You Better Fix Them, Lest I Will Throw Them to the Laundry Basket

By rebel_woman06

@SIMPLYD (90722)

Philippines

November 11, 2015 2:44am CST

This is what I told my husband when he woke up this morning , while I was putting on my make-up , getting ready for work . He was already out of the door when I told him that , because he forgot again to fix his blanket and pillows at his side of the bed ! So he came back and fixed them hastily , but not the way I taught him to .

I fixed it well anyway, before leaving the room to eat breakfast with him . What is good with my husband is that he is considerate and obeys . Though not fully , because he doesn’t do them in the way I like it to appear, so I still have to do some finishing touches . But that’s okay , as long as he fixes his beddings .

Does your partner fixes his own beddings after waking up ?

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@LadyDuck (459514)

• Switzerland

11 Nov 15

I do not even ask to him to fix his bedding, anyway I know that I have to fix it if I want to have the bed like I want.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

12 Nov 15

But does he fix it sometimes before he leaves the room ? Or it is assumed that it will always be you .

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

12 Nov 15

@LadyDuck Oh , really ! I would feel sad when my husband will treat me like that .

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@LadyDuck (459514)

• Switzerland

12 Nov 15

@SIMPLYD Italian men fix nothing, because women are supposed to take care of everything around the house. It's not only my husband.

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@salonga (27775)

• Philippines

12 Nov 15

My husband does fix the bed as he wakes up because most time he is the last to get up. But when I am the one who gets up late, I do the fixing. We did not really talk about this, it is a natural thing for both of us.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

12 Nov 15

Actually , i didn't tell my husband to be like this , but since we got married it seems like our nature to be like this already . Though , i taught him how we should fix our pillows and blankets .

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@artemeis (4194)

• China

14 Nov 15

My man does it once in a while and especially so with chores when I'm having my periods. He will take care of everything during that time and I will be relaxing during my off-days.

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@artemeis (4194)

• China

17 Nov 15

@SIMPLYD I am just fortunate that my in-laws instilled it on their son, my husband. My father-in-law does all the chores in his younger days when his wife is having her off days.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

14 Nov 15

Isn';t it a nice feeling when our men understand us on our days when we don't feel well and automatically do what we should be doing but just can't at that moment .

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

17 Nov 15

@artemeis We are lucky that our husband helps us in some chores .

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Your Highness Emperor Albert Whisker

@CaptAlbertWhisker (32507)

• Calgary, Alberta

12 Nov 15

We already broke up for 2 years but she use to be the one to fix the messy bed. Now I have a very messy bed and no one is fixing it but me.

#single

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

12 Nov 15

Well, since you are just by yourself , no need of fixing it up because it's only you who will see it and are used to seeing it everyday as like that .

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@jstory07 (134722)

• Roseburg, Oregon

13 Nov 15

I make the bed after he gets up and than later I sleepin it because I work nights.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

13 Nov 15

Well, on weekends i do the bed that's because there's no need to hurry since we have no work .

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@sofssu (23662)

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11 Nov 15

We never make an issue of it.. If I am in a hurry he makes our bed.. if he is in a hurry I make it.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

11 Nov 15

I also do the whole bed after we got up from bed , if i am not in a hurry , and that is on weekends .

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

13 Nov 15

@delyaj30 I don't like to share my blanket so we use separate blankets . You see , men sometimes would just go to bed without washing their body . So you now , know why .

That is also the case with our towels.

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@delyaj30 (613)

• Quezon City, Philippines

13 Nov 15

why do you use separate blankets? do you sleep on different beds? mmm,,,sorry didnt mean to pry

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@Rollo1 (16679)

• Boston, Massachusetts

11 Nov 15

I guess so. We just pull the comforter cover up and that's it. There isn't a lot to do to make the bed neat.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

12 Nov 15

We don't use comforter because our laundrywoman surely will have a hard time washing it . Besides , we have separate blankets . But if we are using comforter it would be so easy indeed . Just pull the comforter and cover the used beddings .

@1hopefulman (45123)

• Canada

13 Nov 15

I have had no partner for about 15 years and to be honest I only make my bed if somebody is visiting as I want my bed to air.

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@1hopefulman (45123)

• Canada

13 Nov 15

@SIMPLYD That's the beauty of living alone, I do what I want with nobody telling me what to do.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

13 Nov 15

@1hopefulman Yes, i agree . However , don't you long for someone to grow old with ?

@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

13 Nov 15

Oh is that so !

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@epiffanie (11326)

• Australia

12 Nov 15

I don't trust my husband to do anything around the house . lol.. Men have absolutely no idea. They may appear listening to instructions but they listen in one ear and out the other...

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

13 Nov 15

Generally they are like that . And if you tell them to do something , they do it your own way , so it won't appear that they are not the boss around the house .

@delyaj30 (613)

• Quezon City, Philippines

13 Nov 15

my late husband was a very organize person. Actually, he cleans the house better than me

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

13 Nov 15

@delyaj30 Married couples should be like that - helping each other in any way they can . At least you husband knows how to cook some dish .

My husband can cook well . It's from him , i learned how to cook. But he hardly cooks now . I do the cooking during weekends only.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

13 Nov 15

That's good to know .

Mine isn't . So , from the start we have this mutual understanding that we will help each other by doing things which we know we should .

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@delyaj30 (613)

• Quezon City, Philippines

13 Nov 15

@SIMPLYD in our case, we help each other in everything. One thing he didnt know is to cook, he only knows fried fish and "kusido" fish stew with calamansi and camote tops

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@wiLLmaH (8801)

• Singapore, Singapore

11 Nov 15

I leave home for office at 7:15AM, Husband wakes up at 7:30AM. who always fix the bed

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

11 Nov 15

That's good .

We have to be that way because we now work on the same building and our companies are owned by on owner . So we help each other not to be late for work .

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

12 Nov 15

@wiLLmaH He got the early retirement offer of the company he worked with for 28 years i think . He went into some small business but didn't succeed so i told him to work again . Fortunately , there is an opening in our affiliate where my boss is also the GM there . So now , we go to work together .

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@wiLLmaH (8801)

• Singapore, Singapore

12 Nov 15

@SIMPLYD Wow that is good. You meet your hubby in the same building? haha, "tsismosa ako" haha!

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@simone10 (54189)

• Louisville, Kentucky

11 Nov 15

I'm not married but when I was, I was the one who made the bed.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

12 Nov 15

I think it's a matter of having an understanding and consideration of the situation , since in our case i always have to hurry so as not to be late to work.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

16 Nov 15

@simone10 If that is the case indeed , it will be mutually agreed that the last one will do the bed.

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@simone10 (54189)

• Louisville, Kentucky

15 Nov 15

@SIMPLYD In our situation, I was the last to leave every morning so I made the bed before leaving for work.

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@kevinakash (2084)

• Sri Lanka

11 Nov 15

pointing out others errors is a very good quality. but we should be sure that we are doing the right always.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

11 Nov 15

Yes, that is right . But this time , we know that it is what is right because we both will be going to work so he should do his part of fixing his part of the bed .

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@boiboing (13153)

• Northampton, England

11 Nov 15

That's the problem with men fixing things. You often have to re-fix it after.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

11 Nov 15

That is true .

That's because they are not used to fixing these things .