Things that Make Me Miss My Mom 2/17/2017

United States
February 17, 2017 4:49am CST
I wish that someone had really told me how hard and crippling grief is. Its been almost a year since my mom died, but it still feels very fresh sometimes. Like I am going backward into that feeling of disbelief and like oh my god I don't know what I am going to do. How can she be gone ? We were very close, I called and talked to her everyday, she was my rock and the only person that could calm me down when I have a freakout. She was the only person left in my life that made me truly feel Good about myself. She was so smart, and funny. And the kindest person ever, anything good about me, comes from her. And oh gosh I know this is a sad rambling post so I will wrap it up with that this site right here makes me miss my Mom. I used to talk to her about any good discussions I would get into on here back when it was up before. What makes you miss your loved ones sometimes?
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
17 Feb 17
It is going on three years since my mom passed away and I miss her so much. Not a day goes by that she is not on my mind. I still cry when I look at pictures that bring back a flood of memories. Losing a parent is such a great loss. You never get over it. There is always that ache in your heart that never goes away. Sorry for your loss.
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• United States
18 Feb 17
Thank you for sharing. Im really sorry for your loss too.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
18 Feb 17
@spicysweetie21 thank you
• Philippines
17 Feb 17
I think it is better to give her a smile everyday up in the sky to make her happy also everyday knowing that you can smile every day will surely give joy to her heart. And make sure you give God a smile too. We miss everyone who is not around... I just don't know what will happen if I'm already have to say goodbye to my parents. Bit I hope it wasn't soon yet. I wish I could go first.
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• United States
13 Jun 17
Sorry for your loss. I can understand how you must be suffering from her absence. It isn't easy for someone to lose one that they love so much. You ramble on if you need to. Post sweet memories of your Mom. I for one will read them. Big hugs to you.
@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
17 Feb 17
Sorry the site makes you miss your Mom even more, but welcome back! I hope with time it turns out to be a nice place for you to be reminded of the happy memories with your Mom...
@Morleyhunt (21737)
• Canada
17 Feb 17
How old was your mom? It sounds like you had a wonderful relationship with her. Don't be afraid to grieve for her. Remember and smile about the good memories.
• United States
18 Feb 17
She was 60. I try and do the little things that I loved with my Mom with my daughter and it makes me think of the memories. My daughter is only 2 but we do sing together just like me and my mom did :-p
@Morleyhunt (21737)
• Canada
18 Feb 17
@spicysweetie21 that was much too soon. my father in law passed away when my son was just weeks old. his younger sister was born 3 years later and never met her paternal grandfather....he was just 58.
@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
17 Feb 17
That is saddest feeling every people can ever experience. I hope you can move on soon. It's hard but sometimes we need to accept those events of our life.