I Want to Stop Being an Adult!

United States
November 6, 2015 5:07pm CST
Losing a driver's license has been the worst growing pain! During my move from Korea, I left my wallet that had my driver's license in it. Luckily my ID that I need for my job stayed with me. However, trying to replace it has been one miniature circus after the other. I found out that you HAVE to have your birth certificate, something that was lost during the original move to Korea. Got in contact with the birth certificate record department at the state that I was born and found out that I have to request the records through another agency. Round and round we go... I miss the times when the hardest decision I had was what coloring pencil I would use!
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
6 Nov 15
We love making life complicated for ourselves, don't we? Love the colouring pencil bit!
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• United States
6 Nov 15
LOL. Thanks. I was thinking about making a blanket fort with the kids this afternoon. Ha ha
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
7 Nov 15
Sometimes making life complicated is better than having no life at all.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
7 Nov 15
@Kazemononoke I remember when my kids used to make blanket forts and I also remember myself making a blanket for on my bed. Those were the carefree days weren't they?
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@vickyrose (2235)
• Cooma, Australia
6 Nov 15
That's bureaucracy for you, I guard those docs with my life as once I've been inconvenienced.
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@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
6 Nov 15
lol Ever had to replace a social security card? Those people have a really hard time deciding what documents they accept and what they don't. I hope you get everything settled. Coloring pencils actually seems like a great idea at the moment.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
7 Nov 15
Any time you have to go to a government office to replace a document it is such a mess and takes so long same with the State offices.
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• United States
7 Nov 15
@Kazemononoke That's exactly why I had to get a new ss card. They wouldn't even look at my birth certificate. The marriage certificate wasn't enough for them either. They wanted us to go to my high school and get a transcript of my grades. I think they were really trying to see what a slacker I was in school.
• United States
7 Nov 15
Ha ha ha. For real. To top it off I am in the middle of changing my name from when I got married. So my ID is different than my birth certificate.
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@Jessicalynnt (50525)
• Centralia, Missouri
7 Nov 15
There are many days that I want to not adult. I want to hide out in my blanket fort, coloring!
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• Centralia, Missouri
7 Nov 15
@Kazemononoke been there, done that, well in an old camper a friend loaned us. NOT fun in the winter...or summer for that matter. Still you gotta do what you gotta do
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• United States
7 Nov 15
We had actually considered just buying camping gear and living at campgrounds to get ahead until we are out of debt.
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@tuttiharris (1338)
• Chattanooga, Tennessee
7 Nov 15
@Kazemononoke (161), it is not that hard to replace your license here where I am. I lost mine last year, and all I had to do was go on line, fill out a form, send in my money, and they sent it right to me in about two weeks. I am glad I did not have to go through all you had to go through, Or I might have given up driving. :: smiles::: Hope you get them soon.
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• Canada
7 Nov 15
I hope you can get things sorted soon, that sounds extreemly stressful-I've had to help people with documents before when they were lost...I always felt really bad for them, sometimes it would be so stressful people would break down over it:(
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
7 Nov 15
Can you not simply retake a driving test and acquire the licence that way?
• United States
7 Nov 15
I honestly never thought about it. I don't like testing in my area though. I'm really horrible about parallel parking and not sure how well I would fare if that is a prerequisite here.
@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
7 Nov 15
Very true as it is hard being an adult when you have to figure out all this stuff on your own. You can still use a coloring pencil of your choice.
@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
7 Nov 15
Do you not think that she has enough problems already without adding the burden of choosing a colouring pencil to them?
• United States
7 Nov 15
Ha ha ha. That is true. My kids will be sharing theirs tonight.
@Rollo1 (16679)
• Boston, Massachusetts
7 Nov 15
These days it isn't as easy to get any kind of identification or documentation as it was in the old days.
• United States
7 Nov 15
I think it is due to so many people getting their identities stolen. I have no idea how it happens with trying to jump through all these loops.
@celticeagle (159607)
• Boise, Idaho
7 Nov 15
Wait afew decades and you will be wishing you were an adult again. LOL
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
7 Nov 15
That has to be a troubling experience. All those steps just to get one document. It's like getting the run around. As for not being an adult anymore, I think many of us feel that way at times.
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
7 Nov 15
@Kazemononoke That is a great idea. Having copies is always the best way to go.
• United States
7 Nov 15
I'm going to definitely keep duplicates of EVERYTHING once I get this sorted out. Will definitely teach my kids about this too.
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@valmnz (17099)
• New Zealand
7 Nov 15
Your last sentence is so true
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@JudyEv (326222)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Nov 15
Vince had his wallet stolen in Vienna and we jumped through numerous hoops before the situation was resolved. Hope it's all sorted now.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
18 Nov 15
well, we will all go into that stage anyway. I am an adult but I also think young.
@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
7 Nov 15
I understand how you feel..it is like they are trying to make sure they give you the hardest most annoying time just for kicks, can you imagine what their life must be like?..hahaah
• Preston, England
7 Nov 15
keep thinking I should try being an adult before I die but I'm only 53 and three quarters so plenty of time yet
• Bucharest, Romania
7 Nov 15
I am a senior in high school and I can say I get problems each day ! For every one of us life is like a shot. If you guess it, it's yours,. If you are not, it's not. We have to use that we have the hardest tasks since we've borned. Cheer up and continue your existance like it really is because you are a very strong woman!
• Budennovsk, Russian Federation
7 Nov 15
don't grow up. it is a trap
7 Nov 15
i agree with you completely on the missing-of-being-a-child! adulthood is overrated.
@Auntylou (4264)
• Oxford, England
9 Nov 15
Oh you poor thing, dealing with bureaucracies is so time consuming and expensive.