When Is The Right Time Frame
By YoghurtGal
@flapiz (22499)
United Kingdom
December 13, 2016 8:38pm CST
I dated this French guy last weekend and on the second day he asked me if I'd like to be his girlfriend. And I was so shocked I said hey let's take it slow it's going too fast. He says why waste time if you feel it?
It's new for me for a guy to be very in a rush to be in a relationship and though I like him I don't want to appear too easy to get. After all it's easy come easy go.
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@Happy2BeMe (99376)
• Canada
14 Dec 16
Take your time and get to know each other.nifty it is meant to everything will fall into place. No need to rush things.
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@flapiz (22499)
• United Kingdom
14 Dec 16
@Happy2BeMe Yep I'll stretch it to a month. My feeling towards him isn't really that strong but he's really nice and I want to give him a chance. I've always been drawn to men who doesn't like me too much. Lol. Recipe for disaster.
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@Happy2BeMe (99376)
• Canada
14 Dec 16
@flapiz give it a month and see what happens. You should know in a month how you feel about him.
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@flapiz (22499)
• United Kingdom
14 Dec 16
That's what I have been telling him. And he's saying he can wait but it's hurting him. And I'm like hello? We just met we need to get to know each other first. And he said we could get to know each other whilst in a relationship.
He's a really sweet guy but I don't want to rush. I told him that I'm filipina in Philippines relationships aren't like instant noodles.
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@1hopefulman (45121)
• Canada
14 Dec 16
There is no rush, is there? Are you ready to be exclusive?
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@flapiz (22499)
• United Kingdom
14 Dec 16
Hey Felix I have always wanted to try be in a relationship. But it's going to be my first formal one with a label. And usually before I want that label I wait 3 months to make sure I'm in love. But this guy is too eager I don't know if it has something to do with culture or what.
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@flapiz (22499)
• United Kingdom
14 Dec 16
@1hopefulman Just very recently. Like 2 weeks and just 2 dates. That's why I'm very skeptical about it.
@bluemoonpavilion (4658)
• Singapore
14 Dec 16
The French are supposedly romantics and maybe that's why he is so eager! But I would think it's better to slow down and observe first. It would be good to establish a slow but firm and stable relationship rather than a whirlwind one which might be too fragile.
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@ms1864 (6886)
• Bangalore, India
14 Dec 16
You are right in thinking it's too fast.
Intentions are always questionable .... I hope you don't let him pressure you into a relationship. If you are not ready...you have every right to do as you please. 
Best time would only be after you guys have spent enough amount of time to just get to know each other.
why commit before even knowing if it is worth your time?
Best time would only be after you guys have spent enough amount of time to just get to know each other.
why commit before even knowing if it is worth your time? 2 people like this
@flapiz (22499)
• United Kingdom
14 Dec 16
Hey Girl! Yes that's exactly what I was thinking and I told him that. IT he said why waste time when we could be in a relationship and get to know each other on the process 
. I told him it's the commitment aspect. I want to be sure specially because it's going to be my first formal boyfriend if ever.
. I told him it's the commitment aspect. I want to be sure specially because it's going to be my first formal boyfriend if ever.1 person likes this
@abhinalstrikr (4111)
• India
14 Dec 16
you should have your way,and righly said
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