Okay , Fine !

@SIMPLYD (81467)
Philippines
December 14, 2016 2:56am CST
When I arrived home last Monday from the office , hubby was already at home from his work and he irritatingly asked me why I was so late already in going home . I told him I went to the mall and searched for a blouse for our office Christmas party but nothing suited me. He got angry and told me that I have lots of beautiful blouses to choose from . In fact , he said the blouse I was wearing that day is beautiful , it could do already and told me I shouldn’t have worn it that day . So , to appease him , I fitted some of my blouses and he chose the red one , I wore on our Christmas party two years ago . Fine , I told him . Only to know the next day, that the theme Glam Rock for the party is of black and white ensemble. I will be the odd one if I wear my red blouse . Thus , yesterday upon dismissal , I went to the other mall and there found a black and white blouse that suited me well . I went home hurriedly while he is still not home yet . I didn’t tell him about it , because he might not fetch me from the party had he known I bought a new one despite him telling me not to , anymore . I hope he won’t get angry when he fetches me from our party on Friday and saw me in that new blouse . I will be changing into that at the office before it starts because we still have to work the whole day until 6:30 before it starts at 8:00 p.m. Let's see what happens when he fetches me on Friday .
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@topffer (35537)
• France
14 Dec 16
It is bad that spouses are not invited to the party, you should have offered him to go there with his preferred red clothing. Christmas is not a time for disputes and tension, he will probably wait a week or two before asking to divorce.
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
15 Dec 16
You made me laugh out loud with you comment. Actually , this office party is always just for the employees . He for his part has already attended their office Christmas party too , last December 03 . He knows it's always for employees as all companies do . Yeah Christmas is not a time for disputes so i should expect that he divorces me later on January .
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@topffer (35537)
• France
15 Dec 16
@SIMPLYD Same here, spouses are not invited. Many companies in France are also organizing a Christmas tree party for the children of their employees. There is often a little show and some gifts for the children. It is usually during a weekend, and parents are not invited... but they have chosen the gift before on a list given by the company.
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
15 Dec 16
@topffer Really they have that for the children of their employees ! Wow , how nice. So they come without the parents though . Interesting !
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@brokenbee (7956)
• Philippines
14 Dec 16
Don't forget to change clothes after the party so he won't see the new one... LOL just kidding! I am sure he won't get mad when he sees you in your gorgeous new outfit... hihihi
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
14 Dec 16
Thank you . I shall be praying that he won't get angry really . Anyway , i will explain to him nicely as to why i really have to buy that blouse .
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@brokenbee (7956)
• Philippines
15 Dec 16
@SIMPLYD Yes, I know he will understand... =)
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
15 Dec 16
@brokenbee God will help me .
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@louievill (19340)
• Philippines
14 Dec 16
I will await the next chapter of this exciting episode
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
15 Dec 16
I am glad i excite you with this . . .abangan ang susunos na kabanata ( watch out for the next episode )
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@dpk262006 (56473)
• Delhi, India
14 Dec 16
I would like to go with the advice of @shaynas that it would be better to tell him in advance rather than giving him shock on the day of the party. If you do not tell and he comes to your office to fetch you, seeing you in new blouse would unnecessary may enrage him and he might create a scene there and then itself. You could do one thing - after reaching your office on the day of the party, you could tell that your friend has arranged/bought a party theme blouse for you and you will wear it in the evening.
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@shaynas (5527)
• India
14 Dec 16
I wonder if buying a blouse for herself is such an issue that would make the husband angry?
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
15 Dec 16
I will just pray that he will not get angry when he fetches me after the party and see that i have bought a new blouse despite his saying not to anymore . He knows that most parties have themes for the Christmas party because he just had a themed party last December 03 , for their office . Anyway , i will be treating him to his favorite crispy pata .
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
15 Dec 16
@shaynas Actually , what he is angry at is that despite having new blouses from her auntie who came home for good from the States , i still would buy a new house . I forgot to tell him we have a black and white themed party for the attires .
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@DianneN (82202)
• United States
14 Dec 16
Just tell him you had that blouse for years and found it in the back of the closet. I'm lucky my husband doesn't get mad at me for shopping. He knows how materialistic I am. Besides, he likes to see me in pretty new things.
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
15 Dec 16
Nice suggestion . But he knows that when i have a new blouse or something , i will really wear it at once . Good for you that your hubby is so understanding . But i understand him for being that way . I had an issue before of overspending that's why .
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@DianneN (82202)
• United States
15 Dec 16
@SIMPLYD I now understand why your husband feels that way. Overspending is so easy, especially when you like beautiful things.
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
15 Dec 16
@DianneN Yes and it involves my credit card so my hubby knew i was in deep trouble . He helped me pay them . So now , he really is monitoring if i am buying and buying new clothes and shoes and bags again .
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@silvermist (20085)
• India
14 Dec 16
@SIMPLYD Oh a suspense story.I think he may not notice which blouse you wore in the morning or which you are wearing in the evening when he fetches you from the party May be he will just be talking about his office.If that happens will you be glad or sad?
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
14 Dec 16
I will be glad , because he didn't notice it . Because for sure he would reprimand me again for being so materialistic , as he told me .
@amnabas (10310)
• Karachi, Pakistan
14 Dec 16
Oops you need to be calm if he blasts on you
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
15 Dec 16
I always keep calm when he is angry . I have known from our experience that when we both will be angry , we will really be not speaking with one another for many days .
@Asylum (48266)
• Manchester, England
14 Dec 16
Oh my, you are such a rebel.
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
15 Dec 16
See, so you noticed ..
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@sunrisefan (19136)
• Philippines
16 Dec 16
LQ of Ms. LT hahaha!
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
16 Dec 16
Does it look that way? It's more like i am being reprimanded by my father .
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@sunrisefan (19136)
• Philippines
16 Dec 16
@SIMPLYD Hahaha! Your husband is jealous of the fans you'll have because of your beauty hahaha!
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
18 Dec 16
@sunrisefan We are past those age where we should be jealous of others though .
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@LadyDuck (170778)
• Switzerland
14 Dec 16
I hope he will not get mad. I know that my husband surely would get mad, not because I bought a new blouse, but because I tried to hide the truth.
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
15 Dec 16
Yes, i understand men or even us don't want to be lied of . I really hope so too that he won't get mad . But i will explain to him that i would be out of place wearing a red blouse to the black and white themed Christmas party .
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@LadyDuck (170778)
• Switzerland
15 Dec 16
@SIMPLYD You should have told him "before" going to buy a new one, I am sure he would have understood and also appreciated the fact that you discussed the matter with him before taking a decision.
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
15 Dec 16
@LadyDuck I don't have time to tell him that day , when i learned the next day that the attire should in black and white . I will just tell him when he sees me in my new blouse comes after Party tomorrow evening . I will just pray he will understand .
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@hereandthere (32489)
• Philippines
14 Dec 16
is he annoyed because you didn't tell/text him ahead of time that you will drop by the mall? why do you have to be home ahead of him, to cook dinner?
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
15 Dec 16
That's also another reason . I was so late in going home , yet i didn't text him about it . No , i don't cook dinner . But he knows that i should be home by at least 7:30 , this time was already way beyond that perhaps 10:00 , and when i told him i was looking for a new blouse , that made him angry more because i have many new nice blouses from her auntie who came home for good from the US .
• Philippines
15 Dec 16
@SIMPLYD i remember this happened before. you also forgot to text him then.
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
15 Dec 16
@hereandthere Yes, it's so bad of me .
@ridingbet (57740)
• Philippines
23 Dec 16
well, i believe both of you are matured enough to listen to each other's caprices. anyway, red or the striped one, you still look so gorgeous, my lady. your husband should always be very proud of you.
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
23 Dec 16
Yes . We eah have our caprices but knows how to be in control . Thank you for your compliment .
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@ridingbet (57740)
• Philippines
24 Dec 16
@SIMPLYD welsome my dear. you are simply gorgeous.
@1hopefulman (31632)
• Canada
20 Dec 16
I'm reading your posts backwards and already read his reaction. By the way, it is a very nice blouse.
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
20 Dec 16
Really ! I must agree it is a very nice blouse and comfortable too .
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@cacay1 (33190)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Dec 16
hahaha that is married life you have to face having a husband to correct the wife....so wife, follow the rules,lol.
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
18 Dec 16
And i am one wife who didn't follow the husband .
@gigil_etb (140)
15 Dec 16
ohh.. i feel you... but if i were you, i would tell him the truth for the sake of peace on earth, aw peace of mind.. just tell him that you should go with motif, i guess he will not get mad about it, he'll appreciate you telling the truth..
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
16 Dec 16
I shall be telling him that when he fetches me for our date also , after the party . I am praying that he won't get angry anymore .
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@Lucky15 (33719)
• Philippines
14 Dec 16
just put an alarm or note about changing, haha
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
15 Dec 16
Actually , i am really thinking of changing before he arrives to fetch me . Though , on second thoughts i will take the risk , of letting him see it and i will explain i really have to buy because the red is very much in contrast with the theme of our party , which is black and white and denim jeans 'coz it's glam rock .
@Kandae11 (40289)
14 Dec 16
Just tell him it is a black and white party and you will be the only lady in red.
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
15 Dec 16
Precisely that's what i am going to tell him .
@PainsOnSlate (20414)
• Canada
14 Dec 16
I guess I'm lucky, my husband would love it if I went shopping, I hate to shop. My favorite store is called Value Village and its a second hand store, the clothes there are amazingly beautiful and expensive originally but very affordable as a hand me down. I bought 5 blouses for my last trip and spent a whopping big $11.00 Canadian.
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
15 Dec 16
Yes indeed you are lucky to have a husband who loves you to shop. Well, as for me i know he is doing this because i had an issue before of overspending specially on new clothes , shoes and bags . Besides , he saw my new blouses which were recently given to me by her auntie who came home from the US for good , so he gets irked i am looking for one again , just for the party . What i just learned though was that i would be out of place in that red blouse he chose for me because the party is themed Glam Rock which is denims and black and white get up with jacket or a coat . I really hope he won't get angry when he fetches me from the party and see my new blouse .
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@Morleyhunt (20295)
• Canada
14 Dec 16
Good luck with the blouse. You could always slip the red one on before going to the door when your husband picks you up....then again....my husband probably wouldn't notice anyway.
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
15 Dec 16
I was thinking of that actually , because he will not see me dress for the party because i will just be bringing my get-up for the party in a big bag , so i won't be going home anymore after our dismissal at 6:00 p.m. I will just dress up at the office for the party . Though , i don't want to hide it from him anymore so i am just be on it when he fetches me . Hopefully , he won't get angry with me .
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@Platespinner (17045)
• Winston Salem, North Carolina
14 Dec 16
My husband prefers I let him know if in running late, but he doesn't get upset if I go shopping. Of course I HATE shopping for clothes, perhaps it would be different if I went more often.
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@SIMPLYD (81467)
• Philippines
15 Dec 16
Actually , i know that it's what primarily irked him because i didn't text nor call him to let him know i will be late already in going home . Then , when he knows my reason for being late , the more that he got angry and made it the issue . I didn't know that there are girls who hates shopping for clothes because it's what i love most .