A dreary day ended in hearing my father was in an ATV accident

@shaggin (71666)
United States
February 25, 2017 7:05pm CST
Today it stormed a lot! Thunder and lightning, heavy rain and hail. Every time it stopped a free minutes later it seemed another storm was back. It seemed to just want to circle around out area and linger. The edges of the roads were flooding. This lasted most of the day. I went to my boyfriend's house for about 3 hours. We started watching a movie on Netflix with Will Farrell in it called "Everything Must Go" and then the darn power went out. After a few minutes it came back on but we could not think of the title of the movie. We saw a Netflix original series with Drew Barrymore in it so we decided since I love her to just watch that. It was the first episode and I do not want to watch anymore it was so lame. My boyfriend suddenly remembered the name of the Will Ferrell movie so we went back to watching that. Unfortunately the darn power went out again so after about 10 minutes we decided to call it quits. I went home and he went to the bar to eat. When I got home I got texts from my mother and father telling me that my dad had gotten into an accident on his four wheeler. He fell down 100 ft drop on a really steep cliff when he hit a patch of ice. The guy on the back jumped off but my father slid off and fell backwards. The four wheeler landed on top of him. He pushed it off of him and climbed the steep bank. On either side of the cliff were big rocks so he was very lucky he was not killed. He has a big bump on his forehead and his eyes are almost swelled shut. He and the guys then had to push the four wheeler up this huge cliff. He is thankful to be alive and feeling very lucky. He did not feel he needs to go to the hospital so I am praying he will be okay.
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• United States
26 Feb 17
I hope he changes his mind and gets himself checked out. With having a head injury he really should. Praying he will be okay.
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• United States
26 Feb 17
@shaggin I hope that someone is watching him closely. Men are so stubborn. Considering that he has had strokes, he needs to get checked out. Better safe than sorry.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
26 Feb 17
He has had a few strokes and so this makes me even more nervous with him getting a head injury.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
26 Feb 17
@ElusiveButterfly I have the same stubborn streak he has.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
26 Feb 17
Oh how scary. He should have went to the hospital just to get checked out. It could have been so much worse. I will say a prayer for him.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
26 Feb 17
Thank you so much. He should have worn a helmet and should have went to the hospital but he is stubborn like me and has to learn the hard way. I am just glad it wasn't worse as it could have been!
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
28 Feb 17
@Happy2BeMe My dad was glad the guy on the back jumped off or he likely would have been killed. My dad came to town today and went to the doctor. He had xrays done or his head and his chest. He looks worse in person then I expected from the photos.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
26 Feb 17
@shaggin yes it is good that things weren't as bad as they could have been.
@GardenGerty (157563)
• United States
26 Feb 17
Those things are dangerous!! I am sorry about your dreary day, too.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
26 Feb 17
My cousin was married to a guy who broke his back on one. He was fine after it healed thankfully. My boyfriend also broke his back on one when he was 12. He has a bone disease called brittle bones so his break easier. He didn't know it was broke until a few days later when he could barely move he was in so much pain. He hadn't told his parents about it because he didn't want to get in trouble. He is lucky he was not paralyzed.
@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
26 Feb 17
So sorry to hear about your father being involved in an accident. I pray for his speedy recovery.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
26 Feb 17
Thank you very much! He looks even worse today but I think that is to be expected as the bruising sets in.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
27 Feb 17
@allen0187 nope he does not intend to go get examined :-(
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
27 Feb 17
@shaggin hopefully, he got himself checked up by a physician already.
@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
26 Feb 17
I hope he will be OK. That must have been very scary for him and his friend. I hope he won't regret not getting medical treatment.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
26 Feb 17
I hope he will be okay I am so nervous as he is so far away. He looks even worse today from the photo I saw that my mother sent me.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
26 Feb 17
@bagarad My mother is 1000 miles away in Florida. My dad is 4 hours away. I offered to drive up and pick him up because his eyes are to swollen to drive but I don't think he wants me to.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
26 Feb 17
@shaggin How far away are they from you?
@1creekgirl (40534)
• United States
26 Feb 17
Wow, what a close call for your dad! He could really have a concussion so please keep a check on him.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
26 Feb 17
He is 4 hours away so it makes me nervous he is not in town where I can check on him easily.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
26 Feb 17
@1creekgirl He has a neighbor who is checking in on him. My mother is 1000 miles away so she is of no use. He plans to drive to town tomorrow my sister said but that worries me too him driving with his face swollen.
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@1creekgirl (40534)
• United States
26 Feb 17
@shaggin Is there anyone with him tonight? I'm really concerned about concussions since I had one last summer. They are more dangerous than a lot of people realize. I'm not trying to scare you.
@kevin1877uk (36988)
28 Feb 17
Wow what a day you had, sorry to hear about your father.
@shaggin (71666)
• United States
28 Feb 17
My day was okay I was just very worried about my dad after I heard what happened. He came up yesterday to town and finally went to the doctor. The doctor wasn't to worried but he did do an x-ray of his chest and head. I need to text him to see what the results were as my dad said they would be back by today. Thank you for commenting on this as it reminded me to text him. I'm so forgetful.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
28 Feb 17
@kevin1877uk Which movie?
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
28 Feb 17
@shaggin Glad that he is doing ok, yes text him, glad I reminded you. Did you ever get to finish off watching that movie?
@besweet (9862)
• Ireland
27 Feb 17
I think he should go to the hospital for a check up. The head bumps should always be checked by a doctor. I hope he is resting and healing from this terrible accident.
@shaggin (71666)
• United States
27 Feb 17
He should have went when it first happened but he will be coming to town today and going to his family doctor.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
27 Feb 17
@besweet yes you are right I am just glad he is going to get checked out.
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@besweet (9862)
• Ireland
27 Feb 17
@shaggin It would be ideal to go straight after the accident, but better late than never. I hope it all goes well.
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@RasmaSandra (73473)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Feb 17
I just got the shivers reading about this accident. Very definitely God was your father's co-pilot and also gave him the strength to get up and get moving. May blessing to your dad and hope he feels much better soon.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
26 Feb 17
@RasmaSandra I wish he would but I don't think he will
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@RasmaSandra (73473)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Feb 17
@shaggin tell him to have a full check-up anyway.
@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
27 Feb 17
Oh no! @shaggin , that is horrific! I hope your Dad will be okay. I hope if he doesn't feel better after a few days that he will consider going to the hospital.
@shaggin (71666)
• United States
27 Feb 17
I wish he had gone to the hospital when it happened as I would not have to be worrying still if I knew for sure he is okay. He is in town now and going to his family doctor.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
28 Feb 17
@bluesa I don't know why he didn't go to the emergency room up where he was (he lives between two houses 4 hours apart) but he could not drive here until today as his eyes were all swollen. He went to his doctor here who did not seem to worried as my dad wasn't vomiting or having headaches or anything. He got xrays done on his head and chest and will get the results tomorrow.
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
27 Feb 17
@shaggin , it took him this long to get to his doctor? That is very worrying, considering how bad the accident was. I hope he is okay though and that he will listen to the advice his doctor gives him.
@DianneN (246906)
• United States
26 Feb 17
So glad your father wasn't more seriously hurt. What a dreary day you had is right! Hope today is much better.
@shaggin (71666)
• United States
26 Feb 17
I texted him today to see how he is. He sent me a text saying okay but he is at church. Best place to be I am sure when people see how bad he looks they will say a prayer for him. My mom sent me a text of a photo of what he looks like today and it is terrible. He looks scary how swollen and purple his eye lids are. I feel like crying looking at it. My mom said he is supposed to come to town today but I don't know if he should drive like that.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
26 Feb 17
@DianneN thank you so much!
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@DianneN (246906)
• United States
26 Feb 17
@shaggin He is at the best place he could be. He really should take it easy and apply an ice pack. He must be so terribly banged up! I will keep him in my thoughts and prayers.
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@JudyEv (325854)
• Rockingham, Australia
26 Feb 17
Goodness, that sounds very nasty. I hope he hasn't got concussion or something.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
26 Feb 17
My dad's face swollen from the injury
He isn't vomiting or anything but he is very swollen as you can see in the photo I attached that he sent my mother this morning. I am worried sick. I offered to pick him up if he was the to come here for a week but I don't think he is going to.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
27 Feb 17
@JudyEv yes I can't even imagine how bad it hurts. I am trying to talk him into staying there and resting and going to the doctor but he wants to drive here then go to his usual doctor.
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@JudyEv (325854)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Feb 17
@shaggin Gosh, your poor Dad! That looks awful!
• United States
27 Feb 17
He knows best how he feels, but often things show up later. Praying for him is a good idea.
@shaggin (71666)
• United States
27 Feb 17
@Jeanniemaries that's true
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
27 Feb 17
Yes he says he is okay but I am worried. He is driving up to town today and will go to his usual doctor to be checked out although I wish he had gone when this happened to the hospital so I wouldn't have to be worried this whole time.
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• United States
27 Feb 17
@shaggin Well his doctor will sort it all out. Good for him to be checked. It really sounded like a bad accident but the fact that he could do all he did afterwords means he is probably OK.
@Kandae11 (53679)
26 Feb 17
Your father is a very strong man. To fall down a steep cliff and be able to climb up the bank. Maybe he should still go and get checked out at the hospital -- just in case.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
26 Feb 17
I wish he would but he is stubborn like me and says if he gets worse he will go.
@Tina30219 (81538)
• Onaway, Michigan
28 Feb 17
Wow your dad is so lucky. Sorry your date with your boyfriend got ruined because the power kept going out. Maybe next time will be better.
@shaggin (71666)
• United States
28 Feb 17
He is very lucky he is alive and not hurt worse. It was okay about the power going out at my boyfriends as it was just nice to spend time with him no matter what. We do not get much time alone without kids. My dad came to town yesterday and finally went to the doctor. The doctor wasn't to worried about him as he wasn't vomiting or having headaches or anything. He had an x-ray done on his head and chest.
@Tina30219 (81538)
• Onaway, Michigan
28 Feb 17
@shaggin Glad he went and was checked out he must have been hurting for him to have went in I know some men can be very stubborn when it comes to going to doctor for anything. You are so right any time youu get with your boyfriend without kids is fun..
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@Hate2Iron (15730)
• Canada
27 Feb 17
That sounds like quite the fall... I hope that he changes his mind about getting checked out!!
@shaggin (71666)
• United States
27 Feb 17
I don't know he didn't go to the hospital when it happened. Today he is coming to town and going to his usual doctor.
@just4him (306386)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Feb 17
He should have gone to the hospital, just to make sure everything is okay. He is lucky to be alive.
@shaggin (71666)
• United States
27 Feb 17
Yes he should have gone to the hospital. He is coming to town today and is going to his usual doctor. I think he should have went in for testing when this all happened though in case there is internal bleeding or anything especially since he has had a few strokes in the past.
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@just4him (306386)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Feb 17
@shaggin I hope the doctor will clear him from any trouble issuing from the accident. I'm glad he's going to see him.
@shaggin (71666)
• United States
28 Feb 17
@just4him Yes I am relieved he finally went to see the doctor today. The doctor was not to worried but he did an xray of his head and his chest.
@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
28 Feb 17
Ouch! Hope your father is okay now!
@shaggin (71666)
• United States
28 Feb 17
His chest is sore where the handlebar hit it. His face looks awful but he said it doesn't hurt. It upsets me to see him like this I hate seeing people I love hurt. I am just so thankfully he wasn't hurt worse. He went to the doctor yesterday and had x-rays done on his chest and head but the doctor isn't very concerned.
@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
26 Feb 17
Oh dear - what a misadventure. I hope your dad will be alright
@shaggin (71666)
• United States
26 Feb 17
I hope so to. He said he is okay but he looks absolutely awful today and it makes me really worried after the strokes and things he has had.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
28 Feb 17
@FayeHazel He waited until he came to town today and then went to see the doctor here. The doctor wasn't very worried but did have him get an xray of his chest and his head.
@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
26 Feb 17
@shaggin Hm, he sounds like my dad, stubborn! I will hope that he goes in if he thinks that it is serious enough
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• Prairieville, Louisiana
28 Feb 17
I love Netflix and I knew atv and gocarts are dangerous.I rode a neighbors youth atv and had a blast.I used to have a thunder kart go cart.
@shaggin (71666)
• United States
28 Feb 17
My father has lots of toys. He is careful with the grandkids on them or when my mother is around but my mother was not around this time.... He took a friend to see a frozen waterfall and they slipped on ice and fell over a huge cliff. He is so lucky to be alive. It seems he may have a bruised rib and obvious bruises on his face but others is good.