My first mother-in-law passed away

@velvet53 (14965)
Palisade, Colorado
September 13, 2017 8:41pm CST
The angels took her from us a t 11 pm Central time on September 11th. I will miss her dearly. We always remained friends from the time I divorced her son until she said good-bye to everyone. It breaks my heart that my son hasn't been able to see her for a long time. Every time he planned a trip back to see her something would come up. Rest in peace, Mom. We all love you.
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• Lakewood, Colorado
14 Sep
Oh dear such sad news Sandy. I am so sorry to hear this and sorry for your loss. I know what you mean some Mom in laws are so precious. RIP to the dear lady.
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
14 Sep
Thanks Oshy. She was so special to me. This is tough on me.
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• Lakewood, Colorado
14 Sep
@velvet53 Welcome friend..
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
15 Sep
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@jstory07 (57522)
• Roseburg, Oregon
14 Sep
I am really sorry for your loss. I know you will miss her.
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
14 Sep
Thanks, Judy. We always were close even after the divorce.
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@SHOHANA (6447)
• Bangladesh
14 Sep
Rest in peace, just pray for her!
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
14 Sep
That is all that I can do.
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@Yadah04 (2790)
• Philippines
14 Sep
My condolences.
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
14 Sep
Thank you, Yadah.
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@Courtlynn (37513)
• United States
14 Sep
Sorry for your loss, and sorry your son wasn't able to go see her.
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
14 Sep
Thanks Courtney. I knew that she didn't have long to live so I w am able to accept it better than my son. He has been trying so hard to go back and see her.
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@Courtlynn (37513)
• United States
14 Sep
@velvet53 thats so sad.
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
14 Sep
@Courtlynn Thanks Courtney. She s better off now.
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@poehere (15721)
• French Polynesia
14 Sep
This is so sad Sandy and I am so sorry to hear she passed away. I know you will miss her dearly.
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
14 Sep
Thanks, Ann. I will miss her. We got along so well. At least I still have one sister in law left and we are very close too.
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@poehere (15721)
• French Polynesia
14 Sep
@velvet53 That is good to hear.
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@Corbin5 (70301)
• United States
14 Sep
So good to hear that you and she maintained your friendship. My condolences to you and all who loved her.
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
15 Sep
Thank you, Deborah. She is better off now.
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@andriaperry (25557)
• Anniston, Alabama
14 Sep
Sorry for your loss, its was nice that you 2 got along.
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
14 Sep
Thanks, Angie. We didn't let the divorce come between us. She knew what her son was like.
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@fishtiger58 (28442)
• Momence, Illinois
14 Sep
I am so very sorry for your loss
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
15 Sep
Thank you, my dear friend. How are things in your world?
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@fishtiger58 (28442)
• Momence, Illinois
15 Sep
@velvet53 things are great, hubby is almost done with the rebuild of the front porch, and it's a beautiful day. How are you this fine day.
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
15 Sep
@fishtiger58 Things are coming along good for you then, right? It has been another day of plans being changed and that is good. It is all happening the way it is suppose to.
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@sishy7 (24810)
• Australia
14 Sep
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Rest in peace to her.
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
15 Sep
Thanks my friend. I hope that she found my husband and they are having a good time up there.
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@sishy7 (24810)
• Australia
15 Sep
@velvet53 Yes, they are together now... I didn't know he has passed away as well... Sorry to hear that - how long ago did she lose her son?
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
15 Sep
@sishy7 He was my second husband and not her son but they got a long super. She even dated his best friend. Her son is still alive but isn't doing well at all. I do wish Rod (her son) the best as I know that he has some severe medical issues.
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@sallypup (18615)
• Moses Lake, Washington
14 Sep
I'm sorry to hear this.
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
15 Sep
Thanks, Lenore. She is much better off where she is now.
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@sallypup (18615)
• Moses Lake, Washington
15 Sep
@velvet53 She was ill? That's too bad.
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
15 Sep
@sallypup From what I have been told she wasn't. I guess in the end she was arguing with the angels. I got this from my niece.
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@LadyDuck (108967)
• Switzerland
14 Sep
I am very sorry. My mother-in-law passed away 11 years ago, I still miss her a lot.
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
15 Sep
Thanks, Anna. Most mother-in-laws are really great people. My other mother-in-law passed away 13 years ago. I miss her too.
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@LadyDuck (108967)
• Switzerland
15 Sep
@velvet53 I agree, it's wrong to have created a stereotype figure of the mother-in-law, because most of the time they are really great people.
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
15 Sep
@LadyDuck Very true. She knew what her son was like as he treated his sisters the same way he treated me. Oh well, it is over with and now mom is in peace.
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@1hopefulman (17518)
• Canada
14 Sep
My condolences! I am also friends with my first mother-in-law. I was also friends with my 2nd mother-in-law but she passed away a few years ago. She had bad health for many years.
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
14 Sep
Thank you, Felix. I am the type and I see that you are too, that does not let a divorce come between other members of the family. It is important to remain friends with those we can as they were part of our lives.
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@1hopefulman (17518)
• Canada
14 Sep
@velvet53 You are right! Enemies do nothing to contribute to my life.
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
14 Sep
@1hopefulman To me enemies can take a swift hike. Oops, did that come out of my mouth?
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@rebelann (28103)
• El Paso, Texas
14 Sep
My condolences to you and your son for your loss.
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
14 Sep
Thank you so much. It hurts but at least she has peace now.
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@rebelann (28103)
• El Paso, Texas
14 Sep
She is a guardian angel now @velvet53
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
14 Sep
@rebelann Yes she is. Now she is with my last husband and my mom and she knew them very well.
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@vsai2008 (6756)
• India
15 Sep
I hope she rests in peace, I am so sorry for your loss
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
15 Sep
Thank you, SAI. She is in good hands now.
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@thelme55 (10086)
• Germany
14 Sep
Sorry for your loss. My heartfelt condolence. May she rest in peace.
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
15 Sep
Thank you so much, Thelma.
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@LeaPea2417 (12677)
• Toccoa, Georgia
14 Sep
I am so sorry to read this. May she RIP.
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
15 Sep
Thank you, Anne. She will be missed by many.
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@fly802 (677)
14 Sep
May God keep her soul in peace.
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
15 Sep
Thank you my dear. I like your saying. It touches in the right way.
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• India
14 Sep
Sorry to hear about your loss. May her soul rest in peace . Glad to hear that your mother in law was like a friend for you. You could share your emotions with her as she was a friendly person. Its more painful when such people leave the world and go. Although you divorced her son she stood for you that shows she was a very good woman who stood for daughter in law, as mostly mothers stand with their sons if some problem arises. These days we are living in a very busy world. We have no time for our near and dear ones although we are not doing it deliberately ,but we are forced to give more priority to our jobs for a better future.
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
15 Sep
I do agree with you about not having time for those that mean so much to us. I was lucky to have such a great relationship with her. Her daughter and I are still very close too. We call each other sis.
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@spaceseed (2932)
• India
14 Sep
May the departed soul Rest in peace
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@velvet53 (14965)
• Palisade, Colorado
15 Sep
Thank you so much.
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