Why People Get So Bitter After the Breakup?

@Shavkat (62691)
Philippines
March 15, 2017 8:54am CST
When a person is in a relationship, everything is fine. It seems the world is so colorful. They don't mind others and keep safe in their own world. When the relationship turned sour, everything is all in bitter statements. The worst part is to curse each other. Breaking up with someone is really difficult. At the last minute, they still say ill words against each other. It was like they never had good moments to each other from the past.
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@snowy22315 (47262)
• United States
15 Mar 17
When people are hurt they tend to get upset.
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@Shavkat (62691)
• Philippines
16 Mar 17
It is normal to be upset. Sometimes they need to compose themselves.
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@Happy2BeMe (74743)
• Canada
15 Mar 17
Breakups bring out the worst in people.
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@Shavkat (62691)
• Philippines
16 Mar 17
It seems they had been exorcist. The evil side unleashed.
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@Happy2BeMe (74743)
• Canada
16 Mar 17
@Shavkat yes it sure does.
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@Corbin5 (106444)
• United States
15 Mar 17
Yes, handling a breakup with culture and dignity would work out much better.
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@Shavkat (62691)
• Philippines
16 Mar 17
It is better to be civil than acting like a mad person.
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• United States
15 Mar 17
It could be bitter if they didn't end on mutual terms?
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@Shavkat (62691)
• Philippines
16 Mar 17
If the relationship ended in a terrible way. But I do think they can still be in good terms once talk to each other heart-to-heart talk.
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• United States
16 Mar 17
@Shavkat It is hard if not both are on the same mutual terms. For the most part, all mine ended up all well and I say hi here & there to the person. But for instances, if one cheated - you can never have a heart to heart talk.
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@Shavkat (62691)
• Philippines
16 Mar 17
@infatuatedbby I know what you are pointing out, my friend. They can talk about it after a long of the period of time. It takes time for them to realize that the relationship ended. It depends on how each of them follows the stage of moving on. It would not be instantly done.
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@jstory07 (67145)
• Roseburg, Oregon
15 Mar 17
I hate to be around people that are breaking up. They act mean and say really mean things to each other.
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@Shavkat (62691)
• Philippines
16 Mar 17
I agree. It makes my world upside dow hearing their ill words. It attracts negativity.
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@mythociate (15371)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
15 Mar 17
When you're in the relationship, you're dreaming of "living happily ever after" and "working on your relationship like that faithful old car in the garage." When you break up, it's like you (or they, or both of you) totally dismantled that car, packed up all the parts & sent them to the lava-pit to be buried forever ... and all that time you spent 'building' the machine feels "wasted"
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@Shavkat (62691)
• Philippines
16 Mar 17
In every relationship, they will always be in that situation. They will always utter what a waste of time.
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@mythociate (15371)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
20 Mar 17
@Shavkat But you know it's only "wasted time" if it stops you from being here now!
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@Shavkat (62691)
• Philippines
21 Mar 17
@mythociate I agree on that.
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@BelleStarr (38288)
• United States
16 Mar 17
When some one's heart is broken it is normal not to take it very well.
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@sugartoes (40759)
• Greencastle, Indiana
16 Mar 17
yeah I have a live in that's going through the same thing & it's a shame but after all the harsh words & B S that's been past back & forth their talking about getting back together now that they have talked about what has been said & done between them I just HOPE it works out.
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@Shavkat (62691)
• Philippines
17 Mar 17
I do think that it will turn into nasty with arguments. Hopefully, it will patch up the shortcomings and rebuild the relationship.
@epiffanie (10466)
• Australia
16 Mar 17
I went through hell for 12 years after breaking up .. some people just don't know the meaning of the word NO ..
@rog0322 (2834)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
16 Mar 17
It is the breakdown in communication that starts the war. When the words start to clash, it is too late to take back the things that has been given. It is always painful to lose one's identity to a person that has become a total stranger operating on a different and alien frequency.
16 Mar 17
Probably because there is a lot of good things involved.