Christmas In The 1940s

By Jabo
@jaboUK (64361)
United Kingdom
December 20, 2017 8:58am CST
Three little children at Christmas, our Daddy away at the war, Hitler had bombed the supply ships there weren't many goods in the store. Our Mum was very inventive, when we were asleep in the night from scraps she made horses and teddies ensuring our Christmas delight. She made us lovely rag dollies with plaits that were made out of wool, stitching big smiles on their faces, making sure our days were not dull. Sometimes we got little extras as well as the things that she made, a colouring book or some marbles, with these we contentedly played. Our 'tree' was a branch in a bucket, we'd no fancy baubles or lights, Mum fashioned some fairies from cardboard, with crayons we coloured them bright. Mum talked a lot about Daddy though never once showed us her pain, how worried she was for his safety, perhaps we'd not see him again. These are my memories of Christmas, sweet mother made sure it was fun, we'd lots of love and excitement, as magic around us she spun. Photo is of me and my sisters (me on the left)
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• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Dec 17
This is such a lovely poem and it sounds like your mom was amazing!
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Dec 17
She really was - it must have been so difficult for to have to raise us on her own, not knowing if her husband would ever come home.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
20 Dec 17
@jaboUK Every time there was a knock at the door.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
20 Dec 17
@jaboUK OMG, a telegram? Thank heavens your Dad made it okay.
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@much2say (53944)
• Los Angeles, California
20 Dec 17
What a darling photo ! Oh how Mum made sure Christmas was so special for her girls, but I can only imagine all the concerns she had kept inside.
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@much2say (53944)
• Los Angeles, California
20 Dec 17
@jaboUK I hardly know anyone who sews children's clothing these days - that's quite a skill! Everything these days is all about what we can buy - from gifts to decorations . . . we need to do more of making holidays happen from the heart like folks did back then!!
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Dec 17
Yes, it was only when I was grown up that I realised what my mother must have gone through. Thanks for that sweet comment about the photo - it obviously wasn't taken at Christmas, but it's the only one I have. Mum made all our dresses too.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Dec 17
@much2say Oh yes, we made all our own decorations too. Mum showed us how to make and colour paper chains, then let us get on with. We got such satisfaction out of seeing our own chains hung up.
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@jstory07 (134727)
• Roseburg, Oregon
20 Dec 17
Your Mom did a good job at seeing to it that you and your sisters had a good time.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Dec 17
She did indeed. We were very lucky to have such a wonderful mother.
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@LadyDuck (459635)
• Switzerland
20 Dec 17
What a beautiful photo and even more beautiful memories. I was born a few years after the end of the war. We still had very little, but our Christmases were so warm and happy and funny. Nothing is as it used to be.
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@LadyDuck (459635)
• Switzerland
21 Dec 17
@jaboUK You are so right, children think they are entitled to receive everything they ask and they are not as happy as we were in our young days. I remember the light in the eyes of children during Christmas time in the early 50's. This is something I see no more.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
21 Dec 17
@LadyDuck Yes Christmas had a magical quality in those days.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Dec 17
I'm glad that you experienced similar Christmas memories Anna. Things are so different now, children seem to think that they are entitled to the best of everything.
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@xFiacre (12637)
• Ireland
20 Dec 17
@jabouk the three of you look adorable. I'm so glad that even though times were tough you had an inventive and loving mother to make sure you had great Christmases.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Dec 17
Yes, we were very lucky. The women in those days had to learn how to make the most of limited resources.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
20 Dec 17
@jaboUK My Mom was the same way. She was very inventive.
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@JudyEv (326275)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Dec 17
Another lovely poem. Your mother must have been so worried but it is to her great credit she managed to keep a happy face and a happy home in spite of her fears.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Dec 17
That's it exactly - she kept all her fears from us. It was many years later when I realised what she must have gone through.
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@snowy22315 (170699)
• United States
20 Dec 17
Mom's are the best aren't they? I was a bit of a wild child though. I didn't spend too much time with mine.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Dec 17
Oh that's a bit sad Snowy. My mother was everything to me when I was a child, (and later on too)
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
20 Dec 17
I think we take so many things for granted these days. I was born after the war so I never lived through those times but my mother told me enough that I understand how hard it was. Your mother made sure that you still had a Christmas, a very special woman.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Dec 17
Yes, she really was special to make our home so happy, despite her worries.
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@PainsOnSlate (21854)
• Canada
19 Jan 18
Adorable photo, and I loved reading this, it brought back a lot of memories. I was born just as the war ended, and my dad didn't participate because he made glasses and that kept him home. When we moved to Canada (my husband and I and kids) we knew we were spending Christmas with our parents in our childhood homes but our kids wanted a tree in our house. I found a beauty of a drift wood small tree on the beach (we lived next to Lake Ontario). I decorated the driftwood tree and it was the most unique the kids ever had..It was lovely - no lights and no mess. I know I took a photo I should go look for it.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
19 Jan 18
I'd love to see that photo if you can find it.
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• Canada
19 Jan 18
@jaboUK I will look for it...right now
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• Canada
20 Jan 18
Darn couldn't find it yesterday will keep looking. @jaboUK
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@just4him (307507)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
20 Dec 17
You have some special Christmas memories. Are your sisters still alive and with you? I hope you have a very happy and merry Christmas.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Dec 17
Yes, my sisters are still alive but we live in different parts of the country. We try to get together at least once a year. Happy Christmas to you too
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@just4him (307507)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
21 Dec 17
@jaboUK I'm so glad they are. Thank you.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
20 Dec 17
Wonderful poem and I love the photo. Your mom sound like a wonderful person.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Dec 17
Thank you, and yes she was wonderful
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@josie_ (9763)
• Philippines
21 Dec 17
Some people may look at your childhood situation and think "how sad" but they aren't looking beyond the material comforts and seeing how fortunate you were to have such a loving family, especially your mom. No doubt it was a happy childhood and your mom probably had her hands full with you. (I remember one of your earlier post about your darting in and out of a horse underbelly for fun)
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
21 Dec 17
My goodness Josie, you have a good memory - I think I posted about that on Bubblews. Yes, my mother enveloped us with love and that's all we needed really. She did have her hands full, especially with me as I was a bit of a rebel
@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 17
@josie_ That's exactly what happens to me
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@josie_ (9763)
• Philippines
22 Dec 17
@jaboUK _Whenever I see the underbelly of a horse, that image will forever be imprinted in my mind. I now realize the truth about long and short term memory of older people. I can remember with clarity events of my childhood but how often do I search for my eyeglasses because I can't remember where I place it even if it were a few minutes ago.
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@Kandae11 (53695)
21 Dec 17
Sister on the right looks like your twin. Those are pleasant memories of Christmas during wartime - very nice poem..
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
21 Dec 17
That sister is only 15 months older than me and I actually got bigger than her when I was about 10. She's quite petite. Our older sister is only 18 months older than the middle one, so we are all close in age. Thanks for liking the poem.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
21 Dec 17
@Kandae11 I remember you saying writing about that. I'm lucky in that my sisters are still alive, aged 80 and 79.
@Kandae11 (53695)
21 Dec 17
@jaboUK I also had two sisters - the eldest passed away in the summer of 2016.
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@Scrapper88 (5957)
• United States
20 Dec 17
My grandparent got married in the early 30's. They use to tell stories like this to their family. I could sit for hours listening to their stories.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Dec 17
I was lucky to have grandparents who told stories too, but I wished I'd asked more questions.
@rebelann (111306)
• El Paso, Texas
22 Dec 17
What an adorable trio. Your mom was special.
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@rebelann (111306)
• El Paso, Texas
23 Dec 17
Thank you @jaboUK I hope your's will be full of delight.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
23 Dec 17
She was indeed. I hope you have a good Christmas
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
20 Dec 17
I love it when you tell a story in your poems @jaboUK . This is sooooo good and you 3 are cute as buttons.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Dec 17
Thanks Nanette, I do like to tell a story
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
20 Dec 17
@nanette64 Thank you
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
20 Dec 17
@jaboUK Dang good at it too,
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@DianneN (247219)
• United States
28 Dec 17
What a darling photo and lovely poem. Your mom gave you wonderful memories to cherish during that awful period.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
28 Dec 17
Thank you Dianne - yes we were lucky to have such a wonderful mother.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
28 Dec 17
@DianneN Thank you Dianne
@DianneN (247219)
• United States
28 Dec 17
@jaboUK Belated Merry Christmas to you, too!
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
22 Dec 17
I love that photo. Your mother did take a lot of care to make things special for you all. I too have a Raggedy Ann doll which my mother made Wishing you all the joy and peace that Christmas heralds.Have a wonderful celebration .
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
23 Dec 17
Do you still have your doll? I wish I did. Happy Christmas to you too Arundhati
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
23 Dec 17
@responsiveme That's exactly what my mother did - she made all our clothes, and the scraps were used for toys.
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• India
23 Dec 17
@jaboUK I do have my doll and two others , they are there at my parents place inside a wardrobe. My mom would make clothes for them too from the scraps that were left from the dresses she made for me
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@Surock786 (160)
22 Dec 17
cute picture
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
23 Dec 17
Thank you
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23 Dec 17
@jaboUK always welcome my friend
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• Kathmandu, Nepal
1 Jan 18
How cute is that photo? what a nice childhood memory.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
1 Jan 18
Thank you, that was about 75 years ago
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• Kathmandu, Nepal
1 Jan 18
@jaboUK too long time.
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