Wait, you are how old?!

@maezee (41997)
United States
October 15, 2017 7:50pm CST
Developed a bit of a mild work crush on this fellow who up until yesterday I had no idea of how old he was. Couldnr even ball park it. I figured he was much older than I just based on his appearance and more serious/mature attitude. I was working with him last night and somehow it came up he was 31. Unless he was joking, but I think not. I pegged him to he around 40ish but had no idea. When he said that all I could muster for a response was "oh..." (I certainly couldnt say wow, you lok so much older!) I am still surprised by this. But its a good thing - Inam only 4 years younger in case he ever catches on to my flirting. ;-) Everyone ages so differently. Have you ever been totally surprised by someones age like this?
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
16 Oct 17
My daughter in law is 44 and looks 15 and passes for the sister of her daughters all the time. Now she is a grandmother and it is even more startling.
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@maezee (41997)
• United States
16 Oct 17
Wow! Wild! Whats her secret?
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@maezee (41997)
• United States
17 Oct 17
@BelleStarr ahh that is awesome. You mustve given her some good genes!!
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
16 Oct 17
@maezee She is tiny and just has a very young looking face, she wears little or no makeup.
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@yanzalong (18984)
• Indonesia
16 Oct 17
I once asked a man, whom I thought to be about 55 but in fact he would just turn to be in his late thirty. He looked much older than he looked.
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@yanzalong (18984)
• Indonesia
16 Oct 17
@maezee He was a chain smoker.
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@maezee (41997)
• United States
17 Oct 17
@yanzalong yes. I can see that being something that makes you appear older over time.
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@maezee (41997)
• United States
16 Oct 17
Oh wow. That is too bad for him!
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• United States
16 Oct 17
My brother was surprised that my husband was 20 years younger than me. He knew he was younger, but not by that much. He calls my husband an old soul. He thought he was in his 40's but was really only 33 when we met.
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@maezee (41997)
• United States
16 Oct 17
Wow. Maybe thats the same with this guy too.
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• United States
16 Oct 17
@maezee age is just a number.
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@yanzalong (18984)
• Indonesia
16 Oct 17
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@jstory07 (134464)
• Roseburg, Oregon
16 Oct 17
They say when you age fast it is because you had a hard life.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
16 Oct 17
It happens. Im always being told i look 18 still when im 25 and there's 13 year olds who look 25, without make up. Its crrazy scary
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@yanzalong (18984)
• Indonesia
16 Oct 17
The dress you wear also makes you look younger. Don't you think so?
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@maezee (41997)
• United States
16 Oct 17
I totally agree. Unless they are much older than their style, then its obvious. You are right some 13 year olds look like adults. Quite scary.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
16 Oct 17
@yanzalong clothing can play a part. As does hair i thibk
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@kobesbuddy (74571)
• East Tawas, Michigan
16 Oct 17
I've found that men lie about their age, at times. I'm not sure why, but some of them do
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@maezee (41997)
• United States
16 Oct 17
Lie for younger or older? I dont get why anyone needs to lie! How sad.
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@kobesbuddy (74571)
• East Tawas, Michigan
16 Oct 17
@maezee A man we know claims to be 39 and we know, Steve is at least 45 years old. He doesn't want to admit, he's getting older! LOL
@maezee (41997)
• United States
17 Oct 17
@kobesbuddy ahh, steve, get over it! Is a fact of life. Lol
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
16 Oct 17
yes. i once fell for a man when i was 39 yrs. he looked at least in his early 30's. when he asked me out i asked him his age. he said 28 yrs. i said you are too young. he said try it just once go out with me. well, i did and soon we were living together but later saw his ID and he was actually 25 yrs. he had lied but it was too late. i spent almost 3 yrs in that relationship.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
17 Oct 17
@maezee yes because by that time i was madly in love with him.
@maezee (41997)
• United States
17 Oct 17
Agh that is no good. Sorry to hear that.
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• Philippines
17 Oct 17
It really depends on the person, hard life can either make you or break you. The maturity is tested when you have tough life.
@just4him (306237)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Oct 17
Yes, I have, though nobody I was flirting with. People think I'm younger than I am, and that always makes me feel good.
@maezee (41997)
• United States
17 Oct 17
Thats always a good thing!
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@just4him (306237)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Oct 17
@Morleyhunt (21737)
• Canada
16 Oct 17
My daughter was a hockey trainer (physiotherapist) for several years. The young men were all under the age of 20....they would hit on her until eventually they discovered that she was 30... They thought she was only about 22.
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@maezee (41997)
• United States
17 Oct 17
Wow nice!
@Shiva49 (26202)
• Singapore
16 Oct 17
Yes, everyone ages differently. I have been surprised when someone I take as older than me is, in fact, younger - siva
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@maezee (41997)
• United States
17 Oct 17
Yes! That is quite shocking as well as the reverse.
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@nangayo (2291)
• Nairobi, Kenya
16 Oct 17
Yes it is interesting. For me every time i introduce my daughters to people they think that i am lying. My daughters are teenagers and when i walk with them they look like my sisters. People have different bodies some grow older than others.
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@maezee (41997)
• United States
17 Oct 17
Wow that is awesome for you
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@nangayo (2291)
• Nairobi, Kenya
17 Oct 17
@maezee Good to have a young body. Eating well and some exercises too for such a body.