Overcoming Challenges

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@Marcyaz (35316)
United States
September 16, 2015 7:13am CST
I have overcome a speech problem with the help of my son who had a similar problem. I was unable to make the th sound as a child and because of the way it came out I was made fun of. . Because of this if I wanted to go to the theater I would say movies and never would say theater again. My son was given speech therapy and he would do this at home also in front of a mirror and I started to do the same thing, it finally helped me to overcome my speech problem. Now neither one of us has as severe a speech problem as we know when we speak to be aware of how to make these sounds. I can't describe how proud and happy this makes me, speech therapy really does help.
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• Grand Haven, Michigan
16 Sep 15
That is awesome! I stuttered REALLY bad as a child, so I understand the stigma that comes with a speech impediment. I also learned how to fight lol :)
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
16 Sep 15
Thanks David, as a child that stuttered you know exactly what I am talking about. I bet you also had people who wanted to finished your sentences for you, how frustating that must have been. Well as a young boy you would be bullied and needed to know how to fight those bulies who were making fun of you.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
16 Sep 15
My youngest daughter had the same problem..they had speech therapy at her school and you would never know she ever had a problem..she is almost 30 now..
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
16 Sep 15
Rosekitty Isn't it terrific how they can now help children by having speech therapy.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
16 Sep 15
@Lushlala I'm an example of having to suck it up and live with it. Now there are so many ways to help in therapy.
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@Lushlala (4028)
• Gaborone, Botswana
16 Sep 15
@Marcyaz It's absolutely fantastic! To think that in the past some people had to suck it up and just live with it. These days the medical world can correct so many different things, it's really amazing :)
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@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
16 Sep 15
wow, congratulations for finally overcoming your speech problem... i had a similar problem with letters too but they said i got over it when i started school - so lucky me
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
16 Sep 15
Thank You,iIt seems a lot of us have something to overcome when we are young but we do manage somehow.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
16 Sep 15
That is awesome. We can overcome many things in our lives. Years ago they would call that a lisp.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
16 Sep 15
Yes that is exactly what it was called was a lisp and other children could be very cruel and call names.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
16 Sep 15
@Lushlala Most of them don't even realize how hurtful and cruel they are being.
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@Lushlala (4028)
• Gaborone, Botswana
16 Sep 15
@Marcyaz It's just so sad how cruel young children can be!
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• United States
16 Sep 15
That is amazing Marcy and good for you two! Yes sometimes just one method can help the symptom of something like this. I am glad you found that method. Where did you learn it at some therapy center or doctors or what?
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
16 Sep 15
My son had speech therapy in school and would come home and practice looking into a mirror and told me what he was doing and how so I decided I would do the same thing and it worked.
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• United States
16 Sep 15
@Marcyaz Aw that is awesome that the school had it and you could also make use of it..precious that he shared it with youl
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@Lushlala (4028)
• Gaborone, Botswana
16 Sep 15
@Marcyaz Wow, it's amazing that you corrected yours just by watching and observing what your son did!
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• United States
16 Sep 15
Thank you for sharing that with us!
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
16 Sep 15
Thank You for your input Rachel.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
22 Sep 15
It is good to hear that you were able to cure yourself from your speech problem. I can understand that you would have done lots of practice and you would have shown lots of guts and determination in overcoming your speech problem. Many of us do not feel confident, when we speak at a gathering. It is, therefore, one should have some exposure and practice to be able to speak in a audience.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
22 Sep 15
I have been able to speak in front of a large audience and felt at peace with myself when doing so.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
23 Sep 15
@Rollo1 (16679)
• Boston, Massachusetts
16 Sep 15
It's great that you could learn right along with him, and you were able to change something that bothered you for so long. congratulations!
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
16 Sep 15
I was already in my late 20's and still never said the th sound but then all of a sudden just thinking and saying it worked for me. Thank you.
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@Blondie2222 (28611)
• United States
16 Sep 15
I'm glad you were able to overcome your speech problem. Alot of people our born with issues and i think everyone is equal and shouldn't be made fun of. But the world is how it is and nothing we can change. Glad you don't have the issue anymore and maybe you can help someone else that may have a speech problem also
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
16 Sep 15
Thanks Blondie yes a lot of us have issues some of which show and others don't show but I agree no one should make fun of a person for any reason. I am always willing to help anyone if I can.
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@funkeyguhl (1743)
• Philippines
31 Mar 16
That is great news and I am happy for you. It sure is difficult to express yourself at times when you have a speech problem because you need to find an alternate word that will not use the 'TH' however come to think of it, it also exercises your mind to search the thesaurus in your head for the word equivalent.
@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
31 Mar 16
@funkeyguhl Thank You it took me a long time to overcome that but I finally made it as did my son.
@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
31 Mar 16
@funkeyguhl Thank You, it took a long time but I finally overcame it and so did my son.
@fufurinha (11930)
• Portugal
16 Sep 15
It is good that he is better sometimes people can be bad when we don't speak correctly.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
16 Sep 15
Sometimes people will look at you in a strange way or turn away and laugh but no more of that.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
17 Sep 15
@fufurinha No it is not good and makes you feel bad.
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@fufurinha (11930)
• Portugal
16 Sep 15
@Marcyaz yes, that is true. But it isn't good.
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@gregario888 (1276)
• Aurangabad, India
17 Sep 15
I'll have to look for some speech help for my autistic daughter. Though none seems around where I live.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
17 Sep 15
Do they not have some type of classes where you could take her?
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
17 Sep 15
@gregario888 Let's pray that someday she will be able to speak.
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• Aurangabad, India
17 Sep 15
@Marcyaz She goes to a special school for such kids, they do teach her a few things. But she still is not able to communicate verbally, all her communication is through gestures.
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@LadyDuck (459631)
• Switzerland
16 Sep 15
My brother had problems pronouncing the letter R. I do not remember what he did to get rid of this problem.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
16 Sep 15
Most children have a problem with the S sound like spaghetti but they will learn in time. I never had a problem with the letter R. At least he doesn't have that problem any longer.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
17 Sep 15
@LadyDuck I have never heard of a French R.
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@LadyDuck (459631)
• Switzerland
16 Sep 15
@Marcyaz I know different people that pronounce a strange R, it is what we call a French R.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
18 Sep 15
How wonderful for you and your son! I don't remember having to overcome anything like that when I was growing up.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
18 Sep 15
you were lucky Simone.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
19 Sep 15
@Marcyaz Yeah, I guess I was. The only thing I had to overcome was that I was overweight as a child and was made fun of. But I don't think that is quite the same thing.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
19 May 16
my son also had trouble with th and he had speech theraphy at school and when he grew up he had no troubles at all with speech. thay really did a great job with him
@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
19 May 16
It does seem to be a problem for a lot of children.
@Lushlala (4028)
• Gaborone, Botswana
16 Sep 15
Oh wow, well done to you and your son, Marcy! I'm so glad that you were both able to overcome your speech impediment :)
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
16 Sep 15
Thanks and I guess certian things do happen for a reason as I thought why him but later found out it was to help me. I had a few other sounds i had to work on also and now you would never know I had a speech problem.
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• Indonesia
17 Sep 15
I also think that the advancement in a medical world nowadays has become very sophisticated. Almost every psychological problem can be treated with overcame with a suitable therapy. With all those treatment, there's no need to worry about being unable to do something due the psychological matters and suffer from it. I'm glad that you have successfully overcome you speech problem.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
17 Sep 15
Dauphin, thank you but a number of people are unable to pay for treatments and therefore are not helped until and unless their situation improves.
@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
16 Sep 15
Kids can be so cruel to anyone a little 'different' I'm glad that and your son have overcome your problems.
@kevinakash (2084)
• Sri Lanka
17 Sep 15
First of all I must express my pleasure in hearing that you are now OK in the Described context. Let me explain My experience in a different field but I think their is no another this sort of most appropriate opportunity to do this. When I was ready to attend grade 6 at the end of grade 5 a sudden sylalbus change occurred in our college.Till then we all did our studies in our local languages.So I couldnot even read or write or even speak English.(still I'm not perfect)So in the first day in this English classthe said many things but could not Understand anything at all.I can still remember that the teacher said certain food items but the idea she gave to us was not Understood by me.She had told not to bring certain food items to the class for the interval . Many Students teased me for bringing that not-to-bring food items to the class the Following day. So I Wanted to do well in English thus I read many English books in evenings and improved it a lot alone. This Resulted me to become the best English announcer at my college after about a half a decade.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
17 Sep 15
Wonderful that you went ahead because of that and you read lots of English books and went on to become the best English announcer at your college. That is determination.