“Are you AFRAID to DIE?” If I am going to…

@Shavkat (137238)
Philippines
April 22, 2018 1:58am CST
…answer this question, I will definitely say that I am not afraid to die. I had noticed that most of the discussions posted are about the death of their loved ones. I don't have a low opinion in sharing such sentiments about death. In fact, when my father died three years ago, I had seen how he struggled and had his last breath. At first, I am in a feeling of big fear to lose him. I think it is normal to undergo such feeling. In the end, the beauty of death comes along with the moment of acceptance. Thus, I am not afraid to die. “How about you, guys?” “Are you afraid to die?” Image Credit: Shavkat
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
22 Apr 18
I am afraid to die but I would want to die like my grandma. That is the way I want to die because I do not want anyone to cry for me.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
22 Apr 18
How did your granny die? If I may ask. I also wanted to die peacefully and not to feel hurt before closing my eyes.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
23 Apr 18
@mlgen1037 I hope that you can dream about her. In fact, I randomly dream about my late father. I think he is still looking after us. I assumed he is not at peace because of what his siblings doing to us.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
23 Apr 18
@Shavkat She didnt suffer much. She just had a headached that is all but no major diseases. I still miss her and writing that made me think of her. She would show herself to me thru my dreams and tell me that she misses us too as if she was alive. But you are right, she is in good hands and so is your dad. They are the ones watching us from above.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
22 Apr 18
I would rather stay healthy and live long and prosper.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
22 Apr 18
@Shavkat Age is just a number. If we are healthy and productive then life is great.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
23 Apr 18
@1hopefulman I do agree with you. As long as we still alive, we can still be productive.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
22 Apr 18
I do like the positivity. I wanted to do all good things in life before having my last breath. But then, I don't want to reach my granny's age at present. She is 99 and turning 100 in June this year.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
24 Apr 18
I don't like to die yet. I still have to see a lot of things and experience some stages in my life. As to my bedridden father who has a liver cancer, I am ready to lose him if it means liberating him completely from his pains relative to his cancer.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
25 Apr 18
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
24 Apr 18
I have the same thinking. I need to achieve all those personal dreams. Now, I am still working hard for them. It is all for my family.
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@LadyDuck (459552)
• Switzerland
22 Apr 18
No, I am not afraid to die, I am afraid at the idea to become so sick not to enjoy life anymore. In this case I think it's a lot better to die.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
22 Apr 18
I also think that if I die, I don't need to suffer. It is not the gradual way of dying. It should be peacefully and not suffer.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
23 Apr 18
@LadyDuck I agree. I had seen some patients who are in the convalescent stage. They had suffered in weeks before meeting our creator.
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@LadyDuck (459552)
• Switzerland
23 Apr 18
@Shavkat I have seen people suffering for years, I think that Heaven and Hell are in this life.
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@theBlock (2657)
• United States
23 Apr 18
@Shavkat No, I'm not. If I go ... I go. I lived a good life.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
24 Apr 18
That would be desirable to live in a good life before saying good bye to our world.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
22 Apr 18
Yes, I am afraid to die.. but of course we can't control that
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
22 Apr 18
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
22 Apr 18
I do think that most people will have the same notion. It cannot be denied that it will happen in time.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
22 Apr 18
@Shavkat Yes that's right
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• Pamplona, Spain
22 Apr 18
For me its the way in which you can die that does not compute with me. I am not afraid to die in itself but the way in which you can say of terrible illnesses yes in a way.
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• Pamplona, Spain
24 Apr 18
@Shavkat Best way to go out of this world its much being ill before and knowing and fearing what can happen I reckon anyway.
@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
23 Apr 18
As for me, if I die, I wanted to be peaceful. Moreover, I don't want to die by accident, too.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
22 Apr 18
I will be lying if i tell you that I am not afraid of dying.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
22 Apr 18
It is a common first reaction, my friend.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
22 Apr 18
I am not afraid to die. But I am more concerned of my kids if and when I die so I am praying that the Lord give me more time with them.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
22 Apr 18
I do think that most parents will think this concern. I remembered how desperate my late father wished that he can still live longer. He simply wanted to see his granddaughter to grow.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
23 Apr 18
@rakski That's what I had seen to my late father's eyes before he has his last breath. He wanted to live for his family.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
23 Apr 18
@Shavkat oh yes that is for sure. This is mostly the concern of parents. Even we are all ready to die, seeing our kids to do good in their future will always be our set back.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
22 Apr 18
I am not afraid to die, when my time comes I will be glad to see my family again.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
30 Apr 18
@Shavkat There is and they will all be waiting
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
30 Apr 18
@cintol I always believed that they are angels.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
30 Apr 18
@Shavkat Never doubt, I know there are!
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
25 Apr 18
I believe that most people are not afraid to die what they are afraid of is how they die
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
30 Apr 18
Exactly, my friend. But then, it is a part of life to experience such pain. Jesus had his time of being in pain before.
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
30 Apr 18
@Shavkat Even when it is a part of life, trust me no one wants to die. I don't want to
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@pitsipeahie (4342)
22 Apr 18
Yes, I am. I am afraid to die. The thought of it scares me but we all leave this earth anyways...
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
24 Apr 18
What makes you feel scared? I would rather die sudden though.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
24 Apr 18
@pitsipeahie That's what we also felt. I think she didn't suffer.
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24 Apr 18
Sorry to know that. It was sudden but at least she didn't have to suffer long.
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@ivanituut (1934)
22 Apr 18
For now because i don't yet achieve my goals in life
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@ivanituut (1934)
22 Apr 18
@Shavkat sorry for you loss, yes i agree with you
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
23 Apr 18
@ivanituut It is fine. It happens for a reason.
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@ivanituut (1934)
23 Apr 18
@Shavkat absolutely
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@Anne88 (323)
• Canlubang, Philippines
23 Apr 18
I am afraid to die because I don't want my loved ones to be sad. I also do not want to be forgotten.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
24 Apr 18
If I die. I wanted to die with a legacy.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
24 Apr 18
@Anne88 I had started before. I wanted to continue working with an international NGO. I want to transfer my skills who needs it.
As a human, we have our own passion and interest. I was teaching Korean students in one of the biggest academies in the city. Then, I had acquainted with my...
@Anne88 (323)
• Canlubang, Philippines
24 Apr 18
@Shavkat Wow. What kind of legacy do you want to leave behind? How would you like people to remember you?
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@snowy22315 (170663)
• United States
22 Apr 18
I am not especially afraid to die, I just don't want to suffer.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
24 Apr 18
I also don’t want to die with sufferings.
• Calgary, Alberta
23 Apr 18
If Vampires are real, I would have let one infect me just to get immortal.
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• Calgary, Alberta
23 Apr 18
@Shavkat Well at this moment I am happy alone so it won't be an issue to me. I am not really a family person. I just want to be alive until the day of the apocalypse.
@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
23 Apr 18
@CaptAlbertWhisker I have the same status. I just give all my love to the immediate family.
@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
23 Apr 18
I don't want to be immortal. All the people that I love will not be seen anymore. I will be left behind. Even if there is a fountain of youth.
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
24 Apr 18
I'm not afraid of dying. But i'm afraid of losing my loved ones.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
28 Apr 18
I have the same feeling. Now, I am trying to weigh things up.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
23 Apr 18
It depends on how its planned to come one shot no worries but slowly then definitely its something to be scared off.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
23 Apr 18
@nitirrbb7 In my religion context, it is not acceptable to kill oneself. I am not going further because it is a long story.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
24 Apr 18
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
23 Apr 18
@Shavkat Yes Shavkat with all due respect to all the religions in the world it is never acceptable in any religion
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@SRSaba (1128)
• Chennai, India
22 Apr 18
No, im not.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
30 Apr 18
Same here!
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
4 May 18
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@SRSaba (1128)
• Chennai, India
3 May 18
@Shavkat Wow! Good..
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@porwest (78759)
• United States
22 Apr 18
I am terrified by it. I have too much to live for, and I enjoy life even despite the fact that it can sometimes be difficult.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
30 Apr 18
Indeed, my friend. If we think it is not time to die, then we need to live the fullest. Moreover, we cannot control this if God decided to end our life.
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