears but no mouth." This means when children listen to what adults discuss children must not join in the discussion. This is also called respect for the elders. When parents scold their children they are not support to retort back.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
29 Mar 13
Hi, You are right. In India children are not allowed to disturb elders when they are talking. We also didn't disturb my parents in my childhood. When our parents scold us or angry with us we were not allowed to answer back. Only be quiet and listen them. thank you for the response.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
29 Mar 13
I think it is very important that we respect others. We value how others view and treat us so it's important that we are kind and considerate with other people as well. Everyone can feel better about themselves when this takes place.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
29 Mar 13
You are right. if we expect kindness and consideration from other people we also behave with them kindly. thank you for the response.
• Philippines
28 Mar 13
i respected my elder i guess
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
29 Mar 13
Hi, It is very nice that you respect elders. thank you for the response.
@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
29 Mar 13
We really need to respect someone. I agree on this. Taking pictures are one reason to ask permission before publishing it to the public. It is also goes for the children, taking to consider the children's rights.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
29 Mar 13
Hi, You are right. Children's rights should also taken into consideration. Thank you for the response.
• India
29 Mar 13
Its very true that if we respect others even they will respect us. We should even respect those who are young than us. This shows how we value people in our life and also creates a good images in their life.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
29 Mar 13
Hi, You are right. By respecting everyone we create a good image in others life. thank you for the response.
28 Mar 13
respect - Its about that give respect and take respect
ofcourse its true and game of nature. Nature decided that who was doing rescept to others who will be taking respect in future.simply give respect and take respect
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
29 Mar 13
Hi, Welcome to mylot. Giving respect means receiving respect from others. Thank you for the response.
28 Mar 13
True. The only way to get respect is to show it.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
29 Mar 13
Hi, you are right. When we show respect to others we get respect from ohters. thank you for the response.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
28 Mar 13
I also believe the saying is true, treat others how you expect others to treat you, it's a two way thing, I was taught from a young age to respect my elders and never to be rude or answer back, which I think is important to learn from a young age, manners cost nothing, although for some people you'd think they'd cost a fortune as they don't frequently use them. Thank you for sharing.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
29 Mar 13
Hi, You are right. Manners cost nothing. We have taught from our childhood to respect elders but some follow the teachings and some not. Thank you for the response.
• United States
28 Mar 13
I believe what one puts out they recieve back more..give good gets good..
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
28 Mar 13
Hi, You are right. What we give others we receive back according to our giving. Thus it is like boomerang. thank you for the response.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
28 Mar 13
Well my father once told me this phrase: "Respect others, and make you respect from others." In my case, however, I want to focus the attention more than anything else on the second part of this sentence. This is because respect others that after all it is our duty, is something very easy, but be respected by others, it takes a bit of personality, a bit of character, etc.. However, I carry with respect to all, but also because of my mental illness, unfortunately did not come able to respect myself from bullying others. I hope for a better future!
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
29 Mar 13
Hi, i think being respected by others depends upon our behavior. Those people who don't respect you for your illness are not capable of getting respect from others also, because they don't deserve that. They are emotionless. You should not be upset by their behavior. But you continue respecting other. And neglect those people who are rude with you. Always positive. Future is better for you. thank you for the response.
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
28 Mar 13
Hi Ros ! It is a very simple rule , let us know how to respect ourselves and we will know how to respect others . We can't give what we don't have ! If we have a very huge respect to ourself , it is expected then that this much respect we are giving to our fellows and Karma speaks always , respect will be given and shown to us in return.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
29 Mar 13
Hi, you are right. We should learn to respect ourselves because as you said we can give what we have. thank you for the response.
28 Mar 13
It is a topic related with morality and I like the topic. Thank you for that. Moral erosion is well depicted in the society currently. No respecting to other is largely responsible to the gradual degradation of relationship.When someone will respect other, he will take the responsibility of respecting other logic, views and opinions. First respect other and getting respect is its logical sequence.If the practices go to every level, many problems will be solved and our society will advance to the peace and prosperity.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
29 Mar 13
Hi, You are right. Giving respect to others depends on the moral values of a person. If everyone practice this moral value of giving respect to everyone the world would be a better place. Thank you for the response.
@alpha9180 (301)
• Malaysia
28 Mar 13
Learning respect starts from home. A child needs to learn how to respect others at their young age. We need to respect one another especially the elders. We also need to learn that "respect is earned", so we cannot demand respect from someone. If we learn to give more respect to others, we will surely receive much respect from others in return...[em]happy[/.em].
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
28 Mar 13
Hi, you are right. We should remember that respect is earned and we can not get respect by demanding it. It depends on our behavior with others. Thank you for the response.