Would you love them still?

I argue with my brother a lot because he has a different perspective in so many things. He doesn't listen to anyone's advice, even to my parents. It really irritates me that he doesn't also accept mistakes. Sometimes I feel like I don't want to talk to him anymore since talking to him might just lead to a fight eventually because he argues even because of small stuff. I don't like his attitude but I still care for him because he is my brother so I still help him with things he needs.

Hey celleDJ, I totally understand what you mean. For examples my parents, i know they love me very much and i love too. But sometimes i feel like i don't really agree with my mum or sometimes i argue with my brother just because i cannot stand the way he behaves. But, since they are people that are close to us, we take them for granted. If this is our friend, when we can't stand our friend, mot probably we will not show them that we are angry in front of them. Therefore, I think sometimes we get frustrated with our family because we rant, complain and agrue with us, this is a part of life and we should be happy that we have someone to argue wtih becuase we know they will always be with us regardless.

I do. And though it's hard,I prefer staying away from such people. I cool down soon enough and then I want to go back. I still love them and I can't believe it myself. I've tried to talk to myself but it confuses me more and I end up going back to these same people and situations.

Yes, I think everyone does. I recently experienced this with my dad. He was pointing out a thought that he passionately believed in and it was really wrong and I got proof. hehehe.. I guess he insisted on his idea until there was a heated argument. But of course, we were both respectful. Before the day was done we weren't in speaking terms. But thankfully before the day was over, we talked once again ~ and the relationship is back how it was before. Whew! Have a great mylot experience ahead!

Well, I have experience that with my sibling and until now whenever he would do bad things that would made my parents specially my mom stress, angry and frustrated. Sometimes, I can't control my temper and get mad at him but I also pity him when he's being scolded. But even if he's like that, my mother still understands him and loves him so much. And I can really say that the mother's love for their children is unconditional. No matter how bad their children are, even if they would repeat the same mistakes, our mother is always there for us and would never leave us no matter what.

yes, and tiring.. but acceptance and laughing at it, makes it easier for everyone. No we are not ridiculing each other it is just we have fun on different ways.

Yes, I would. These people are not perfect and I am not looking of a perfect one. Their imperfection is my way in to their lives. I complete the missing part in their lives. Definitely we will argue not because we want to hurt each other but because we want to exchange thoughts or opinions on something. In that argument I will play a great role of maybe opposing person which will help them think more of whatever the topic is. Or someone who would enlighten them after all the fiasco of their lives. When we love someone we don't justsaybyes to everything. We care so we try to bring out the best in them.

To be honest, I think that is pretty usual/normal in a relationship or maybe I am underestimating the rant, complain, arguing, etc from your context. But based on my experiences, yes, I do still love them. Recently, I had a massive argument with my older sibling and we just stayed calm for a few days/weeks then we got on really well again. My mum advised us to do so as well. She told us that shouldn't break our relationship.

When it's family, it is hard not to love them despite that. What we can do is avoid those kinds of interaction. If a partner of mine, like a husband or a boyfriend or a friend does that to me, I can simply choose to dump them. Because people who do that are irresponsible, annoying and problematic. It's best to remove those kind of people out of our lives by blocking them.

It depends, If I have really good memories with them, and they've done really big things for me, and they love me, I would not probably use my love for them, just be annoyed... the same was with my grandma. As I got older (I mean, from kids to teens), I realized that she didn't love anyone other than me and my brother, not even my mom who is her own daughter... and she was really vindictive towards everyone... and of course, it was a bad feeling for me, because she was telling me about how she hated whom, but those feelings that I received from her as a kid, when all I saw was she loved me, treated me as a thinking person, that she always came to play with me, these can't really be taken away from me. But if I haven't received enough love from them, I would not love them, I guess.

Hi friend, some times we are in need to have arguments, fights and issues with our family members, but still they are our family members and care about us. This kind of issues and fight don't spoil the true love and affection. I too have quarrels with my friends, family members, but i don't give importance to this silly issues and keep the relationship bond in a good manner

maybe this time, you can say it is hard to love someone who push you away as you can feel anger or sadness. Why don't you give them space and avoid them for sometime? First, love yourself. Avoid things that will make your hurt, because how can you love someone if you don't know how to love yourself.

Yes I would still love them. I don't hold grudges for long so even if i was hurt because of a situation, eventually I would still love them no matter what.