~Take Some Responsibility!~

Valdosta, Georgia
May 25, 2016 10:10pm CST
I have told this girl many times that she can go out and I don't care BUT she HAS to be home at some point to make sure she takes care of her pets. What happens today? She is nowhere to be found and the kids and I had to feed, water and let her pets outside. That is not OUR responsibility. I told her tonight if she cannot take care of them then she needs to find another home for them. I am sick of being responsible for her animals! She is on very thin ice. She said earlier she's going to look for somewhere else to go... I think that is the best thing at this point.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
26 May 16
I don't understand why she is not OUT YET.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
26 May 16
@marlina She's talking with her aunt about moving in with her but we won't put anyone on the street-and especially not family.
@jstory07 (134465)
• Roseburg, Oregon
26 May 16
I would never have a pet and not take care of it. What kind of pets does she ave.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
26 May 16
@jstory07 I could not do that either. She has a dog and a cat.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
26 May 16
is it your daughter? a room mate? most young people think only of a pet as a thing only to have when they want it. very childish and selfish.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
26 May 16
@bunnybon7 She is my husband's second cousin. Yes she is very childish and very selfish, and we are getting sick of it.
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@Drosophila (16573)
• Ireland
26 May 16
yes.. she does sound like too much hard work
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• Valdosta, Georgia
26 May 16
@Drosophila She is a LOT of work, that is the truth!
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@Drosophila (16573)
• Ireland
26 May 16
@LovingMyBabies And I feel you have been spread way too thin lately.. maybe its best option if she moves
@Macarrosel (7498)
• Philippines
26 May 16
Seems she is irresponsible. I hope everything is fine despite of her attitudes.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
26 May 16
@Macarrosel She is very irresponsible, no matter how much we talk to her about it.
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
26 May 16
Yep you have your hands full!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
26 May 16
@Daljinder Oh yes I do! =(
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@snowy22315 (170011)
• United States
27 May 16
I think If I was you, I would circle some possibilities for her...make some calls on her behalf the more you can "help" with the process, the better it will be.
@dodo19 (47082)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
27 May 16
I have to agree with you. It's not your responsibility to feed her preys. You already have quite a bit on your plate to deal with. You don't need to deal with pets that are her responsibilities.
@Teep11 (7674)
• United States
26 May 16
If you informed here about the pet care and she refuses then it's best that they be placed in someone's else's care. I hope everything turns out alright.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
26 May 16
@Teep11 Yeah she is looking for somewhere else to keep the cat.
@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
26 May 16
You just did the right thing
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• Valdosta, Georgia
26 May 16
@cherigucchi Yeah, I just wish she would do the right thing for once.
• Philippines
27 May 16
I wonder what would happen if you just CHOSE to stop feeding that cat. You think that might come into her senses? you said it yourself, you're tired of feeding that cat, maybe she needs to learn it the hard way.
@Juliaacv (48447)
• Canada
26 May 16
The really doesn't think of anyone but herself does she? I feel sorry for her poor pets, thankfully you looked after them.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
26 May 16
@Juliaacv Nope, she only thinks of herself and it's getting on my very last nerve. I'm glad they have us to make sure they are taken care of.
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@JudyEv (325818)
• Rockingham, Australia
26 May 16
She certainly sounds like she needs to grow up a bit.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
26 May 16
@JudyEv She definitely needs to grow up, I told her that yesterday.
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• India
26 May 16
pets are not just one time responsibility!!when you adopt one...you are responsible for them throughout they'll be better off with someone else
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• Valdosta, Georgia
26 May 16
@BlissfullySilent Exactly, apparently she doesn't realize this. She doesn't belong having animals if she cannot take care of them.
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• United States
27 May 16
You are such a good person for letting her stay. I am glad that she realizes that she needs to find somewhere else to live. It is not fair that she burdens you with the care of her pets.
@GardenGerty (157555)
• United States
27 May 16
She has really been taking advantage of your goodness. It sounds like she has worn out her welcome by a long shot.
@marguicha (215470)
• Chile
27 May 16
It is difficult to accept other people at out house. But it is much worse when we also have to accept someone elseĀ“s pets.
@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
26 May 16
I didn't know you had taken in her pets as well as her. That is totally unacceptable for her to expect you to look after them - the sooner she finds somewhere else the better.
@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
27 May 16
How can she take.some when she can be irrepsonsible to most? ;(
@paigea (35702)
• Canada
27 May 16
She does sound like she's an extra child to have at your place. Hope things get better with her.