~Clearing Up The "Complaining" Rule Here~

Jacksonville, Florida
December 11, 2015 12:40pm CST
I read a discussion the other day about someone not knowing what the rule meant about not complaining too much-offline life or the site. I wasn't sure myself about what that rule meant for sure so I asked Admin. Can I just say the Admin here is AMAZING? He answered me so fast and gave me the answer to my question! So...to clarify that complaining rule here is talking about the site itself-not life. I was told to complain about life all I want! So...if I am complaining too much about life around here-I was told to. Blame Admin! Just kidding I still won't complain about life more than I usually do. There you have it folks-don't complain about MyLot too much. The bank, admin, rules, etc...
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@celticeagle (119872)
• Boise, Idaho
11 Dec 15
Life is just that= life. I am glad you got it cleared up. It's like I have said before--If people don't like a bit of negativity, a rant now and then, or complaining now and then then they don't need to read it. They can just go to the next post and not stop there. This is sort of therapy for some people I think. I know it can be for me at times. Have a place to go to rant a little. Admin. is so nice it is almost a shock to the system isn't it?
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@sugartoes (42698)
• Greencastle, Indiana
12 Dec 15
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• Jacksonville, Florida
12 Dec 15
@celticeagle Yeah we all complain now and then about life. I'm glad I have a place to come to for venting when I need it. =) It is a shock with how awesome admin is here!
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@celticeagle (119872)
• Boise, Idaho
12 Dec 15
@LovingMyBabies... Yes, after our previous experience with the bub.
@GoAskAlice (4349)
• United States
11 Dec 15
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• Jacksonville, Florida
11 Dec 15
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@Hatley (164484)
• Garden Grove, California
13 Dec 15
• United States
11 Dec 15
Well, if we weren't allowed to complain about real life this nor any other site would exist for long!
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• Jacksonville, Florida
11 Dec 15
@AbbyGreenhill Lol that is true! I just wasn't sure so I wanted to double check. It never hurts to ask, right?
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• United States
11 Dec 15
@LovingMyBabies Well, after being here 2 1/2 months and seeing all kinds of complaining about life in general I was pretty sure it wasn't against he guidelines LOL!
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• Jacksonville, Florida
12 Dec 15
@AbbyGreenhill Well I saw complaining too but I wasn't sure if there was a limit to it or something...
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@inertia4 (27713)
• United States
12 Dec 15
That's why MyLot is awesome. I love the fact that they listen to us and respond to questions asked. And this rule the way you explained it makes total sense. Don't dislike MyLot. Because if you do then you don't have to be here, am I right? I think so.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
12 Dec 15
@inertia4 I love admin here too. They truly do listen and care about their writers. It's amazing. Yes your right, if you don't like how things are done here go elsewhere. Lol.
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@inertia4 (27713)
• United States
12 Dec 15
@LovingMyBabies Right. Look, we love it here. That is all that counts. And I think we both know that many others love it here as well.
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@Hatley (164484)
• Garden Grove, California
13 Dec 15
thats absolutely right and Im just sorry I did not io in when @GardenGerty first told me m ylot waspa yin. I was so stupid to cling to the ho pes that bb would change an yway Im here now and glad to be here.
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@TheHorse (72505)
• Walnut Creek, California
12 Dec 15
Can I complain about not being to complain as much as I'd like to? Actually, MyLot doesn't give us that much to complain about. So I'll stick to texting drivers, political correctness, rude people, bad music, and '80s stereo gear.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
12 Dec 15
@TheHorse Lol. MyLot really is one of the best sites I have found and been on. I don't have any complaints. Yup complain about the rest of that all you want!
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@TheHorse (72505)
• Walnut Creek, California
12 Dec 15
@LovingMyBabies I haven't posted in awhile. I'll see if I can think of something to complain about. Or maybe not.
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@jstory07 (70038)
• Roseburg, Oregon
11 Dec 15
Everyone complains now and then. You would not be human if you did not.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
12 Dec 15
@jstory07 Oh I absolutely agree. We all complain sometimes.
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@Tampa_girl7 (26235)
• United States
11 Dec 15
They are always great to respond quickly.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
11 Dec 15
@Tampa_girl7 Yes they are! =)
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@marlina (78116)
• Canada
11 Dec 15
I have noticed that the administration is super great, you are right.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
11 Dec 15
@marlina They are incredible, right?
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@xstitcher (12535)
• Petaluma, California
11 Dec 15
Right now I think that MyLot is the best site that I'm on writing-wise. My only complaint is is that I haven't been able to write here too much this week but that is not My Lot's fault !
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• Jacksonville, Florida
11 Dec 15
@xstitcher Yeah I agree-MyLot is amazing! I hope you have more time to be here soon. =)
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@UncleJoe (10875)
• Virginia Beach, Virginia
11 Dec 15
I've noticed over the past couple of years you have been learning to deal with problems more and complain less. You have come a long way with all you have been through and I am proud of you. Of course, being with child, it's quite normal to gripe, and you have every right to. I've never been pregnant but have had to live with someone who was. LOL
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• Jacksonville, Florida
11 Dec 15
@UncleJoe Well thank you. I'm glad I have grown as a person. Lol, being pregnant isn't easy but it's also amazing at the same time.
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@suzzy3 (8357)
11 Dec 15
@LovingMyBabies I have also noticed you seem to be dealing with life better these days and seem much happier.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
12 Dec 15
@suzzy3 Well thank you! I am learning the really important things in life, and I am learning that family & love are most important.
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@suzzy3 (8357)
11 Dec 15
Well I think that is fare enough. If someone does not like the site clear off and go somewhere else. Besides moaning and complaining gets everyone else down. We should cheer each other up.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
12 Dec 15
@suzzy3 Yes exactly they can leave if they don't like it here. As for complaining about life, everyone does that at times and some people don't have anywhere else to vent.
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@suzzy3 (8357)
13 Dec 15
@LovingMyBabies I think it is alright to ask for advise and like you say sometimes you need to vent about life.
@GardenGerty (102593)
• United States
13 Dec 15
In my opinion, if you do not like it, and you want to complain, you probably should just leave the site. It is our home, our place to be thankful or rantful.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
13 Dec 15
@GardenGerty I agree-if anyone doesn't like this site they don't have to stay here. There are other sites they can be on.
@Blondie2222 (22588)
• United States
12 Dec 15
I don't complain at all about this site but I know alot of people do.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
12 Dec 15
@Blondie2222 I love this site but I do know others complain about it. =( I don't understand why.
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• Canada
11 Dec 15
Well, it makes sense that they don't want you to complain about them. And no one really should feel the need, unless they have been caught breaking the rules or have unrealistic expectations of the site.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
11 Dec 15
@Morethanamom Yeah of course! Lol. Some places don't like many negative posts either though so I thought I would just make sure. No there is no reason to complain about MyLot.
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@fawkes62 (1291)
• United States
11 Dec 15
It's great that they got back to you so quickly and I will try to remember that clarification. Not that I have found anything about this site to complain about. But life, that tends to throw plenty at me to complain about at times.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
11 Dec 15
@fawkes62 Yes they are so fast to answer all questions which is awesome! =) Life makes things hard on me too so I do complain now and then.
@sugartoes (42698)
• Greencastle, Indiana
12 Dec 15
Life is what we make it or what it turns out to be for all of us no matter who or where we are I have nothing bad to say about this site at all they are really SUPER people I think the staff & the members BOTH. I have no complaints on either subject it's just a AWESOME place to be.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
12 Dec 15
@sugartoes Oh I absolutely agree, but at times everyone complains and that is pretty normal. Some people don't have anyone to vent to offline or complain to. That is why we are here to listen! I love this site and the admin-their both awesome.
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@sugartoes (42698)
• Greencastle, Indiana
12 Dec 15
@LovingMyBabies don't seem to me we can chat about our past in life as it seems they don't like what I'm writing about so they taking them off they took chapter 1 & 10 down so far & still haven't got my pay yet so ???
• United States
14 Dec 15
@sugartoes Did you ask @GoAskAlice why?
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• United States
12 Dec 15
@LovingMyBabies thanks for shedding the light. @GoAskAlice is awesome. However, if this site turns out to be like Bubblews, I will probably complain a lot, because then it would be deserved.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
12 Dec 15
@HanVanMeegerin Your welcome, yes he is amazing! =) I don't think they will end up like Bubblews, I pray not. If it does then I understand you complaining.
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@marijuana (576)
• Tel Aviv, Israel
12 Dec 15
Yeah I have seen admin leaving a comment responding to some questions/issues. Its awesome! Yeah it's not so nice to complain about the site :) It's take it or leave it .. but I guess its nice to give some suggestions to help make the site better :)
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• United States
12 Dec 15
Isnt the Admin a wonderful person?
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• Jacksonville, Florida
12 Dec 15
@TiarasOceanView Yes they are amazing!
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@boiboing (12881)
• Northampton, England
11 Dec 15
That's worth knowing. I can't say I've anything to complain about though.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
11 Dec 15
@boiboing I thought I would try to help someone if they needed it. =)
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