How Bad Can It Get

two wives
@Marcyaz (35954)
United States
March 21, 2016 9:24am CST
There was a discussion on here by Cacay1 called The Legal Wife that brought to mind a situation that I knew about a few years back. I was babysitting for a lady who had two little boys, she would bring them over early in the morning and pick them after she returned from work. One day her pick up time came and went so I put the boys to bed and they slept at my home overnight. I knew her and her husband were having some marital problems. She hadn't called or anything but since I had always asked for contact numbers I had some numbers to call. I called her work and was told she no longer worked there. I then called her mother in-law and explained that I had the boys and hadn't seen or heard from her in two days and she came and took the boys home with her. The next day I heard from her and she explained that she had found out her husband had another wife and she was not even really married to him so where did that leave her just a woman with two kids she no longer wanted. How sad is that? I saw her when I was out shopping one day a few months later and I have to say she certainly had gone downhill in looks her hair was unkept, her clothes were dirty and she looked like she hadn't bathed in a month, what a sad situation.
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• United States
21 Mar 16
Wow thats all she had to say about her children? Thats terrible sad.
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
21 Mar 16
@TiarasOceanView She wanted no more to do with the children and that was really sad to hear as they were innocent of anything.
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• United States
21 Mar 16
@Marcyaz I can never understand this.
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
21 Mar 16
@TiarasOceanView You are not the only one who could never understand this.
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• United States
21 Mar 16
Wow, that is really a sad story. How in the world could she just walk away without her children? I wonder what became of them?
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
21 Mar 16
@Jeanniemaries I don't know how she could just walk away rom them either but walk she did. The mother in-law has the boys and is raising them.
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• United States
22 Mar 16
@Marcyaz Shocking! What a great person the grandmother is!
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
22 Mar 16
@Jeanniemaries It is good that their grandmother is a very loving person to raise them.
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@gudheart (12775)
21 Mar 16
Oh no, does sound like a bad situation. Hope things get better for them.
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
21 Mar 16
@gudheart It is not only a bad situation but very sad when a mother doesn't want her own children.
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@pgiblett (6619)
• Canada
21 Mar 16
It can be tough, but not everyone responds the same way. What happened to the children?
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
21 Mar 16
@pgiblett Yes it is very tought. The children are being raised by their grandmother who loves them very much.
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@pgiblett (6619)
• Canada
21 Mar 16
@Marcyaz Sad, she needs to snap out if it, perhaps she need counseling.
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@nanette64 (15549)
• Fairfield, Texas
21 Mar 16
Guys can be pretty sneaky @Marcyaz . There's a lot of them that will do that and you just never know.
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
21 Mar 16
@nanette64 I had heard of things like that happening but had never known anyone like that until this happened.
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@snowy22315 (38062)
• United States
21 Mar 16
how sad
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
21 Mar 16
@snowy22315 It really is sad for the children.
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• United States
21 Mar 16
He is still the father and has to pay for those kids - why didn't she take him to court.
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
21 Mar 16
@AbbyGreenhill My impression is she wanted nothing more to do with him or his children as she looked at the situation.
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• United States
21 Mar 16
@Marcyaz So the boys were not hers? I assumed they were.
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
21 Mar 16
@AbbyGreenhill No the children were hers and his together but her feeling now seemed to be she wanted nothing more to do with them.
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@Susan2015 (19678)
• United States
21 Mar 16
How in the world could she just abandon the children like that? It sounds like she has her own issues and not just his.
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
21 Mar 16
@Susan2015 I would say they are both in need of some serious therapy. How a mother could just up and leave her children like that is beyond my understanding.
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@Susan2015 (19678)
• United States
21 Mar 16
@Marcyaz I'm sorry that he ended up being such a creep. But you don't abandon your children like that!
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
21 Mar 16
@Susan2015 I couldn't understand her leaving the children as they are part of her also. Who knows what another person is thinking. Yep he was a creep.
@alberello75 (14312)
• Genova, Italy
21 Mar 16
So from what I understand, this woman has become like a bum, right? It is a sad story
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
21 Mar 16
@alberello75 Yes she is like a bum and it is very sad as she always looked so nice. It is definitely a sad story for her to leave those children and no longer want them.
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@alberello75 (14312)
• Genova, Italy
21 Mar 16
@Marcyaz It is still possible to do something good for these people?
• United States
21 Mar 16
It is sad that she went down hill. It sounds a bit like other stories out there. Some are fighters, some take flight. It is sad that the fight or flight kicked in and she did the latter. As the the guy, he's trash for doing such a thing.
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
21 Mar 16
@Berniezeitler It is a very sad situation especially for the children and that guy is a piece of trash I will agree. At least they are living with their grandmother and are safe.
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@amadeo (53931)
• United States
21 Mar 16
The boy are better off without her.Someone should looked into this.Place the boys somewhere
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
21 Mar 16
@amadeo The boys are being taken care of and living with their grandmother who gives them a lot of loving.Tthey are better off without her feeling the way she does.
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@DianneN (66480)
• United States
21 Mar 16
I am shocked that is what she said about her two little boys. The whole situation is sad.
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
21 Mar 16
@DianneN I was shocked when she said it and these boys were so sweet and loved to be loved on and paid attention to, it is very sad indeed.
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@slund2041 (3406)
• United States
22 Mar 16
wow! What happen to her children?
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
22 Mar 16
@slund2041 The grandmother has the boys and is raising them.
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@slund2041 (3406)
• United States
22 Mar 16
@Marcyaz I feel sorry for the children.
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
22 Mar 16
@slund2041 Yes I did also but I was glad their grandmother was caring for them.
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@celticeagle (115494)
• Boise, Idaho
22 Mar 16
How weird is that? Just another reason I think some people should not have kids.
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
22 Mar 16
@celticeagle There are always some people who should not have children and I don't think it will ever change. How a parent can leave like that and No Want her children is just strange to me.
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@celticeagle (115494)
• Boise, Idaho
23 Mar 16
@Marcyaz ...Just up and leave. Poor kids.
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
23 Mar 16
@celticeagle Yep just up and left them, hard to believe isn't it? Now they are living with their grandmother.
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@VivaLaDani13 (16783)
• Perth, Australia
3 May 16
aw man that is just very sad! I feel really awful for the children!
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
3 May 16
At least the children user with their grandma and are being taken care of.
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@Jessicalynnt (47895)
• Centralia, Missouri
21 Mar 16
I feel bad for the kids.
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
21 Mar 16
@Jessicalynnt At least they are being loved by his mother and taken care of by her.
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@ShyBear88 (16921)
• United States
22 Mar 16
That is a bad situation to be in. It is illigal to marry more the one person. You get get married again but it wouldn't be an official one. There Re some people that practice this but the other women about each other. This does re,old me of the movie that came out I think two years ago called The Other Women.
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@Corbin5 (88863)
• United States
21 Mar 16
A very sad situation indeed! I wonder if she kept her two boys? Her appearance is definitely an indication that things were not going well for her.
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@fishtiger58 (30572)
• Momence, Illinois
21 Mar 16
she told you she didn't want her kids??? So very sad. Was she just going to leave them with you? Good thing her mother took them.
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@Hatley (163893)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Jun 16
They were still her children so why did she not want them what kind of woman would not want her own children thats horrijble
@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
30 Jun 16
@Hatley I can't answer that question but I know it was strange.