FINE, ignore me! Next time you contact me, I will ignore you so you get a taste of your own medicine.
By Michelle
@infatuatedbby (94921)
United States
January 24, 2017 1:46am CST
Now a days with the time stamp, you clearly know if the recipient read your message and then decided to ignore you outright.
I sent a message a few days ago to a "friend" (an actual friend I know) on Facebook and never heard back. This "friend" is absolutely fine - statuses are posted, likes and communicating just never answered my "hello".
Well, that's fine. 
I won't be responding to this person when he decides to contact me for anything, or just to say hi so they can get a taste of their own medicine.
But I think the real reason I am ignored, is my mother is also friends with him and probably told him I am having an engagement party next month. Many said he had a crushed on me supposedly.
I won't be responding to this person when he decides to contact me for anything, or just to say hi so they can get a taste of their own medicine.
But I think the real reason I am ignored, is my mother is also friends with him and probably told him I am having an engagement party next month. Many said he had a crushed on me supposedly.34 people like this
42 responses
@DianneN (247219)
• United States
24 Jan 17
I received a call inviting us out to a dinner and a movie for the same night. My friend told me she texted me days ago. I am one who rarely checks her texts unless I know something important is going on, or if I happen to hear my text notification. I'm not one to carry my phone or iPad from room to room. If it's so important, they can call me.
Perhaps he doesn't want to buy you a gift. Lol!
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
24 Jan 17
If I send text messages to my mom, she NEVER reads them so I would have to call.
The message I sent via Facebook wasn't important, it just said "hi", but knowing he saw it with the time stamp. He wasn't busy enough to say "hi" back because I saw he wrote some Facebook status.
But all well 
I only go on Facebook here/there, its okay.
The message I sent via Facebook wasn't important, it just said "hi", but knowing he saw it with the time stamp. He wasn't busy enough to say "hi" back because I saw he wrote some Facebook status.
But all well I only go on Facebook here/there, its okay.4 people like this
@DianneN (247219)
• United States
24 Jan 17
@infatuatedbby I'm a mom, too. That must explain it. Lol! I wouldn't sweat it. Did I miss something about the engagement party????
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
26 Jan 17
@DianneN Hehe. I texted my dad today. A second later he calls me. I told him the point of texting was not to call. He was like it's faster than typing! 
Engangement party isn't until March.
I told him the point of texting was not to call. He was like it's faster than typing!
Engangement party isn't until March.2 people like this
@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
24 Jan 17
Now Ms. Michelle is again on fire hehehe!
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
24 Jan 17
Then again my sister ignored me also! I sent her a text message last night and she read it but never wrote back. But I know she's busy with caring for her family / 2 kids / balancing work / life, so thats fine. We did talk earlier in the day yesterday though so that's fine.
I sent her a text message last night and she read it but never wrote back. But I know she's busy with caring for her family / 2 kids / balancing work / life, so thats fine. We did talk earlier in the day yesterday though so that's fine.2 people like this
@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
24 Jan 17
@masood72 What does that saying mean? :)
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
24 Jan 17
@masood72 I see like what comes around goes around??
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@fishtiger58 (29823)
• Momence, Illinois
24 Jan 17
Well you can marry whom you want, if he wants to act that way I would ignore him as well.
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
24 Jan 17
Totally!
He clearly is fine since he's posting statuses but can't respond to a simply hi, that's his lost! I'm over it
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@fishtiger58 (29823)
• Momence, Illinois
25 Jan 17
@infatuatedbby Don't need friends like that
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
24 Jan 17
But you have been in a relationship (a committed one at that) for almost a decade. And NOW he thinks he have to ignore you due to his "alleged" crush? I am stumped. 
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
24 Jan 17
I've hung out with him a handful of times with mutual friends. He knows my relationship status but who knows. He talks to my mom sometimes and my mom told me she called him to say hi. Next day I decided to say hello and was ignored. I'm sure my mom told him the good news.
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
24 Jan 17
@Daljinder There goes a friend! Which is why I don't have a lot of friends in general 
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
24 Jan 17
@infatuatedbby Way to be jealous of a friend's happiness.
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@Happy2BeMe (99390)
• Canada
24 Jan 17
That could very well be it. If he has a crush on you he may have decided to step back because you are engaged now.
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
24 Jan 17
He's been knowing but I guess reality is getting closer. All I wanted to do was drop by and say hi, how are things going! Then bye! Friendships aren't easy which is why I don't have many
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
24 Jan 17
@Happy2BeMe He could have easily said I'm busy right now, talk later - anything but all well.
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@Happy2BeMe (99390)
• Canada
24 Jan 17
@infatuatedbby Yes I do agree. Oh well it is his loss if he chooses to ignore you.
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
24 Jan 17
Yeah have you ever talked to someone who seen your message but ignored you? em]whistle[/em]
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
26 Jan 17
@diosabella Lol maybe! I have no clue, but all well I'll let it be for now. :)
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@diosabella (4789)
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26 Jan 17
@infatuatedbby Yup! If they do that to me I'm not going send them any message at all or call. They have to call me to get a response. But if the case is a broken heart suitor I totally understand. I mean he's probably moving on.. And ignoring is the way he's coping. He must have like you very much . 
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@shaggin (71676)
• United States
25 Jan 17
That is pretty immature if he is ignoring you because he is upset that you are engaged. Even if he has a crush on you he should be happy for you that you are happy! I hate being ignored and it is very obvious on facebook when our messages were viewed and not responded to.
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
28 Jan 17
I have no idea what would be the reason of him to ignore me. I talked to him the week before and it was fine. Just briefly, and my mom told me she called him to catch up saying hi, and he was fine. Then when I said hi (and if he responded, I'd wish him a Happy Chinese New Year) but no response.
All well.
And my biggest peeve is if people clearly see the message and ignore! .
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@celticeagle (159650)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Jan 17
Do you really think so. I have gotten messages on FB before and missed them for days. So I know it does happen. I am looking down at the screen and forget to look up and see if I have a notification or anything.
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@celticeagle (159650)
• Boise, Idaho
29 Jan 17
@infatuatedbby .....I've had messages up there but just never looked that way, They were there for weeks. I got over to FB mostly to play games so never even see the message portion of the page. It can happen.
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
29 Jan 17
@celticeagle Yeah it can happen but with this guy - I'm sure he didnt miss it :)
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
28 Jan 17
He saw it. I'm sure of!
Its been over a week.
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@much2say (53942)
• Los Angeles, California
8 Feb 17
Awww .. . well if he had a crush on you . . . then maybe he is bummed. He could have still said hi, but maybe he just couldn't get himself to do it. Aww
Yah, I know . . . you see that time stamp and you just know they read it. What's also frustrating is when you don't see a time stamp so you know they didn't even open it! I have a couple messages like that. I took the time to write and these people didn't even read the message (I guess).
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
8 Feb 17
@much2say
Yeah but we're still Instagram friends though he doesn't like anything when I post stuff but I am sure he sees it! lol
As for the link, I dont know either. Was curious of that too..
Was curious of that too..1 person likes this
@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
8 Feb 17
Looks like I may be blocked on Facebook. I still see him on messenger though.
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
24 Jan 17
I wouldn't mind a response of , can't talk right now or I'm busy anything but going on day 3, eh! That's alright , but he's been like this before. Sorry I can't do anything further but all I wanted to say hi and a brief how are you doing? Hope all is well and wish him a happy new year ahead and prosperity, etc but I guess not since my initial Hi was not acknowledged but seen!
I didn't bother writing anything after seeing he read the message of "hi" though.
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
25 Jan 17
@LadyDuck Yes, I won't write anything more. I left it as that.
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@LadyDuck (459742)
• Switzerland
25 Jan 17
@infatuatedbby Do not write anything more, he has been rude with you, he does not deserve your attention.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45496)
• United States
24 Jan 17
There could be a zillion reasons he didn't respond.
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
24 Jan 17
Yes! But this is nothing like him - going on day 3!
He just spoke to my Mom the day before lol I said hi. She probably blurted the good news which I've told him but I don't know. Alll well I only wanted to say hi anyway!
I only wanted to say hi anyway!1 person likes this
@AbbyGreenhill (45496)
• United States
24 Jan 17
@infatuatedbby Maybe it's best to just move on and let him say hi the next time.
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
24 Jan 17
@AbbyGreenhill Oh yes - I'm fine! I usually just say hi once a month or so anyway. I haven't hung out with him and friends in a year or so!
I don't keep friends for very long because I never want to go hang out! 
On my girlfriends here and there! But for guys, no thanks! I'm perfectly content with my boyfriend lol!
I usually just say hi once a month or so anyway. I haven't hung out with him and friends in a year or so!
I don't keep friends for very long because I never want to go hang out! On my girlfriends here and there! But for guys, no thanks! I'm perfectly content with my boyfriend lol!
@Marilynda1225 (80038)
• United States
24 Jan 17
Maybe being engaged has something to do with it? If he had a crush I can see him removing himself but not to respond at all is a bit rude
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
24 Jan 17
Yeah I think that may be the case!
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@moffittjc (118642)
• Gainesville, Florida
25 Jan 17
Well, I have a crush on you too, yet I haven't stopped talking to you on Facebook!
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
29 Jan 17
@moffittjc Hahah but..... I don't use FB often!
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@moffittjc (118642)
• Gainesville, Florida
28 Jan 17
@infatuatedbby Haha, I was hinting at the fact that we're not friends on FB yet!
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
30 Jan 17
Haha poor guy. May be he is jelouse... Dont mind... Thats his problem, not yours... Chill
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
30 Jan 17
@amandajay 
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@katsmeow1213 (28717)
• United States
24 Jan 17
I tend to think there's always an explanation, but in this case I can't really think of one
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@katsmeow1213 (28717)
• United States
28 Jan 17
@infatuatedbby Weird.. oh well, you don't need that kind of negativity in your new life!
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
29 Jan 17
@katsmeow1213 You are right! And today is Chinese New Year , so no need for negativity :)
@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
28 Jan 17
Me neither! Spoke to him the week before. Mom talked to him , next day I went to say hi (and no response)! so must be my mom spilled the news. Not like its a surprise since I have been with my boyfriend for a long time over 9 years!
@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
26 Jan 17
@skysnap No need to get used to it!! You wont be ignored here =)
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
6 Mar 17
Well, facebook doesn't always let you know if you've got a message. Atleast it used to not. I might also be thinking about people who aren't on your friends list?
Either way, I don't see him ignoring you just because you are engaged. Even if he did have a crush on you.
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
7 Mar 17
I'm not too sure! But it looks like I'm blocked though! I can't see him! But he's there, no idea
I only add people I know on FB with the exception of like 2 people. They were mods at a different website now long gone that I've gotten to know overtime.
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
8 Mar 17
@ScribbledAdNauseum Yep! I have 2 people they're mods from an old site :P
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
8 Mar 17
@infatuatedbby Oh well. Some people deal with things in the strangest ways.
I think the first person I ever "added" that wasn't someone I personally knew? Was JJ.
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@Madshadi (8841)
• Brussels, Belgium
24 Jan 17
One of my colleague friends recently started to send very short responses. I took from that he is upset about something. But I can't read minds. When people are upset with their friends they should say that straight in their faces. That is what I would do
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
24 Jan 17
Yeah, i would say straight out what was bothering me too. I don't have time to guess.
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
25 Jan 17
@Madshadi College friends or co-workers?
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@Madshadi (8841)
• Brussels, Belgium
25 Jan 17
@infatuatedbby sorry that was meant to read "college friends".
@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
25 Jan 17
Just found out his account is blocked or hidden. I may have been blocked. I'm not entirely too sure.
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
25 Jan 17
@shaynas Oh yes! But all well. I won't let it bother me, not my lost :)
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
26 Feb 17
Oh he blocked me as well. I am not concerned.
Thank you
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
26 Feb 17
@pureme Yeah I dont know I am not too concern.
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@pureme (1526)
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26 Feb 17
@infatuatedbby he blocked you? More than what you think may be the reason.
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