She hates me.
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
March 21, 2017 11:02pm CST
Does anyone hate you?
My Brother who is next to me will have his wedding this coming Saturday. They call this wedding as 'Mansebado' - where two or more couples are having the same wedding as they.
They invited a few people and have their little house, fix for the said event, which I am glad.
They bought my mom a dress for the wedding, and for their kids. But the sad part is, they never invited me and my Father. Clueless of the reason. I ask mom about that.
Mom is speechless. She can't say anything. So I told her, well, I will not go if that's what she want.
Since she (the bride to be) was the one who prepared all the things needed for the wedding. While my Brother is just sitting there in the corner and drunk the whole day.
Photo is from google.com
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
22 Mar 17
Has your brother and the bride-to-be been living for a quite a long time now? I'm asking because, as far as I know, "Mansebado" wedding is for people in this type of situation. Sorry to hear that you're uninvited. Perhaps you're a "contrabida" to them hehehe!
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
22 Mar 17
@JustBhem So that's the meaning of the "mansebado" wedding; not that it's because it's a mass wedding :)
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Mar 17
@sunrisefan
I see, because that's what I always see whenever there is a wedding like that. Thanks for the meaning.
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
23 Mar 17
This is very unusual. Your brother has a whole life to lead and surely his family will play a role too.
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
23 Mar 17
@JustBhem That is no way to start a new life.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Mar 17
@allknowing
I posted a discussion about them. They sometimes leave their kids while they are sleeping and they went outside and go for a date. It is not good for kids leaving them when they are sleeping. Then, they always leave their kids with us while they are having fun. Irresponsible parenting. That is why I don't like the wife. Because the wife always want to have fun adter work.!
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@infatuatedbby (95001)
• United States
22 Mar 17
That's very strange they did not invite you or is it automatic that you are invited. I'd think so considering you're family.
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@infatuatedbby (95001)
• United States
22 Mar 17
@JustBhem oh that may be why but regardless you should be invited. Did you express your concern to your brother?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Mar 17
@infatuatedbby
I do, but I really don't like the wife.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
23 Mar 17
could this mean you are not invited because the bride was the one who paid for everything? i wonder why you and your father were not invited. there might be a deeper reason behind that action
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
23 Mar 17
@JustBhem so, even if they won't invite your father to the wedding, still your father will cook for them? where is acknowledgement to them?
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@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
23 Mar 17
@ridingbet the wife to be want to save the money for having a cook. Does your father agree to the cooking?
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
22 Mar 17
I am so sorry that this is happening to you. It is not right. That is your brother and he should be able to invite you to his wedding.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
22 Mar 17
@JustBhem Either way it isn't right and should not be happening!
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
31 Oct 17
if trye policefi dot thosetwo go offandleave eir children aloe there could beso mer really bad nconsequences sham on them thats so wrong
@katsmeow1213 (28717)
• United States
22 Mar 17
Maybe you should talk to her first and find out. It's possible it was an oversight or your invitation is lost in the mail.
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@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
23 Mar 17
I have not heard about Mansebado wedding but thanks to the comment below, I know now. That is not nice not to be invited to your brothers wedding. Well, your sister in law has somehow a grudge on you. So, she will not be invited to your wedding too.
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