"After the storm comes the calm......"

I dont really know hoe it happen its just like instinct . You miss the person and feel miserable and they feel the same so when you make up its so fast and quick you dont even have time to take notes and sometimes you hardly remember why you were even fighting as it seem so silly after .

There is no second opinion as far as husband is concerned; it would only be me irrespective of whose fault it is. Regarding many others, it was me in the past ; it is no longer so.

Everyone is prone to mistake and misunderstanding. It is possible that we might not have analyzed any situation properly or not understood the intentions of the other person. Why should it be that we are always correct? We may also go wrong. I accept this fact humbly and analyze the situation again in a calm manner. If I feel I am wrong, I do not mind asking for pardon. If the other person is wrong, once he/she is calm, I will try to explain the fact to them. Mostly it works.

During the past almost 7 years of our being married, we have had fights on 3 occassions. And I know my wife... she will never say sorry or try to patch up. So it has got to be me who has to do all the chores and set things going again... And I dont care or have any issues about those successful trials for the make up as it is always me who sets the grounds for all those fights btw, I love those fights that we have despite the fight that I get scared at times

For me, it is a 'very rare' topic. I don't think I had a situation within 10 years of time with any of the people, especially at home or with in my family members or friend circle also. May be I won't interfer much in others personal matters or I used to care about other people and I have a thought that how I enjoy life, other also deserve it. Also, I used to give adequate freedom and feel a maximum friendly with others and never give a chance to have an argument on whatever topics. Yes, obvious there may be incidents, but I prefer to resolve so nicely and with a funny approach wherein we never feel anything bad about it.

Sometimes, it is hard to just wave the white flag and let bygones be bygones. It tales a lot of self-teaching to see things the way the other sees the situation. But if one is willing to give it another shot, why not? Pride only ruins the relationship.

hi allknowing I was upset that my table mate Steve who isu a grump and a fuss b udget came over to me yesterday and told me" I enjoyed meeting you but I think we all need to see new faces I am moving." That upset me but now I realized he and his new table mat both enjoy football so fine for him. I now realize I really am sort of glad he left. He was just a friend and lately his constant snapping at me fop no good reason was really wearing me down.For example Yara had come in and told us she was going to a buffet and wanted to know how many would like to join her . So steve asks me"whats that all about?" s o I told him in my normal voice and he asked me to repeat so I raised my voice nd again he asked me to repeat so this time I raise it much higer.So then he snapped at me" Why are you helling at me?"T I had not yelled at him but hes been doing this snapping things the last few days at me..So good I am glad to be rid of that.

Dear, Strongest part of a long lasting relationship is "having faith". without faith no relation can last whether it is a friendship/love/marriage etc. & another strong determinant is respecting "others freedom". I do strongly believe, if you love/respect any one then let him free if he/she is yours then it will return back to you & if does't even try to return or make communication then he never belongs to you it was just a illusion. another thing I do believe helps to make relationship stronger is "listening", do manage time to listen problems of your loved one, it makes themselves feel that they matters in your life & this will make the bond stronger. Thanks Mahatav

Storm always preceded and followed by calm and the calmness after the storm too fearful because the storm sets everything haywire and leaver everyone in shock. So, people cannot get relaxed in the calmness, they cannot come out of the shock all of a sudden,