Best way to be happy at workplace

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October 16, 2016 3:27am CST
I am happy at my workplace. I have no tension with my colleagues.Reason is that I speak as less as possible.Some think that she is stupid and some think me oversmart??. But till the date,they couldn't understand why I am like that.Firstly, they criticized the behaviour but now they are trying to copy me??..
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@skysnap (20154)
16 Oct 16
Not expecting people to behave the way you want is the way to be happy.
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@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
17 Oct 16
I like to just mind my own business wherever I am... Welcome to myLot, by the way... And I love your rose picture...
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@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
17 Oct 16
@Devyanii They're hidden under the blue 'myLot Code' link below the posting box...
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17 Oct 16
Hello!!
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17 Oct 16
I am thinking how are u typing these emojis!!Whenever I m trying to do so,two question marks are appearing??
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@pumpkinjam (8540)
• United Kingdom
5 Nov 16
I find it is easy to be happy in a workplace if you're friendly with everyone and you don't bother with gossip. Of course, that doesn't always work because there's always someone who doesn't like people who won't gossip but it works for the most part! I've had some jobs I've enjoyed because I've worked with lovely people. I've done the same job and hated it because of the people.
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@tipay26 (867)
• Philippines
16 Oct 16
Hello there Devyani ,greetings from the Philippines! I have read your discussion and I myself too is very happy at my work place.There is no reward in having a harmonious relationship with your co workers because perform well with your tasks.And I read here too that there is some misunderstanding with your co worker.Well it is expected that some of your co worker will take your actions in a different way.And the best thing to do is that you can approach them politely and nicely explain why you are acting that way in a good manner so that everything will be in its proper place.
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16 Oct 16
Hello !! This is the thing why they are astonished.Because I am always very polite and nice to them ,even when some of them are not very polite.They are puzzled why don't I react when they don't behave nicely.I do all my duties very carefully and intelligently and with all my attention. For me, it's necessary to have harmony at workplace.Otherwise, it will be difficult to focus on work..
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@tipay26 (867)
• Philippines
16 Oct 16
@Devyanii that is just fine dont be like them.treat them with kindness still because later on they will realize that being kind and polite is the best thing to do.just imagine if you will treat them differently and they will react to it of course it will be very hard if there is no unity and peace in the work place.
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16 Oct 16
@tipay26 Very true!! It's according to Gandhian philosophy.
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@miniam (9154)
• Bern, Switzerland
17 Oct 16
Good thing there,if you are quiet,no one comes to gossip with you.Im not happy at my workplace but that`s because l dont want to be there
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@Hannihar (129481)
• Israel
9 Mar 18
People are very funny. Are you still at that job? They needed to just leave you be and not say anything.