~Cannot Sleep And Lots On My Mind~

Jacksonville, Florida
January 29, 2016 3:34am CST
As some of you know I am sick and I cannot sleep thanks to that. I am going to be exhausted when the kids get up in a few hours. Oh well, such is life. So, our house is going to be ready for us to move in this weekend. We are praying this is truly the case this time. They have had a few set backs-it happens but we are ready. My second thought at 4:30am is-Can someone be a true friend if their treating your children badly behind your back? As a mother, my children are my world so if your hateful to them you ARE also attacking me. True colors can sometimes be blinding when the rose colored glasses get removed. Anyway, maybe I will get some sleep sometime. I hope so because I am tired!
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@Platespinner (18524)
• Winston Salem, North Carolina
29 Jan 16
Some people simply have no time or patience for dealing with someone else's children. Hopefully this won't be much of an issue anymore once you're in your own place. Take it easy!
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• Jacksonville, Florida
29 Jan 16
@Platespinner I think it is hard for me to understand because I love all children so much! Yeah I am so ready. =)
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• Winston Salem, North Carolina
29 Jan 16
@LovingMyBabies Unfortunately not all people view children that way.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
29 Jan 16
@Platespinner I know and I think its sad, especially with people who have kids.
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@marlina (62112)
• Canada
29 Jan 16
Did you finally get some good sleep? I hope so.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
29 Jan 16
@marlina No i didn't but I don't feel as awful as I thought I would.
@Shavkat (46862)
• Philippines
29 Jan 16
That would be a bad behavior, treating the children in different way at the back of their mothers. It is like backstabbing the mother. That's not a true friend. If they do such an act, then they play deceptions to other people.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
29 Jan 16
@shavkat That's how I feel about it too. It hurts me and I don't like them treated like that at all.
@Marcyaz (36112)
• United States
29 Jan 16
Sorry you are not feeling well and hope your new home will be ready for you this weekend. Is someone treating your children badly? You need to try and relax although when you are so close to your time it is hard.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
29 Jan 16
@marcyaz Thank you. This cold needs to go away! Yeah my kids tell me everything and the things I am hearing is upsetting me a lot. Thank God it's almost over.
@Morleyhunt (16658)
• Canada
29 Jan 16
Try to rest up and get some sleep.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
29 Jan 16
@Morleyhunt I am going to be relaxing today as much as possible.
@LadyDuck (121775)
• Switzerland
29 Jan 16
I am sorry you are sick, you should try to relax and sleep, you need all your forces for the next few days.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
29 Jan 16
@ladyduck Thank you, I will be relaxing as much as possible today.
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@TRBRocks420 (62166)
• Banks, Oregon
29 Jan 16
No they shouldn't be treating your kid bad. I wouldn't put up with that either and, hope you feel better and, get rest eventually.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
29 Jan 16
@Trbrocks420 Yeah I hate hearing what's said to them when I am not around. It hurts me a lot. Thank you I hope this cold goes away soon.
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@snowy22315 (34191)
• United States
30 Jan 16
Take care of your kids mother please! You can not give to your kids if you don;t feel well.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
30 Jan 16
@snowy22315 Yeah, I have been sleeping better since so that's a good thing.
@snowy22315 (34191)
• United States
30 Jan 16
@paigea (21188)
• Canada
30 Jan 16
I woke up at 3 and couldn't go back to sleep. I was surprisingly good at work though. I hope you get a good sleep tonight.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
30 Jan 16
@paigea I hate those kind of nights! I'm glad they don't happen often.
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@paigea (21188)
• Canada
30 Jan 16
@LovingMyBabies mine happen often! I remember my parents being like this too.
@sharon6345 (109673)
• United States
29 Jan 16
Can you turn out the lights and rest up a little. I am sure you can't take anything right now.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
29 Jan 16
@Sharon6345 When my husband gets home i plan on resting and he can take over with the kids.
@sharon6345 (109673)
• United States
30 Jan 16
@LovingMyBabies That is good your going to need a break in a while when the babies arrives. Good luck.
@inertia4 (26915)
• United States
29 Jan 16
Personally I think those rose colored glasses need to be removed permanently. I would disown anyone who is hateful to my kids behind my back. I will always take my kids side no matter what. I am sure you feel the same way. And, please, get some rest and feel better. Good luck with the house.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
29 Jan 16
@inertia4 I do completely agree and once we move things will change big time. Right now that is kind of difficult. I am trying to relax a lot today and hopefully I will feel better tomorrow. Thank you!
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@inertia4 (26915)
• United States
29 Jan 16
@LovingMyBabies You're welcome. I am glad things are looking up for you and your family. I like hearing good news. Feel better.
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@Marty1 (26764)
• Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
29 Jan 16
My mom had a friend who was starting rumors to a girl who didn't like me that I went through 12 years of school, and she would spread rumors about me. I found out it was my mom's friend my godmother from one of her and my friends. MY mom refuses ever to talk to her again!
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• Jacksonville, Florida
29 Jan 16
@Marty1I am sorry that happened to you. That is terrible. Once we are in our own place things will be better.
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@Marty1 (26764)
• Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
30 Jan 16
@LovingMyBabies This so-called friend is not a friend she starts fights with everyone for anything, and my mom was her last friend. IT serves her right my mom doesn't talk to her as the lady got mad at this woman who is so nice but my godmother is mad at her because she has a job and gets to buy more than her! She is a very jealous woman. The woman she is mad at asks my mom every time she sees her why the lady is mad at her. MY mom just goes I don;t know,,,, I met the lady once she is so sweet and beautiful
@UncleJoe (8527)
• Virginia Beach, Virginia
30 Jan 16
We learned the hard way to trust no one else around our children.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
30 Jan 16
@UncleJoe Not many people would treat them the way we want them treated. I hate it.
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• Philippines
30 Jan 16
@LovingMyBabies wow people are just so rude nowadays. Even me, I won't let people try to do something bad for my kids. Though I do not have any children right now, but when I reach father time I will protect my kids with all my power. If they get treated badly I take action and protect them too.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
30 Jan 16
@Bigmoney25 Yeah, once you have children you will be very protective over them.
@GardenGerty (91019)
• Marion, Kansas
30 Jan 16
The way my luck would run, In your shoes I would go into labor right now. For your sake and the sake of the move I hope that does not happen.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
30 Jan 16
@GardenGerty Lol, the baby seems quite content where he is at the moment. Hopefully he wont come until we are in our house and everything is more settled.
@Hatley (159370)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Jan 16
oh I will be so glad for you when you get moved nto the houjse shame on hem for berati g yuor childrern tat so unfaikr rest you will soon be moved hugs
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• Jacksonville, Florida
29 Jan 16
@Hatley I will be so glad too! I can't wait until we are moved in.
• Japan
29 Jan 16
Nobody should treat children badly. Or adults either, if it comes to that.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
29 Jan 16
@Petatonicsca Yes I agree. I can't wait until we are in our own place. No one will be hateful to my children.
@jstory07 (58192)
• Roseburg, Oregon
29 Jan 16
A good friend would treat your children nice hopefully the same way that they treat their children.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
29 Jan 16
@jstory07 Yeah I agree with you. I don't treat any child badly so I don't understand when others do it.
• United States
29 Jan 16
Once you move this weekend you can get settled and have your own space once again. I hope you are feeling better today and try not to let too many things bother you.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
29 Jan 16
@marilynda1225 Yeah I know things will get better once we have our own space again. I am still sick but I am going to try to make it a good day anyway.
@andriaperry (33072)
• Anniston, Alabama
29 Jan 16
I would not have anything to do with anyone who treated children badly! Those people I cannot and will not tolerate. Children are innocent, I would be kicking some A!
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• Jacksonville, Florida
29 Jan 16
@andriaperry I am trying really hard to keep the peace while we are here but once we move things will be much different. I am very angry about it though.